Leah

Maybe it's me over thinking this.. But my boyfriend has barely been in touch with me since I asked if he would like to go for a few drinks with my best friend and her boyfriend. He has already met her once but that was months ago and it would mean the world to me if he socialised a little more. I have been with him a year now and he hasn't even mentioned meeting my family or meeting the rest of my friends. I would happily love to finally meet his family and friends.. but he more or less said 'I don't want to go on this double date thing, I still want to see you though xxx' but it made me upset that he has no interest in living a little. All we do is sit in a pub and talk.. And I have only ever seen him twice a week because he works hard and we are half an hour distance. I just dont know what to say to him without it sounding needy or too forward. I just miss him and really want to be with him. I am only 20 year old but he is 30, it doesn't bother me in the slightest but a man his age should just be honest with me.

I feel a bit sorry for my best friend Rachel. She said that she would come to a pubcrawl down Sunderland with me for a night out but then she told me that it was her boyfriends birthday on halloween but he hadn't planned anything. She text me yesterday saying 'hey babe Michael has asked me to go Newcastle for his birthday and I don't know what to do'. Obviously one of us is going be sad and she is put in this situation where she genuinely doesn't know who to choose. It makes me feel bad too but she said she would go with me in the first place. I think she just feels bad because it is his birthday. Me and Michael.. we don't really get on with eachother.. we are different people and he prefers Rachel all to himself and I think he wants her friends out the way. Sometimes I never hardly hear from Rachel and she needs to realise that she has to have her friends too. I'm going to be sad if she doesn't come with me and he is going to be sad if she doesn't go with him. I feel sorry for her cause I love her to bits and would do anything for her. I have told her to do what she wants and I would try and find someone else. It's the fact she said she would in the first place

a few weeks ago I had been talking to a barman and he was really friendly with me. He used to work at a place where I used to but he left by the time I started and we started texting and stuff. He was so lovely but he was overly keen like wanted to see all the time and stuff and in the end he just asked me out on a date and he took me to a lovely bar/restaurant and everything was perfect. Afterwards he was texting me but when I text him back I never got a reply :( it came to the Friday night and I had a few drinks with my friend and I text him saying 'Hello have I upset you or something?' Because I was panicking.. he text me back saying 'No of course you haven't, how are you?' I text him back and he never replied. I don't understand :/ A couple weeks went over and I text him saying 'I'm sorry if I'm annoying you but you just explain what I have done, I have clearly done something because you won't answer my texts and you've just left me without an explanation and I think I deserve one' He messaged back saying 'you haven't done nothing, I don't know what it is babe but I'm sorry x'. I was devastated. I don't understand but I have heard nothing from him for a while and haven't stopped thinking about it.

I went on a date nearly 3 weeks ago with a guy called Darren, we knew each other before that and I gave him my number and he offered to take me out to this lovely bar. The date was perfect I thoroughly enjoyed it and so did he but I have barely heard anything from him since :/ I text him last week asking if I had upset him and my reply was 'don't be silly, how have you been?' and I text him back and then he just didn't reply. It was starting to upset me on Saturday night so I text him saying this 'Can I just ask what I have done wrong Darren? It's starting to get me down and I thought we had a lovely night, I don't want this to sound obsessive but what is the problem?' he text back saying 'you have done nothing wrong, I don't know what it is babe but I'm sorry x' and I just left it. Why has he done this? If he wasn't ready for anything he shouldn't have offered to take me out. I cried yesterday over it.

It's my first ever date night and the guy is wearing jeans and a T-shirt but he is taking me to the lovely posh bar in Newcastle called the Botanist.. since he is going casual I was going to wear a dress with heels but I don't want to look too keen and over dressed for the occasion.. do you think jeans, heels and nice top is alright?

