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  • Does He Still Care About Me?

    Here is my situation: There is this guy (we will call him Rick). Rick and I dated for a period of time, and things were going great. We were always honest with each other, and trust was actually what we based our relationship upon. However, one day he just cut himself off completely. We didn't talk again for a month. When he finally confronted me, he told me that he cut himself off because he was afraid that things might have been getting out of hand and that he was worried about our age difference (Rick is 18 and I am 16). We had been serious about the relationship, but "physically" kept a distance for obvious reasons like the age difference. A couple days later, we were talking and he admitted to me that the reasons for why he cut himself off were completely selfish and that if two people both wanted something together, neither one of them should interfere. He then apologized and I forgave him of it. He seemed like he was serious and wanted things to go back to the way they were before (he had also told one of my friends that he wanted everything to be normal again), but now I can't tell if he really meant it or not. His actions seem to vary. For example, when we are together around other people he will only speak to me if he thinks something is upsetting me or if it's really important. He will also hang out with a lot of other girls. I know that we aren't in a relationship anymore, and I'm not the type of person to get jealous. He is just a flirty type of guy, and I accept that of him. However, the only other time he acknowledges me in public is whenever he looks at me. He will just look at me not saying a word, but his eyes will be screaming that he wants to be with me and be there for me. In difference, when we are alone, we will have our normal conversations, joke around and everything else will be just like it was except for the fact that we don't pretend like we are still in a relationship. You now may be wondering what the issue is. Well, here is my problem: I love Rick. I have loved him since I first time talked to him. (Please no comments saying that I have no idea what love is because I do. I have learned the difference between true love and crush love.) He will occasionally say "I love you" when we are alone, but sometimes his actions prove it and other times not. I can't figure out whether he really cares for me or not, and I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because I'm scared that he might not feel the same way. I have tried to move on, but I just can't. Does he still care for me? And What do you think I should do?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Boyfriend's Family..... HELP!!!!!?

    My boyfriend and I are perfect for each other. We have been dating for a little over 6 months now, and everything is perfect. Well, almost everything at least. His entire family loves me except for his cousin. Normally, I wouldn't be too concerned if it were just any cousin, but this cousin is like an older brother to my boyfriend. I have never actually met this cousin because after three conversations over the phone, my boyfriend decided that his cousin and I would never meet. That is how much his cousin hates me. I'm not too keen of his cousin either, but I really want this relationship to work out. Please do not say that family shouldn't matter because that is the first thing on my boyfriend's list. Family comes first. How can I get this relationship to work between my boyfriend's cousin and I?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • What do you do if the boy you love is the boy you hate?

    My ex- boyfriend and I had I really close relationship, but I recently broke it off because I felt as if the relationship was not working out. He "loves" me, but for the longest time I didn't feel the same way about him. Now it has been a month since I last talked to him. The only problem is that I'm going insane because I really do feel like I love him. What should I do? Should I try to get in touch with him again?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • What do Italian guys like in girls?

    I'm just wondering because I know this Italian guy and I wonder if he might like me.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • What should I do??? I'm so confused!!!!!!?

    I met this guy... He is really sweet and kind. He lives in Italy and I live in the United States. We have become quite good friends, but I think things might be getting more serious. We are somewhat in a long- distance relationship. He doesn't speak much English, so I have been teaching him during our webcam sessions. He is really starting to grow on me. I feel like I like him, yet I don't know.

    There is only one problem though. He knows my ex- boyfriend. My ex- boyfriend is also Italian. He still loves me though. I feel as if I have feelings for him, but I also really like this new guy. Here is some background on my ex- boyfriend.

    My ex is a sweet, loving, and caring guy who is too willing too do things for me. He tells me he loves me every night, and he is always there for me. However, he is a control freak. He gets mad if I don't respond to his messages/ phone calls. He also thinks all of my friends are stupid and mean nothing to me. He even said this to my best friend's face. He still loves me though. He also wants to be in a relationship with me again because our first break- up was a "misunderstanding."

    I do not know what I should do. Should I go back to my old boyfriend, or should I continue getting to know the guy I video chat with, even though I have never met him face- to- face. Please help me!!!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • I need some advice...?

