Ashley Taylor

Basically, he ended things about 3 months ago, saying that "we couldn't work and we weren't meant to be". Through all these months, we never spoke a word to each other but we would definitely look at each other and he would stare at me a lot sometimes and he mentioned me to my friend once. But besides that, I sort of joked with him two days ago for something clumsy I had witnessed him doing and he reacted kinda awkwardly and seemed really nervous. So it was like a two sentence exchange, and then today, he was waiting in the lunch line right behind me and he kinda quietly and awkwardly said "Hi ____ (name)". I don't know… I just noticed that when I tried to talk to him in these past months, he could never look at me in the eyes. And he just reacted really weirdly and always quickly cut short… why is that?

Why did he necessarily have to say "WE BOTH need to know"…?

I have his snap-chat so we kind of communicate through that but pretty much, there's this guy that I really like and we made-out yesterday and cuddled and talked for hours and now we both settled that we should hang out on Monday (in three days). So I snapchatted him after he left school and I said "You going home?" and he responded "Yeah but I'll see you on Monday right tho?" and then I said "Yeah, whats your number?" and he opened it but never responded. Is it possible that he only gives out his number to girls that he's been more committed to (in the past)? Or that he had a bad experience with giving out his number to girls and his hesitate? (Meaning, he's taking it slow?). He just got out of a bad relationship and admitted that he doesn't want to rush into things anymore, like he has, so I think he's trying to go slower now. Is this something that I should be worried about or should I not take it personally? Cause my friends think he might actually really care about me and that I shouldn't take this personally at all - they said he might be a bad texter and doesn't want to delude me by giving it to me and then never texting me. (He usually talks to me a lot in person… I guess thats good?). Please let me know!

He texted me a few days ago, saying that he wanted to talk to me and so today, when we were finally alone in a room, and we were talking, one of his guy friends comes in and tells him that their all playing football. He said he would go in a few minutes but then when his guy friend left, I told him that he could go if he wants. He specifically said, "No I want to stay with you." So he pretty much missed out on FOOTBALL, to talk to me? And he's sort of done similar things before (where he leaves his friends to come talk to me alone) and he's also even told me (out of annoyance cause I wasn't "paying attention" to him) that he makes more of an effort for me than he has with any other girl…. I don't know if I should believe it though (I don't trust people easily).

So what do you guys think? Is he ACTUALLY making an effort for me or is he just trying to seem as though he is, just to get me to fall for him? I need advice!

So last time I talked to him was last Wednesday and I asked why he's been really distant to me and different with me. (Previously, we ALWAYS talked and now he's distant and seems weirdly nervous sometimes). He told me a reason but it was kind of brief and I felt like he had more to say but he couldn't say it straight out. From then on, we haven't talked. I heard that he talked/asked about me with my friend and then out of the blue, last night, he texts me, "I will explain why I have been different to you, at school", followed by a kiss emoji. I told my friend and she said that this might mean mean he was thinking about me and he even remembers and thought about our conversation from 5 days ago.

What does it mean when a guy texts you out of the blue and says something like that? And the kiss emoji? Please help, I have no idea how to read this guy. Thanks.

I started having feelings with a guy who I REALLY don't want to be crushing on and this lead to me to stop talking to him completely. We would talk ALL the time before and now we never do. Now, he's starting to ask my friend why I haven't been talking to him and why I seem mad at him. He says he wants to talk to me but seems afraid when he actually comes up to me. When a guy keeps wondering and asking about you, what does it mean? And he also saw me crying and contorted me a while back and now recently, when I talked to him briefly, he asked me various times why I was upset that one time. He just keeps asking why I was upset…. I don't know he's really weird.

Long story, short: When a guy keeps wondering and asking about you, what does it mean? And what does it mean when they ask various times why you were upset (are they actually concerned/care about you or are they just curious)?

It says it all in the question.

He stopped talking to me altogether pretty much and if he does, its like once every 3 days and he's a completely different person. He's brief and I feel like I'm talking to a shielded version of him - by the way, he acts differently when he's in public. He acts especially differently around his "group (girls and guys)" than he has with me when were alone. And he also (I'm pretty sure) has tried to make me jealous several times. I just don't understand why he would do this. Is he scared of having actual feelings? Is he running away because he's in fear? And he has consoled me when I have been upset and I have never been consoled by someone like he did with me (an example of a sign of caring for me…?).

So imagine your sitting in a chair and your head in laid on the table with your arms crossed on the

table and a guy (he's sort of my friend but I have feelings for him as well) comes into the room, sees

you crying and and wraps himself around you (in the chair), rubs your back, slightly massages your

shoulders and neck and comes really close to you and puts his head besides yours on the table, and whispers "What's wrong ______? <--- Name", does this show that he might slightly cares about you? I'm just wondering because I have never been consoled by someone as he did with me and I can't get over how he knew exactly what to do, in order to calm me down.

I started figure skating (single) when I was 8 but only started intensivey doing it about 3 years ago. I am almost 15 now and I have suddenly taken interest in Ice Dancing. I, however, stopped figure skating for almost 6 months now because single skating wasn't fit for me. Now I let go of all my coaches and have been dancing more. (I have been dancing since I was 3 years old but re-started dancing last year... so I have dance history). I also got to level pre-juvenile in both moves-in-the-field and freestyle and has started to work on my juvenile moves until I stopped skating.