I used to see a guy called Lee.. we did very much like each other and then one day he never messaged me for about 2 weeks so I text him saying 'Is everything okay?' and I got back 'I dont trust you, I think we should just go our separate ways but still be friends and have sex on occasion' I was furious about that and then we started arguing. I did sometimes meet with him thinking that he would change his mind and he never did, so I got him to take me home. I never done a thing wrong to him it almost seemed like he was trying to escape out of it.. I was actually very loyal to him because I liked him so much.. now he is in a relationship. It made me upset because I dont know what was so wrong with me :( I am actually very hurt my it.. I never done anything wrong to him

Me and a group of friends are going to a ghost tour there and I am just wondering what it's like? I have asked on Facebook and looked it up but nobody had said what it's actually like

Hi lads and lasses. Well I have just recently passed my test and have only been driving properly since Sunday by myself and I was coming into a street where only one car could get through and I pulled in, I had an oncoming car and cars behind me and there was nothing much I could do and I stupidly tried to fit through the gap and hit a parked car. I didn't hit it hard at all there was no damage to my car or his but when it happened I got out and checked everything and the owner was one of the most nastiest people I've met. He blamed me for being drunk and I explained that I've just passed my test and didn't know what to do.. I'm only 19 year old too and he came and took photos of my car even though there's no damage. I'm frightened because I generally don't know whats going to happen :(

I don't have any ID at the minute because I passed my driving test last wednesday and they had to take away my provisional license but I don't know how long it will take for my driving license to come in the post. My friends are all going out this weekend to Newcastle upon Tyne and I'm worried

I recently passed my driving test on Wednesday morning and I had to give away my provisional licence to get my driving licence and it takes a while to come in the post. All the girls are going to Newcastle tonight and I'm scared cause I have no ID...

I have been working at my place as a receptionist for almost a year now, I still have a few things to learn and my mentor / trainer Danielle is okay to work with at times but she mostly talks to me like muck and I get sick of it. She tries to act clever when people are around as if to say that she is my manager, but she isn't she is just an administrator. She embarrasses me in front of people by shouting at me and makes me feel like I don't do my job properly but I try my best and that's all I can do. Fair enough she has been working here for nearly 10 years (I'm 18 she's 28) but I get scared to even ask her for help because I know that she will make me feel useless and lazy. Everyone really likes me at work and I get along with everybody, people will come and talk to me but Danielle isn't really liked at work.. people think that she is a callous ***** who talks to me like crap at the bottom of her shoe. I don't know what it is with her, we have really bonded a bit but she is mostly in a bad mood and takes it out on me.. since she has got her own office she hasn't really helped me at all. People think that she is jealous because I'm very friendly with everyone and I don't want to boast about myself but I am quite a good looking girl too.. Danielle is pretty but she is self conscious about her teeth and acne

We were in a group of 3 friends, me, rachael and abbie and abbie was more closer to rachael than what she was to me.. she used to tell rachael that she thought I didn't like her. Probably just to make things awkward but she wasn't my favorite person in the world. Anyway, we both fell out with rachael cause she caused quite a bit trouble and then me and abbie got very close like we would text eachother everyday and it was great. Then she used to get a bit frustrated because the boys would always come to me and text me and she never had that before and she didn't like it but I couldn't help it, it's not my fault. Then she really liked a boy we went to school with years ago and she told me to back off from him in case he liked me and he did, he didn't want abbie he wanted me and she got very upset about it and then I started to feel really bad :( anyway we would go out together and get drunk on a night out and she would get annoyed when a boy came over to talk to me and stuff and it happened every time we went out but im not an ignorant person Im obviously going to talk to them back and she would storm off in a huff cause she got no attention.. she recently got close to her old friends and she has kind of pushed me to the side a little so I hardly ever see her :/ she warned me that she liked a guy out the group and i wasnt allowed to speak to him in case i got in the way of things and it hurts me a bit :/ like i said im not a nasty person so im not just going to ignore someone.

I was really drunk on a night out with my friends and I seen a guy who I have known for a while (I don't know how we know each other we just do but we aren't friendly) and I tried to kiss him but he backed away and said 'I'm sorry I'm in a relationship, I would have if I didn't have a girlfriend' and I have recently been seeing that he has been liking all my status' on facebook and I don't know why... I checked his profile and he is now single. Well if that's the case why doesn't he just message me

I really and I mean REALLY like a lad who works at the same place as me. We do not see each other much because we work on different departments (Im on reception and he is a production operator). Anyway, we had a little thing what happened in the past (November 2014) where I seen him on a night out and he playfully pushed me to get my attention and I gave him a cuddle. Then stupid me ended up getting very very drunk and I asked him to come back to my house. He said no at first because my mam works at the place too so he was a bit wary. Anyway nobody was in and I ended up having sex with him :( I woke up the next morning and started to cry because I love my job and I didn't want to go to work because of it. He left my house at about 4 in the morning. It was just a mistake and now I have had feelings for him ever since. We started to ignore each other and that went on for about a month then we started to say hello but we never have conversations anymore which is what I miss.. the thing in the past should never have happened because I miss having him as a friend and now it is just so awkward between us. We haven't even spoke about that night we had. When I see him outside of work he ignores me.. I hate it. I would love more than anything for him to talk to me like we used to but he doesn't..

