geeta

Hi ! I am a 30 yrs old woman.Due to circumstances, I could not enhance my qualification beyond B Com (Pass). 7 yrs ago, I was forced to do job in a private firm in order to meet my financial requirements. I grew fast in my job and became the primary bread winner of my family & that's why I was not able to leave my job though I wanted to go for higher studies. Now since my crises are over, I want to be an English Trainer/Teacher in some Spoken English/IELTS Institute. Can somebody suggest me some recognized course to be a professional Spoken English/IELTS Trainer? Can I still do it at the age of 30?

I am a working mother of 8yrs old school going boy. Me & my husband work in 10 to 7 schedule. My son return home at 2:30 pm and he stay alone till 7 pm at home. In this time he eat up his food, watch TV, make paintings as it is his favorite hobby, play games on his handy gadget & sometimes sleep. He follow almost all instructions which I give him at morning & on phone when he came back. He don't go out till I return from my office. But as soon as he is growing and entering into teen age, I am worried about him. I don't want him to develop wrong habits due to loneliness nor indulge into bad company. What should I do ?

I know one person X, who is from a good and religious family having three siblings. X is married and father of one child. He is very cheerful, helpful, friendly and a person of golden heart. He is emotional and very cary for his family. He has an excellent sense of humor and he people love spending time with him. BUT...?? on the other side he has some habits as under-

1. he can not say NO if anybody ask him for some help or money or anything weather he can do or not

2. he god impressed with powerful and rich people and he also want to be like them.

3. he always need friends. He can not even think of doing any work by himself only.

4. he has been easily caught into bad company & bad habits though all his siblings are mature enough to understand the difference between good & bad.

5. he is a compulsive liar.

6. due to all above reasons he often caught into funds & debts related troubles. Every time he feel sorry and got into depression but again he do the same thing.

his siblings & his wife always advise him to divert his mind towards good books, career, family and responsibilities but no use. How can we teach him ?

My son is 8 yrs old and he is studying in 3rd standard. I was planning to prepare & send him to Sainik School for further education after a few years. I planned it so because I think he will develop as a disciplined, patriotic, brave and good human being there.Though I'll never force him to go in army but I think these virtues should be presented in every human being. But whenever I discuss it in my family or with friends, most of them think that Boarding Schools are not good for children. Some of them said that children of boarding schools are often take drugs and they don't have affection & respect for anyone due to lack of attention in such schools.

Is it true?

I was married to a person who was very irresponsible for his duties 10 years ago. Although he always claimed that he love me with all of his heart. I always trust him. But evrytime he did same foolish & harmful things. He had to end his photo studio just because of his foolishness. He always trust outsiders rather than his family members and that's why his debts used to become very high than his funds. Being a working woman I helped him several times with money & suggestions & made him come out of all the trouble. But he never learnt from his mistakes. I beared the expenses of his Professional course and living at Noida (we live in Jalandhar) in order to get him job in some good company. But no use. I made a house with my money only for which I am still paying EMIs but he never felt responsibility that he should also contribute. My son is studying in 3rd standard & it is only my responsibility to take every care of his studies and future. My husband never think about it. He is not even intersted in earning. He think of earning big amounts only & thats why he do nothing & whenever he do something he caught himself in debts and troubles.

Now I really feel upset as I used every way to make him learn professionalism, disciplined but I think these values are not in his blood. I am fed up of all these things. I am planning to live separetely. Atleast I don't have to face his funds related troubles. I am a person of values, discipline and truth. In the contast my husband never always say a lie even without reason. It is really upseting me living with such a valueless person. What should I do?