Jan the Beautiful

I only see negativity on these sites. I want my life to be private and drama free. I have a cell phone; i can reach people who i am connected to.

Black women have advanced through life and society in these last 400 years. We are college educated, inventors, and pioneers... but for some reason we are unable to get married. We raise our children with or without help and we are created the statement" we make a way out of no way". Black women were taught to come on strong, because if we did not people will attempt to walk all over us. No negative connotations... just your opinions.

Words can be negative, positive, or neutral.... just describe us from your perception.

I wonder why women degrade themselves by posing king or other exploitative magazines. If we carry ourselves with dignity and pride then men and others will have no other choice but to respect us. I get called stuck up because I do not agree with the weave, fake lashes/booty, and spandex get up.

This movie is not original at all. Didn't we already see this one? Oh, it was called Fatal Attraction. The only good actors in this movie is ali larter and jerry O'Connell. What do you think?

I just met someone who seems awfully sweet, but I have issues unresolved and Im a mess! I feel like I am incapable of knowing and appreciating real affection. I feel like spending time with men is hazardous and wasteful! I need help ... whats wrong with me?

I am so happy for her. Her winning just goes to show that real talent can outshine anything. Good for her !

It a girl, these are the lyrics.... yeah i can wind down low act like the girls in the video, and i really like this song. tell me the artist please.

just wanted some diverse opinions

My expectations are changing, and I want to life partner will someday be my husband. I love sex, but its meaningless when I have it. I have been celibate for almost a month. I just want close and supreme level of understanding with a man. Does anyone else feel that way?

Why do some light skinned people feel the need to disown their black features by calling themselves creole....when they are not?

I am sick of R. kelly , because he so cliche and fake. Have you listened to his music lately.... it is not R&B at all. He has been awaiting trial.... he believes that what he did was right ...listen to Raheem Davaugh remix to customers. He makes vague references to his real good lemonade... R. Kelly is a monster. He refers to himself as an R&B thug.... come on I remember R. kelly with the bald head, leather pants, and ugly sunglasses.

People say that its offensive and degrading... but how about the other ten million words we use in our english language.... phuck is a offensive... let's shun people for using that huh... if we want people to respect us... let's take out all profane or offensive language. I happen to like to N word... it represents a friend, boyfriend, or a group of people . Say what you want... i bet cha you can't whoop me.

After watching snipets from the view..... I realized that she can be a rude a little twit. She literally tried to imply Barack is semi racist towards the whites based on the statements of his former pastor. This was the straw the broke the camel's back for me..... she is feeble and vain.

She is entirely too skinny. If brad likes it... hell i love it.

I hate when people say things like O. J. Simpson did not do it, and R. Kelly did not touch those girls. Ooh my god, Michael Jackson is innocent. This is crap. All of these people are freaking sick and demented individuals. Its sickening that people still buy their music and partake in their careers soaring/ My sister said she doesn't care , because it wasn't her son or no one she knew. She has another child on the way, how can you be a parent and not care?

I have never tried to be with them, but I find myself being drawn to them. I love black men, but most of them are not into relationships or goal oriented enough.

I am so sick of people downing and disrepecting the idea of monogamy and love. It exist people, and you just have to work at it. What ever happened to just being with one person? I want it that, do you?

I was in my campus cafe , and this 26 year old tried to holler at me. I felt like throwing up. I want someone who is at least 20 and at the most 24. am I wrong.

Not the she was ever curvy, but what's happened to her... she seems anorexic or something. SOmebody please give her a steak.