Am I too old to start skating again and do ice-dancing? I just wanted to see if this was a good discipline for me. I feel that I would do a lot better in ice-dancing because I won't be as nervous since I am not alone. Also, how does the ice dance process work? How do I start ice dancing and how do I find a right partner?

Bonus:

How much will I have to train in order to have a chance at going to regionals, nationals, worlds, and maybe the olympics? I have a dream and I really want to make it come true and I feel that with enough work and belief, I can have a chance.

So there is this guy and I met him about 3 weeks ago and he has showed signs of flirting/liking me. Since the first time we met, we have hung out another time with his sister (who I am friends with) and we were flirting a lot that night and he texted me later saying that he was really happy I came over. Then I wanted to try hanging out with him ALONE, at my house, and he couldn't come on Friday cause he had a tutor lesson and he couldn't on sunday because he had a lot of school work to do. I get this because he was ACTUALLY busy. And he says he's really sorry when he can't hang out and he says that he really wants to see me soon though. He also says things like: "Yeah I went to this movie with my friends and it was really good. We should really go to a movie together sometime". He will say things like that but then when the times comes/I actually ask him a real day, he says "Teah thats sound great! I'll let you know" and then he can't... :( and I really wanna hang out with him alone this weekend but I don't want to seem needy/ask him again!! And he's not the "planner" type.

1) Do you think he ACTUALLY wants to hang out with me alone?

2) Does he seem like he's still interested in me?.... he replies to his texts a lot slower now (he's immediate responder either though) and he just uses let smily faces recently.

3) How do I hang out with him alone/get him to actually make plans this weekend without seeming needy? I don't get it cause he is the one that says he wants to see me!!!

PLEASE help me with this. Thanks so much for the cooperation!!

So we have a TON in common and we talked so much and flirted sometimes and he would looks so deeply into my eyes and I just like him so much OH MY GOD. But if he is 'interested' in me, why would he? I DO NOT THINK IM PRETTY and I don't have nice eyes (or at least I don't think I do) and I don't have perfect skin and I just don't understand how a guy like him could possibly LIKE me? (if he does... HOPEFULLY). I just hate myself so I can't see how anyone else would like me.

Bonus: what does it mean when guys look into your eyes for a rly long time. I mean, jesus, we looked each other in the eyes SO much.

Next year I will be a Sophomore in high school but I am kind of considering doing a sort of exchange program in Italy in which I go to a high school in Italy (Roma, preferably) for a year/half a year and then I would come back to my normal high school in the U.S. after the year/half year.

What are some options that I could do this? Also, I have family friends in Rome so I guess I could stay with them while I go to school. It does sound kind of complicated but is it possible?

And my high school now doesn't provide an exchange program in Italy. Oh and I am (almost) completely fluent in Italian.

Please

Last year, there was this guy that I KNEW is a total flirt and all he wanted was to "****" me. But then this year, he started telling me that he feels no one really cares about him and that I am different than most of the sluts at our school. He said that he wants to take school more seriously and treat people less like a joke. I agree that he has matured since last year.... and when we talk now, we never talk about sex. We talk about serious things like emotions.... Is there a possibility that he has changed and might actually like me?

And in general, what are SIGNS that a player has changed/started to "mature"?

Please, please, please answer :)

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As you can see, its red and their little, UNDER THE SKIN bumps that just DON'T go away. No matter what I do. And I hate them so much and I have tried everything and their always just red and so noticeable. Please help.

P.S. Their mostly on my chin.

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So this guy who is a total flirt and player with everyone, pretty much told me:

1) I am different than most girls he has met/talked to.

2) He has never told anyone what he has told me.

3) I supposdely have seen a different side of him that no one has.

And has done:

1) He stops talking to a girl once he sees me.

2) He uses the same pick up line for a lot of girls (why do you hate me?/you hate me!)... but my friend thinks that he uses the same pick up just to start the conversation but he says things to me that he wouldn't say to other girls.

So overall, I have no idea how to analyze this guy. He seems like he trusts me more than most people and he talks about serious things with me but I can't tell if there is a chance he likes me. I can't tell if he is just treating me like any other girl and using his "pick up lines", just to get in my pants or if he might be falling for me.

And the thing is, is he completely different when he is with a big group of people/other girls than when he talking/with ME alone. I HATE the version of him when he with other people (he is a douche)... but when he talks to me alone, I see a different side of him. BUT when he is with other girls, he pretty much just acts like his usual self. WHY WHY WHY?

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I feel like it is possible for a "player" to change. Once he meets the girl that is different from all the others that he has been with, he might actually fall for her. But what are signs of that? What are signs that he isn't just treating like every other girl (wants sex) vs. when he actually likes you?

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Usually my chin wasn't that big of a problem with pimples, blackheads and "texture" - in case no one know what I mean by texture, texture is like a ton of little bumps. Not really pimples or blackheads... their just bumps and you can feel like across your skin. - but now its gotten really bad. I'm 14 years old and now my skin is getting progressively worse... at least I feel so. What should I should with: 1) the pimples, blackheads and "texture" all over the chin 2) blackheads in general (all over the skin) 3) getting smaller pores/cleaner pores?

Longer, more detailed answers get more points... I'm sorry but people have been giving short and pointless answers recently.

Pretty straight forward.