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hi, im an army wife, and i am looking for all the army wives, i keep finding little forums with like, fifty at a time, but where are all the thousands i know are out there? i need their help, where can i find them?

i was sexually assaulted about a year ago but i had been told it was my fault and that i had no case, so i let it go. but i know that he deserves to pay for it, especially since i know that he has done it to others as well. but its been a year, is it too late to say something to the police? do i even have a case? he needs to pay for this, or my husband swears he is going to destroy my attackers car, since we know where he lives, but i dont want my husband put in prison, any help?

ok, here is my problem, i was playing kingdom hearts once and i heard the name axel, and i fell instantly in love. i had never heard the name before, and after much consideration, i have decided i will name my son axel, but then i came across axl rose, i wasnt really a guns 'n roses fan, never really knew who they were, and yet..every time i mention the name, people go nuts, saying "ooh, guns 'n roses fan?" then i have to explain that i never even knew who axl rose was, i just like the name. why is it that i cant even name my child the name i chose because some famous celebrity ruined it? does that mean i cant have a daughter named raven? or demi? i dont understand why i have to take a name i fell in love with, off my baby name list because it was already used by someone famous, can someone explain to me why this is?

i am five nine, 185 pounds, and instead of trying to lose weight, im trying to get used to myself just the way i am. the problem is that the styles of clothing i want to wear doesn't really go well with someone my size. i tend to find myself attracted to the look that the little cute girls have, like...like that girl from bridge to terebithia, or...well, i like the clothing style that lindsey lohan had in freaky friday, but as im sure you have noticed, they arent really the right styles for girls of my stature...any help finding a clothing style that i could sport with pride? this may help other women in my predicament as well, im desperate ^-^ thanks for your feedback.

i just watched something ive seen many times before, but for some reason, it hit me wrong and i started laughing so hard, i couldnt breathe and tears were falling down my cheeks, why is it that sometimes, out of nowhere, the stupidest stuff hits you in the weirdest way?

i have a certain fascination with genetics and medical theories and the habits of every species of animal i can get my hands on, but it seems that the animal that confuses me the most is the human. it seems that kissing is a worldwide phenomenon, i have not yet heard of any place that does not use kissing when courting one another. but where did it come from? is it a natural habit? something like the mating dances of pheasants, or the elaborate rituals of cuttlefish? do humans just kiss to begin the mating sequence, or did someone make it up, thousands of years ago, and people began to follow suit? i have googled it and cant find anything about it, nothing that i consider reliable resources anyway, any help? links? advice? im really curious about this.

i will admit, i have a hard time accepting the army, i am a big proponent of individual thinking, and the thought of groups of young people, men women, everyone, following orders, doing as they are told, and unable to move their eyes on their own without permission bugs me to no end. but my man is in the army, we are getting married in two months, i may not like some of the things the army does, but im proud of him for doing what he has, and going through all of it for me, for us. he sent me home his ACU's, (army combat uniform) so i could wear it for halloween, i was so excited when i got it that i put the whole ensemble on and walked outside, within five minutes, two guys walked by, and as they passed me, one of them purposely threw a football in my stomach, it hurt...he pretended like it was a mistake, which was impossible, since he was less than a foot from me. i asked my fiancee about it and he said its because people hate the army, did he really hit me with a football because he hated the army? i could understand if he threw one into the stomach of a guy, but im a girl, and very obviously so, what the hell?

i have been sexually active since february of this year, but my fiancee is now in the army and we cant be together very often. the last time i saw him was five weeks ago, and we had sex, i was on the depo shot, but it was during the week i was supposed to be getting it renewed, which i didnt, since i saw no point in birth control if i wasnt going to be having sex any time soon. i have had an almost constant (only one or two day breaks) period since april, i have taken at least six pregnancy tests since then, all negative. since my visit five weeks ago, the bleeding has gotten less heavy, i eat a ton more than i used to, i sleep all the time, and my breasts hurt, all signs of pregnancy, but every test i take is negative, is it possible to be still getting a false negative? or should i just stop worrying? i dont want a kid until after he is out of the army, im young and im not ready to raise a child alone.

ive had this idea for a video game forever, and i want there to be a game made of it, since parts of it have never been used before. but i dont want to have to go through years of college and do it myself, im studying to be a vet, i just want to give my idea to a company and have them make a game out of it. i dont even care about the money, i dont want the money, i want the game hahaha how do i do that? who do i go to to give them my idea?

if your guy says he doesnt want to have a threesome because he doesnt want to share you, is that a good thing or a bad thing? on the one hand, he is saying you dont have to objectify yourself and become a sexual plaything, but on the other hand, is he being possessive and controlling? opinions?

