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My sister and soon husband to be are still jobless but are soon to be medical doctors. I have gotten use to giving her monthly allowance. 

Should I still give to her now that she is getting married?

I am single myself and no one gives to me. I work normal job. I am just an artist. My earnings are just enough to me but I am the eldest.

Should I still worry about her? Or should I think of myself? I am not young anymore.

I am the eldest. I am 14 years older than my brother. Since I lost my job due to Covid19, I help around the house without complain. My frontliner sister shoulder all the expenses and feeds us.

Now my younger brother thinks I should wake up earlier to prepare breakfast and do much more. I finish breakfast by 7:30am. 

They do their part in chores. But the point is they want to do more. My mom orders me around as well. I am not getting paid. I do help when I can. But what irritates me is that my brother order me around like I am not older than him with chores that were his ideas.

If it were you, what would you do?

Before lockdown (March 15th) the company already owed us our salary for February 16 - March15th. Exactly 1 month pay, when we get our pay on the 15th and the 30th. During lockdown, they did not pay us nor was there any work. But now they want me to work for them again but still not paying. The owner of the company is rich. 

Should I work for them again when I am not sure if they will be paying me my delayed wages?

Would you work for someone who delay wages?

The employer said there were 2 other applicants to be interviewed. That I wait until friday for the final decision. That was after she ask me when I will be available to start to work.

If she ever offer the job to me, should I take it? I do not think she likes me. She is open for other applicants. My skill is the only thing she might be interested in. But my gut says, she does not like me.

I do not feel the job offer is stable. 

Should I leave my present job for something unsure. Help. Thanks.

I rejected a separated man. Not yet annulled or divorced. But I really fell for him, and I became his girlfriend, would I be a mistress? Even if we have not have sex?

The account director was reprimanded by our boss for not proofreading my mistake in the copy. Then the account director saw me and ask that I apologize to her. I didn't see it as worth apologizing for because I am just a graphic artist and correcting the copy is her job and is a part of our everyday work. The boss bad mouth her a lot. But she insist that I apologize. And she is making a big issue on it. My point is, it was the boss who said bad things to her not me. I do not think apologizing will make her stop hating me.

The company has been delaying wages. Sometimes its 15 days late. Sometimes it pays half the salary. They do pay salary but always late and its hard to wait when I am just trying to make ends meet.

But I feel indebted since they took me in when I lost my previous job. Help I can t decide.

If a married man comes up to you and woo you and claim he is separated from his wife, would you entertain his attention? He says its his wife's fault. That his wife had an affair first. Would you believe that?

Friends see my watercolor portraits on fb. Now they want me to do them portraits and they think its free. How do I tell them that I had to get paid?

My company fired me and gave me a bad evaluation and now they are offering me to make me freelance that would lower my pay. Should I work for them after they said bad things on me when I was working the best I can. I am not after the money but a good working environment. They need my talent but it seems they do not like to pay my big salary.

Will anyone still fall in love with me at 48?

I have been wanting to cobert to Judaism, but I need people who would help me through the process. I am from Makati. If anyone knows any group I can join.

Most catholics I have talked to, do not believe in God. They just talk all Jesus all the time, What Jesus said and done in the New Testament. They do not know God or His laws written in the Old Testament.

Who is God to you?

Or why don't you believe in Him?

Do you know who God is? Do you pray to Him? Why do you not pray to Him? What can He do? - and can you please tell me your religion too?

When pdf files are available online, are books still worth enough to be bought on bookstores. Specially those books that have illustrations or pictures? I have been seeing books that are cheap enough. Or should I be content on pdf files that I can watch on tablets?

I am single. Never had a boyfriend. But I would want a family someday. I am a victim of child abuse up until I was able to live on my own. I know the pain of being hurt by mom. I hate seeing children being hurt by other mothers. I would stop my mom hurting my younger siblings if my mom hurts them. I have always imagine loving my own baby, giving everything to him the best I can. But does that mean I will be a good mother? You see I have seen a some mom did grave things on her baby, am I capable of such monstrous deed? I hope not. I am soul searching. How do I know I will be a good mom?

There are times I can't get an actual confession. Can I confess online?

Is it normal to have forgotten a person 20 years ago? A friend of my sister who live in our house 20 years ago was very nice to me.It was a surprise when my sister told me that person lived with us for 2 weeks 20 years ago. But I don't remember anything about her.Not a memory. Where did my memory go? It seems that unused memories of my past had been totally erased. Is that normal? What happened to the memory?