    I have guy problems. I'm just going to cut the crap, and get straight to the point. Three guys like me. One I dated for 2 years. He says he loves me, but all he wants to talk about is sex, us having sex, and more sex. I'm starting to get the feeling that he only wants me for my body. Plus, he lives in another state. Guy number 2 I dated for 16 weeks. He also claims to love me (He is much more convincing). He says that he loved me ever since we first kissed at a carnival he took me to (It was really romantic). I was even talking to his cousin once. He said that all my ex talked about was me. He is really sweet. He buys me gifts all the time, and all he wants to do is spend time with me while treating me like a queen. He even reminds me about every 5 minutes of how much he loves me. Finally guy number 3. Guy number 3 also reminds me that he loves me every time he says hello and goodbye to me. "It was love at first site," he claims. I have yet to date him even though I have some feelings for him because he is slightly awkward. His friends tell me I am all he ever talks about. He takes me to dinner even though we aren't a couple.

    Uggh... I just don't know what to do. I am not currently dating any of them right now, but I still have feelings for them. Please help I am stuck.

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • How can I become known?

    I am an amateur photographer, and I would like to become known by more people. Hopefully leading towards a job in the future. Does anyone have any advice on how I could do this? I am 14 yrs old.

    2 AnswersPhotography1 decade ago
  • Guys Only!!! Guys Only!!!!?

    What is it that you look for in a girl? Will give Best Answer! I need to find out why I'm still single! What do you like about girls?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • How can I feel pain at the heart?

    I feel no pain no suffering and no sorrow. I also feel no happiness and no love. I feel nothing. I miss crying every night. How can I be sad again. I've tried everything believe me. That is no exaggeration. I need someone to tell me how I can have feelings and emotions again. Please no comments saying that I need to get help or that it's not possible to feel nothing because I have tried getting help and all I feel is emptiness.

    3 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • Please Help Me!!!!!!?

    Okay, so I need some serious help. 1. I am obsessed with my weight. I don't know when it started, but it's been going on for a while. I keep wanting to fast and/or skip meals. This is mainly because I eat all the time. That is not an exaggeration. People keep saying that they are jealous of how skinny I am, but I always feel 10-20 pounds overweight. I am 14 1/2 years old, and I am 97.2 pounds. Am I too skinny or should I lose more weight. If I should lose weight please tell me how. 2. I love this certain guy, and I know he loves me back. We've dated publicly before, but now we secretly date because there is another guy who is in love with me, and whenever I go out with another guy, he and one of my previous ex-boyfriends get extremely pissed off at me. When this happens they won't leave me alone, and they sabotage every relationship I've been in. Another reason why we are privately dating is because my parents hate him. He is the best guy I have ever met, and we've been dating/ secretly dating for a year and a half now. What should I do??? P.S. His best friend said he was gonna propose to me either on Valentines Day or my next birthday. He's so sweet! Even if he does, what should I do? My parents think don't even know I'm dating at all. How would I tell them I'm getting married after high school?

    12 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Is this really what God wants me to do?

    Okay, I've been praying to God about what he wants me to do to follow his will. Now everywhere I go I see or hear something that relates to either China or children. I also have been feeling very strongly about missions. I even asked God to send me a sign, and the next morning I saw a figure of light on the wall very similar to an arch angel. Am I right about God wanting me to go to China as a missionary to the children???

    13 AnswersReligion & Spirituality1 decade ago
  • I feel like God is calling me to do something, but I'm not sure what?

    Lately, I have felt the Lord working in my heart. I really feel like He is calling me do serve him, but Im not sure how. I have prayed about it.

    10 AnswersReligion & Spirituality1 decade ago
  • what is the fastest way to lose weight?

    I already exercise and eat healthy with small portions

    i weigh 100lbs and am 5'2"

    no im not anorexic i just have stomach fat

    need to lose about 10 pounds

    5 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago
  • Weight Issues...HELP!!!?

    I exercise a lot and I eat healthy plus i dont eat a lot so how come im not losing weight??? I'm 14 yrs old 100lbs and 5'2"

    3 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago
  • what crash diets works the best?

    i need to lose weight fast i already exercise and eat healthy so now imma try this please help me i have two weeks to lose weight

    27 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago
  • What is the fastest way to lose 15lbs?

    Please help I need to lose 15lbs in order to be in shape for a show I have in a week I am going to be on stage so I need to look good

    4 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago
  • I am 14 years old I way about 100lbs and I am about 5'2" what is the fastest way I can loose weight?

    Please I need to loose weight I always feel fat and even though ppl say im skinny i still feel fat I want to lose at least ten pounds PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! I will do almost anything to lose the weight but i dont have a lot of time to exercise

    5 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago