wintersnow

No one ever says anything to me. No matter what I say or do I get no response. I sent aunt and uncle private messages saying Hello and got no response. I get no response no matter what.

No matter who it is, no response. Why am I being ignored?

someone you Hate and wish they would go away because they are so

hateful and rude and unpleasant to live with.

And its causing all kinds of problems. These bums don't work, they just drink and party all the time and bum off whoever they can. One of them is the neighbors son whose 22 years old. He goes off to his step sisters house (her and her boyfriend) and my son goes with them. When my son gets back he is rude and wants to argue and defend his friends. These are bad people. But my son will be 19 soon and goes off with them. Okay fine. The trouble starts when these Bums start expecting Me to do stuff for them, like give them rides. No Way! Then my son gets mad when I don't do for his friends. And it causes arguments and trouble. Its not my responsibility to take care of these bums. And I simply won't do it. But they go on and on about it, don't want to take no for an answer. But still I won't do anything for them. The 22 year old neighbor has a 17 year old girlfriend Bum living with them too. She is going through a divorce and her ex has the baby. Its just a big mess with bad people. But my son thinks they are great, walk on water and all this. He can't see they are bums and just trying to use him for money. They used my sons 6 dollars to buy cigarettes and dip. Said they would pay him back but never did. Now my son wants to pawn stuff. Please Please Please Someone Help Me!!! What should I do? My son gets so angry against us, in favor of "his friends". I know its illegal to give beer to a minor under 21. But Not sure when the drinking is going on, so don't know how to bust them for that. How to stop this? Again... How can this be stopped? Any ideas? Please Help? Remember the 22 year old bums off his mom and step father, they even let him move in his bum girlfriend. They don't work. They just spend life bumming off people and its a cycle. They think they can bum off me but No I'm not like that at all. They got mad and had all this drama tonight when they said they had no gas to take my son home, but wanted me to pick all of them up and take them home. I said No, I will just pick up my son and thats it. Then all the drama. And my son might can get a ride home tomorrow so never mind. Then called again don't know about rides. Then I just said if my son is not home tomorrow I will pick him up and only him. They are mad because I won't let them bum off me. Them living beside me is Not the point. The point is they should take responsibility for themselves they are in their 20's. Its no ones job to take care of them. Its a bum cycle with them and I won't be a part of it. I honestly don't even know them. And don't want to know them either. I just know they bum off people.

And its causing all kinds of problems. These bums don't work, they just drink and party all the time and bum off whoever they can. One of them is the neighbors son whose 22 years old. He goes off to his step sisters house (her and her boyfriend) and my son goes with them. When my son gets back he is rude and wants to argue and defend his friends. These are bad people. But my son will be 19 soon and goes off with them. Okay fine. The trouble starts when these Bums start expecting Me to do stuff for them, like give them rides. No Way! Then my son gets mad when I don't do for his friends. And it causes arguments and trouble. Its not my responsibility to take care of these bums. And I simply won't do it. But they go on and on about it, don't want to take no for an answer. But still I won't do anything for them. The 22 year old neighbor has a 17 year old girlfriend Bum living with them too. She is going through a divorce and her ex has the baby. Its just a big mess with bad people. But my son thinks they are great, walk on water and all this. He can't see they are bums and just trying to use him for money. They used my sons 6 dollars to buy cigarettes and dip. Said they would pay him back but never did. Now my son wants to pawn stuff. Please Please Please Someone Help Me!!! What should I do? My son gets so angry against us, in favor of "his friends". I know its illegal to give beer to a minor under 21. But Not sure when the drinking is going on, so don't know how to bust them for that. How to stop this? Again... How can this be stopped? Any ideas? Please Help?

And its causing all kinds of problems. These bums don't work, they just drink and party all the time and bum off whoever they can. One of them is the neighbors son whose 22 years old. He goes off to his step sisters house (her and her boyfriend) and my son goes with them. When my son gets back he is rude and wants to argue and defend his friends. These are bad people. But my son will be 19 soon and goes off with them. Okay fine. The trouble starts when these Bums start expecting Me to do stuff for them, like give them rides. No Way! Then my son gets mad when I don't do for his friends. And it causes arguments and trouble. Its not my responsibility to take care of these bums. And I simply won't do it. But they go on and on about it, don't want to take no for an answer. But still I won't do anything for them. The 22 year old neighbor has a 17 year old girlfriend Bum living with them too. She is going through a divorce and her ex has the baby. Its just a big mess with bad people. But my son thinks they are great, walk on water and all this. He can't see they are bums and just trying to use him for money. They used my sons 6 dollars to buy cigarettes and dip. Said they would pay him back but never did. Now my son wants to pawn stuff. Please Please Please Someone Help Me!!! What should I do? My son gets so angry against us, in favor of "his friends". I know its illegal to give beer to a minor under 21. But Not sure when the drinking is going on, so don't know how to bust them for that. How to stop this? Again... How can this be stopped? Any ideas? Please Help?

you feel like stumbling out into the woods and hanging yourself

because you tried and tried but nothing is working out right, your stuck

and you see no way. And you've prayed and prayed and even God

has not shown signs of real help as of yet? Please pray for me.

serious question.

I have dry chapped skin because of the cold. I just put lotion on my face but it burns.

Help?