i will admit, its a new thing to me (only about a year) and i have to say, i like it most of the time. i like the fact that i can have a conversation, and stay in contact while i work, while i nap, whenever i want. i dont have to answer right away, im not completely tied down by the phone, i can talk to other people, i can have up to twenty different conversations at once...i dont like it if im in a hurry, or trying to plan something, or tell a long story, but other than that, its a great thing, why do so many people say "i hate texting" or "why do you teenagers text so much, have a conversation face to face once in a while" i do have face to face conversations, just, when the subject calls for it.

i will now explain what you think are lies, so that we can understand each other.

in january i met a man, in february we accidentally had sex, neither of us meant to, he thought he raped me, i knew he didnt, we talked it out and its all good. in may he joined the army. in june we got engaged, because if we didnt get married, i wouldnt be able to live with him for the five-eight years that he serves in the army. once he finishes training in january, he will come home for a couple months, during which time, we will go to a courthouse and get married, just enough of a ceremony that we are legally man and wife, because we wont have time for anything more fancy. then he will get stationed and we will move out, thus the "looking for phone plans" and "getting ready to get married". once we are moved into the base he is stationed at, i will go to college while he serves out his term, and after his service is done (5-8 years), we will come home to get married again, this time, a real wedding, and we will go on a honeymoon to san francisco, thus the reason i was asking if anyone knew of any good places to stay on the beach, since he has never seen the ocean and i want to be the one to show him for the first time. after that he will go to medical school, which he is training for in the army right now, and we will have kids.

now i ask you to look through my questions again, since it seems to be so much fun to you, and find where i messed up, where none of this fits, because this is the truth, you just didnt know i was getting married twice to the same man. and you didnt know that what happened wasnt rape. im not a mean person, and i wont attack you like you attacked me, after this post, im done with you, you can believe what you want to believe, i know the truth and the truth will set me free.

i want to be able to talk to him internationally, but every family plan i have found so far says i have to pay up to 30 cents a text and 60 cents a minute to text and call him, even though we are on the same plan. one associate said that i can text him unlimitedly, but another said that i would pay for every one of them. where can i find a plan where we can talk as much as we can without worrying about how much i am paying for it? im young and have never dealt with phone plans before and i need some sagely advice from people who have been there..please?

i am looking for a hang glider that isnt covered with strange colors and designs, i want one that looks like a large version of birds wings, do they make those or am i out of luck?

in april i started my period. however, after two weeks it hadnt stopped. i went to planned parenthood and they put me on the depo shot to make it stop, saying it was just my birth control, but now its august and i still havent stopped bleeding. i can stop for a whole day, or a couple days, but if i put a tampon in, there is ALWAYS a spot on it when i take it out, and when i climax (no vaginal insertion involved, if you were wondering) it starts bleeding like there is no tomorrow, ive stopped masturbating, i wont have sex, i have taken six pregnancy tests that came out negative, i have to wear tampons all the time and i feel like crap. what is this? im kinda scared.

my fiancee is in army basic combat training, and i am just chomping at the bit to send him something. i know there are lots of rules, but one thing that means a lot to both of us is smell. when he was here, we would switch pillow cases at night if we werent sleeping in the same house so that we could smell each other. and as he was leaving for boot camp, i was going to give mine to him, but i forgot and he went without it, i want to send him my pillowcase so that he can smell me, but i want to know if he will get in trouble or if people will make fun of him, or if he will even get to keep it with him.

i noe lotza ppl dat talk liek this

it bugs the f*ck out of me. i would rather have a real conversation with real words, instead of having to spend five minutes trying to decipher one sentence. does anyone else feel this way?

or u liek talkin liek u r 2 stoopid to spell?

my fiancee is going to graduate from boot camp in september, and i was saving up to go see him so i could support him, and visit one last time before he goes to more training, i wont be able to see him for another six months after that. but my moms car just died, and she is a real estate agent, she NEEDS her car. she doesnt have any money for groceries, let alone to fix her car...i could pay to fix it for her, but i wouldnt be able to go see my fiancee and show him my support, what do i do?

my fiancee is a medic in the army, he is still in training, but will get stationed in january. im so worried that he will have to go to war, and i dont want him to get hurt there...what are the chances that he will get stationed anywhere out of the states? does anyone know?

i have always been able to smell weird things, like snow smells like burnt pancakes, death smells like a sinus infection, things like that. but i have always wondered why i couldnt describe the feeling i get from movies, stories, and books. my tongue always feels funny and i dont get the same feelings others do, i feel the emotions but something else is there. i realized after years that i think its texture...either that or taste, i feel it on my tongue. but i feel really really weird, can i really feel or taste words? ive heard of synesthesia but i dont think this quite fits...can you help me? please?