ready4love

I have a paper debunking Libertarianism that's due tomorrow. 12 pages, and I can't seem to start.

Does anyone have any tips or links that can help me pull myself together?

I have just read several posts INCORRECTLY instructing people to pronounce Oregon as "OR-EH-GON" or even worse "OR-EH-GAN." The right way to say the word is "Organ" or "Org-in." Please, I beg you, don't pronounce the "e." This is a surefire way to identify yourself as an easterner, or a Californian.

For those who noticed the "OR-Y-GON" shirts and bumper stickers... that's us being sarcastic.

By boyfriend can't stay hard without kink. We've been dating for almost two years now, and after over a year of super rough sex, I'm beginning to think that this is more of a sexual crutch than a fun fetish.

I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, and we have tried many times, but we have always failed. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and "encourage him" so we can finish or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

I'm really trying to be understanding and supportive, but I'm tired of bad sex and I feel like I'm running out of options.

Would it be unreasonable to suggest Vigrx plus (a Viagra-like herbal aphrodisiac)? If I do this, how do I bring it up so that I don't injure his ego too badly? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings, but I do want to start having mutually satisfying intercourse with him. Please help.

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

My boyfriend needs to thrust very quickly in order to orgasm. Sometimes he needs my verbal encouragement in order to maintain an erection. I don't mind talking dirty to him occasionally, in fact, sometimes I like it. But after over a year of rough and dirty sex, I'm beginning to feel like this might be a sexual crutch instead of a fun fetish.

I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, and we have tried many times, but we have always failed. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and "encourage him" so we can finish or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

Both options suck.

The problem is twofold, the first is that it is difficult for him to stay hard. The second is that he is of less than average size, which, from my point of view only compounds the bad sex problem.

Despite all of this, I really love him and I really love being sexual with him. More importantly, I want to please him and I want him to be able to please me.

With this in mind, i was thinking of suggesting a natural (herbal) male supplement to him, called VIGrx Plus. How can I do this without crushing his manhood/confidence? I don't want him to feel like I'm not attracted to him (I am) or that I don't want to be with him (I do).

I desperately want to be able to have good sex with my boyfriend, and I feel like I'm out of other options. Please help.

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

The truth is that the sex has never been mind-blowing. Sometimes it has been pretty good, but he needs to thrust really hard and fast in order to orgasm and I need more of an emotional connection. (Occasionally, I love his kinky side, but after a while a girl starts to crave romance.) I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, but with no luck. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and encourage him -- moan, talk dirty etc.-- in order to get him hard again or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

At first, I thought the problem was his size -- he is a little smaller than most men, and I assumed that this was the reason he needed more stimulation. However, I found out recently that that's not the case. Apparently, small men don't need any extra friction.

After thinking about it for a while, I've realized that since we started dating he has gotten out of shape AND started smoking. I know that both are bad for his circulation and sex drive so I'm thinking that this might be the cause of the unsatisfying sex.

I would never tell my boyfriend anything to hurt his feelings or ego, but on the other hand I don't want to be stuck reciting porn stories to him for the rest of our sexual relationship. Should I tell him that his bad habits are hurting our sex life? Or should I let it be? If I do talk to him about it, how do I bring it up in a kind way?

Also, I should mention, he has been talking about getting back in shape and quitting smoking for ages. I wonder if this conversation is the motivation he needs, or if I should just give up?

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

The truth is that the sex has never been mind-blowing. Sometimes it has been pretty good, but he needs to thrust really hard and fast in order to orgasm and I need more of an emotional connection. (Occasionally, I love his kinky side, but after a while a girl starts to crave romance.) I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, but with no luck. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and encourage him -- moan, talk dirty etc.-- in order to get him hard again or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

At first, I thought the problem was his size -- he is a little smaller than most men, and I assumed that this was the reason he needed more stimulation. However, I found out recently that that's not the case. Apparently, small men don't need any extra friction.

After thinking about it for a while, I've realized that since we started dating he has gotten out of shape AND started smoking. I know that both are bad for his circulation and sex drive so I'm thinking that this might be the cause of the unsatisfying sex.