My cousin is always clingy to my mom. Always asking my mom to do stuff with her. Then my Aunt (the cousins mom) ends up going with them too. My cousin asked my mom to go to the black friday sales with her and my aunt is going too. I want to go with my mom too. Since I've never been to a black friday sale before. How do I go over to my moms house and go with them without looking bad? and looking like I'm tagging along? My cousin tries to hide it, but I can tell she is extremely jealous of me for some reason and gets mad when I want to go somewhere with them. She thinks its all about her. So I feel weird and awkward about this situation. They also have a friend from work that goes with them from time to time. So I don't know if the friend from work is going or not. Only 4 can fit in the car comfortable and my cousin complains about anything just because she can't stand that I go, but don't want to come right out and say it straight. What should I do? Should I be at moms house when she gets off work tonight at 8:00? Because my cousin works at the same place as my mom and will go to my moms after work. Or should I call first?

Or just not go with them at all? How can I do this without looking like a tag along or making myself look bad?

My brother called up saying he's broke for Thanksgiving and does not have anything.

Then his step daughter (who lives with them) posted on facebook about how she's going shopping, posted a big food menu of everything they are cooking for Thanksgiving. So I see how they roll now. For Her side of family they have money.

For our side they are broke. And they always come around for Christmas with their hand out. The lying, freeloading bums. He also said don't get them nothing for Christmas because they can't buy us anything. I bet they are buying for her side of family though. And even though they said not to get them anything - they always show up and seem to expect something anyway. But I'm not getting them anything.

My brother called up saying he's broke for the holidays and does not have anything. Then his step daughter (who lives with them) put on facebook of how she's going shopping and posted her shopping list and menu of all this food they are cooking for Thanksgiving.

Someone just bought an old house and redoing it. You visit them to see it and go to the bathroom. In the bathroom you see a small string on the wall. You pull it and it opens up a secret box with $50,000 cash in it. What do you do?

A. stuff all the money in your purse or in your underwear for the guys

Don't say anything and leave immediately or soon after leaving the bathroom.

So nothing drops out or gets noticed. - You take the money and run.

B. start screaming telling the person you just found the cash and show them where.

even though you know they won't give you any of it. They will keep it for themselves.

C. - Stuff half the money down your pants or in your purse, then start screaming

to them you found it. At least you got half anyway, even though they don't know it.

D. Leave it there. Don't say nothing. Don't do nothing. Forget about it.

So Bored.

My cousin - My moms niece whose in her 40's is constantly asking

my mom to go out to eat, shopping, trips and other stuff with her while

leaving me out. My Aunt - the nieces mom goes too. The niece even works

at the same place with my mom. And always asking my mom to do stuff

with her on their days off. If my mom changes departments, the niece does

too. She's always following my mom around. When I try to go with them shopping or whatever - the niece

acts like I'm the one following them and tagging along, Like I'm unwanted.

I even found out that On my Birthday - My Mom, Aunt, Cousin and a friend

from work went out to eat. Leaving me out. I never got anything at all for my

birthday. but my mom always has time for them. When I ask mom to do stuff

she says No and makes up excuses like no money, has to see what her

husband is doing ( my stepfather) or always puts it off til later or next week.

But it never happens. When my Aunt and Cousin ask her to go somewhere

she goes. No problem. My Aunt and Cousin never invite me anywhere.

They constantly invite my mom but not me. What would you do if your cousin

did more stuff with your mom than you do? Even after my sons graduation,

My mom went out to eat with My Aunt and Cousin and Not her own grandson!

My cousin is always hanging on to my mom like she's the daughter

and not me! Even when we went to see Breaking Dawn, My cousin made

sure she sat next to my mom with my aunt on the other side. So I could not

even talk to my mom and watch a movie with her. My cousin has a mom.

But she wants mine too, I guess. Its always My Cousin, Her mom and My mom

going out and leaving me out, ignoring me.

Are you stuck with family you don't want to be around?

Or do you just do whatever you want? whatever makes you happy

despite all the pleading and begging from people who want you

to come to their house and do it their way?

In short - Who controls your Holidays? You or other people?

do you make yourself unhappy to please others.

For some reason it makes me feel good. I get off on it.

Ignoring and giving the finger to my dad, the steps and that side of family

because they suck! Yeah! My holidays are Happy without Them!

And free of stress too!

even though she's helped you in the past.

And get bored after you realize that your cousins have no intentions

of ever having anything to do with you. you are always left out. No one talks

to you or has anything to do with you. And when you call your cousin asking to speak to her just to say hi and ask her how she's doing, you hear her in the

background whispering "what does she want" "just talk to her". And now they

have been posting on facebook of how they are going to disney world in october. Never invited me along either. They know I see it since we're facebook friends.

This and with everything else going on I just feel like a worthless piece of crap who should have never been born. Why am I still here? I have no purpose. No one will even talk to me, call me, visit me, nothing. What did I ever do to deserve such treatment? When I try to reach out to them - Im totally ignored. Last Christmas dinner I thought I actually heard one of my cousins tell his mom to Not let me hold his baby because I might drop her. I've never done anything to make him think that. Just Where are they getting these bad ideas about me, when they never talk to me in the first place? Someone must have placed this judgement in their head. Because it was not me. They are never around me to know. They just don't like me for no reason.