bride-to-be

I already have my opinion on this, but I would like some others.

Scenario:

A very very slim, skinny woman who is 'soft' to the touch. Soft as in she doesn't really have any muscle, but is petitie

OR

Again, a slim figure but this time with mucles(in her arms, legs, stomach, back). Someone who doesn't neccessarily have to 'flex' just to see her abs.

BTW, I would like answers from both male and female. I am not looking for someone to say one is hotter than the other, I would just like your opinions compared to mine.

he has issues with my past...past as in before we even knew each other..he says he feels 'disgusted' about it...he has a past just like mine, but he doesn't see it that way..

confront him about it?

drop it and leave it alone?

i'm making it like the 12 days of christmas...but its going to be based on things that relate to us--candy canes(we love), penguins, wedding bands, silver bells...any ideas on stuff i can use?

we always do something homemade, along with bought gifts for holidays/special occasions just because it makes us both feel very loved by putting so much work into something

my fiance and i have tried numerous times to concieve..for months, literally

we always try to have sex during my peak of ovulation, but no matter what..i always end up with my period at the end of the month (it is always regular btw)

i'm starting to think there may be something wrong with my ovaries or his sperm..or maybe we're just not compatible with one another..

any suggestions? besides going to an implantation doctor that is!

thanks-

My fiance is at work (second shift & no, we don't live together)...he left his phone bill and all of his information with it at my house today before work....i started looking through it and wish i wouldn't have..i found about four different girls' numbers (other than mine!) numerous times..

i'm going to confront him about it tonight when he gets home from work, but i'm not sure exactly what to say.

i love him dearly, and i know this is wrong of him, but i don't want to leave him over it (if he is willing to stop it)...am i stupid?

what would you do?

the word is something related to sports, fighting, hunting or something like that

here are the letters:

G O T S H L E S R I

and yes, ALL are letters!

I'm getting married in June. My fiance and I are trying to come up with colors and we both really like coral, but we're not sure what color to use with it...and yes, we want two colors!

We also like red and pool blue...

what do you think?

by a significant other, husband/wife, partner or whatever you call it?

What did they do to you, or say? I would like details please?

...and how did you get out or what did you do?

I know the only way to determine if I'm pregnant or not is to take a pregnancy test (home or doctor), but I'm not sure if it will show up yet. I'm not expecting my period for 2 weeks and I never have any PMS or anything because of my birth control..but I've been feeling/acting really strange.

I'm also on an antidepressany so I normally NEVER get moody or emotional. Here are some of my symptoms:

-restless legs (can't keep them still)

-unable to sleep

-urinating at all hours (night & day)

-really strange dreams (i never dream)

-uncontrollable hunger

-swollen boobs (not sore though)

do any of these seem like pregnancy symptoms??

my fiance works, and makes really good money.

for my birthday, i saw nothing..no card, no gift, not even a 'happy birthday sweetie'

well, his birthday is coming up and he keeps dropping hints about what he wants..well, i'm really not sure whether i should buy him anything or not...i'm leaning more towards not...

what do you think?

My fiance and I had a couple of problems about 3 months ago. We had our wedding set for December, but had to move it to February because of my FAFSA. Well, we've both been really excited about planning, until last night. He told me that he didn't want to get married until he felt like he used to. I understand that he doesn't want to get married yet if his feelings are different; but he was the one who picked the date (after we got over our problems).

What should I do?

All opinions would be greatly appreciated!

I was just diagnosed with depression and my doctor prescribed me zoloft. I've been overwhelmed with stress and all I seem to do anymore is cry. I just started the medicine two days ago and I've done quite a bit of research on the drug. I was just wondering if anyone else has taken it or knows someone else who has taken it, and if they've had any severe problems or complications?

I'm getting married on Valentine's Day in 2009. I know flowers are going to be extremely expensive, that is why I am trying to use as little as possible. I will be carrying a bouquet of red roses, probably 2 dozen, fully opened. But I'm not sure what to have my bridesmaids carry. They are wearing red, strapless dresses, a little below the knee. I thought about kissing balls, but that includes flowers too!

Suggestions, please!

My father has never been a big part of my life. He and my mother divorced when I was 2 and after that, I was lucky to see him once a month or even on the holidays. When the time came to 'pop the question,' my fiance asked my mother for permission and approval, but not my father. Now, people have been running back to him telling him when my wedding date is and he decided he wants to be part of my life. He called me a week ago and told me how I didn't need to get married, he doesn't approve, etc. and I hung up on him. He has called numerous times since then and I haven't answered. He won't be paying for a thing at the wedding, so I really don't feel bad at all. Now I'm unsure of what to do. Should I keep ignoring him? Should I try to involve him? Should I even listen to him opinion (I think not because he knows nothing about me or my fiance)? Who should walk me down the aisle?

Answer honestly please & I'll return the favor!

I have decided to get a tattoo in about a month..i would like a short quote from the Bible about love and i have a few in mind..but i would like your thoughts..what are some beautiful verses you like?

also, where do i get this..i'm thinking side or wrist (if it is small)

OK, so my fiance and I were planning on getting married in December. But some problems came up with my financial aid (I'm still in college and I can't really afford to pay full tuition and we don't want to take out loans) so we have to change our wedding date. I want to reschedule as soon as possible and I was wondering what you all think about a Valentine's Day wedding? Is it too cheesy? Or should I even bother since its a very important holiday for couples?

Give me your advice no matter how harsh/nice it may be.

Thanks & I'll return the favor!

I'm getting married around noon in December, so for our reception, we wanted to do very simple foods. Instead of a meal, we want what they call a tea-party reception (without the tea!). We are going to have cake and want to serve hot chocolate and apple cider for drinks, but are clueless on the foods we need. Help, please?

We decided together, right after we got engaged, that we didn't want to have parties. The only things we want to do is a bridal shower and rehersal dinner. How can we make sure our maids and groomsmen don't 'suprise' us? Or better yet, how can we tell them we don't want bachelor/bachelorette parties?

Our date is December 13th and we thinking about 1:00 or 2:00 in the day. At our reception, we want simple foods. Maybe 'finger foods' like vegetable trays or something like that; but we really want them to go along with our winter theme. Also, you can give us ideas for decorating the church, etc. Just give me some great ideas that will make our big day perfect!