I would never tell my boyfriend anything to hurt his feelings or ego, but on the other hand I don't want to be stuck reciting porn stories to him for the rest of our sexual relationship. Should I tell him that his bad habits are hurting our sex life? Or should I let it be? If I do talk to him about it, how do I bring it up in a kind way?

Also, I should mention, he has been talking about getting back in shape and quitting smoking for ages. I wonder if this conversation is the motivation he needs, or if I should just give up?

My boyfriend of two years has been trying to quit for ages. He was NOT a smoker when we started dating, and since he started smoking he has a lower sex drive, bad circulation, and has gotten out of shape. It's wreaking havoc on our sex life.

Is there a nice way that I can encourage him without sounding like a nag?

My boyfriend of two years has been trying to quit for ages. He was NOT a smoker when we started dating, and since he started smoking he has a lower sex drive, bad circulation, and has gotten out of shape. It's wreaking havoc on our sex life.

Is there a nice way that I can encourage him without sounding like a nag?

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

The truth is that the sex has never been mind-blowing. Sometimes it has been pretty good, but he needs to thrust really hard and fast in order to orgasm and I need more of an emotional connection. (Occasionally, I love his kinky side, but after a while a girl starts to crave romance.) I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, but with no luck. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and encourage him -- moan, talk dirty etc.-- in order to get him hard again or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

At first, I thought the problem was his size -- he is a little smaller than most men, and I assumed that this was the reason he needed more stimulation. However, I found out recently that that's not the case. Apparently, small men don't need any extra friction.

After thinking about it for a while, I've realized that since we started dating he has gotten out of shape AND started smoking. I know that both are bad for his circulation and sex drive so I'm thinking that this might be the cause of the unsatisfying sex.

I would never tell my boyfriend anything to hurt his feelings or ego, but on the other hand I don't want to be stuck reciting porn stories to him for the rest of our sexual relationship. Should I tell him that his bad habits are hurting our sex life? Or should I let it be? If I do talk to him about it, how do I bring it up in a kind way?

Also, I should mention, he has been talking about getting back in shape and quitting smoking for ages. I wonder if this conversation is the motivation he needs, or if I should just give up?

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

The truth is that the sex has never been mind-blowing. Sometimes it has been pretty good, but he needs to thrust really hard and fast in order to orgasm and I need more of an emotional connection. (Occasionally, I love his kinky side, but after a while a girl starts to crave romance.) I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, but with no luck. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and encourage him -- moan, talk dirty etc.-- in order to get him hard again or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

At first, I thought the problem was his size -- he is a little smaller than most men, and I assumed that this was the reason he needed more stimulation. However, I found out recently that that's not the case. Apparently, small men don't need any extra friction.

After thinking about it for a while, I've realized that since we started dating he has gotten out of shape AND started smoking. I know that both are bad for his circulation and sex drive so I'm thinking that this might be the cause of the unsatisfying sex.

I would never tell my boyfriend anything to hurt his feelings or ego, but on the other hand I don't want to be stuck reciting porn stories to him for the rest of our sexual relationship. Should I tell him that his bad habits are hurting our sex life? Or should I let it be? If I do talk to him about it, how do I bring it up in a kind way?

Also, I should mention, he has been talking about getting back in shape and quitting smoking for ages. I wonder if this conversation is the motivation he needs, or if I should just give up?

I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and we have a very strong relationship. The only area that worries me is our sex life...

My boyfriend needs to thrust very quickly in order to orgasm. Sometimes he needs my verbal encouragement in order to maintain an erection. I don't mind talking dirty to him occasionally, in fact, sometimes I like it. But after over a year of rough and dirty sex, I'm beginning to feel like this might be a sexual crutch instead of a fun fetish.

I have talked with my boyfriend about my desire to have slower more intimate sex, and we have tried many times, but we have always failed. That is to say, we have "made love" until he starts to get flaccid, at which point I will either a) give up and encourage him to think of his own pleasure first or b) continue to try fruitlessly for a while until he, embarrassed and humiliated, retreats to his side of the bed.

Both options suck.

Perhaps it should be mentioned that he is slightly smaller than most men, and I wonder if this might be part of the problem. (Do smaller men need more/faster stimulation?)

Will my boyfriend and I ever be able to make love like a normal couple? Or am I stuck reciting porn stories the rest of my sexual life?