I really want to clear the air with a guy I work with. I see him outside of work often because we live in the same area and in the past, we made the mistake of sleeping together.. which made things extremely awkward at work because we were ignoring each other for a month then started talking again but there is still this stupid atmosphere and I hate it. We haven't even spoke about the drunken night we had and I think it is best to talk to him about it and just forget it happened and carry on like we used too but I don't think he would give me the time of day. I think of I went up to him and asked for a word he would ignore me or tell me to go away and that is what I'm scared of :(

I really like this guy and i sometimes see him out in the nightclubs but he never speaks to me.. he always used to though (we made the mistake of having sex in the past and we're work collegues.) I dont work closely to him im just the receptionist. He talks to me at work but he doesnt outside of work and he also flirts with girls right in front of me (he knows im there) and i always get really wound up and angry. Lastnight i stormed out the club because of it :(

My brother has been going out with this girl for nearly 3 years. I used to feel sorry for her because she got leukemia and I used to really like her. But she caused a little bit of trouble in the past with my mam, grandma and me. She see's us as a threat but everyone else like my dad are blinded by her sob stories but I know what she is like and I think she is a little sly and a trouble maker. She has this little problem with my mam and I don't know why. My mam would ask her if she would like to go out for tea and she always makes excuses up to get out of it but she goes for tea with my dad and my dads girlfriend a lot.. we don't know why she is like this with us at all! Me and her sort of got on the wrong foot because she called me a ***** on facebook and I don't think her mam likes me either.. I also think her mam has a problem with my mam too. She is a little weird. My brother moved 3 and a half hours away from home to go live with her family and sometimes we think he isn't happy. She hates him coming up to see us by himself because she is scared in case he doesn't go back. She think that we are going to brainwash him into coming home but we wouldn't do such thing. We just want the best for him. I want to build bridges with her though and stop thinking nastily of her because I did really used to like her but when she started being sly and caused trouble I have not gelled with her since and I want to get over it but I can't

I like this guy who I work with. He speaks to me at work but when I see him out in the night clubs he ignores me.. it's like I'm not there but he always hangs around me and looks over in my direction. I have slept with him in the past and things were awkward at work for a while then we started speaking again. 2 weeks after I slept with him he would also hang around me on a night out and look at me.. before anything happened with us he used to nudge me to get my attention, wink at me and talk to me about work. Who on Earth wants to talk about work on a night out..

I really like this lad.. well we both like each other and will possibly get together at some point in time (I hope) and I said to him 'why are you so perfect' trying to be cute and he said 'you just bring it out of me'. Then we were lying on the bed and I said 'I'm so glad I met you that night' and he held my hand and said that it was one of the best things to come out his night outs. But I cannot help but think he is just saying it :/ and it really upsets me because of how strong my feelings are for him.

I have been seeing a guy for a couple weeks but I don't actually know what is happening with us? We have slept together quite a lot for the duration and he used to text me every day but I never got sick of it because I like him. He told me he liked me so I thought I'd tell him truthfully that I also liked him. I feel as if he is only texting me when he wants to have sex and it upsets me because I have been used in the past and lead on for all the wrong reasons and I don't want to go through it again :( do you think I should tell him that? The last thing I want for him is to be put on the spot but I would rather him be honest with me from now on because the longer this goes on, the more hurt I will be if he couldn't care less about me. He came over mine about 2 weeks ago with my friend and her boyfriend (they all know each other very well so it wasn't awkward) and everything was great, we all had a good night from the exception of my friend and her boyfriend arguing for ages.. then it was just me and him while they were upstairs and I told him I liked him. But I was drunk but I thought I would get it out in the open. He said it back and we had a nice cuddle. He stopped at mine too. After that night it seemed weird because I heard nothing from him for days so obviously something ticked him off but I don't know what.. My friend was getting upset that he hadn't text me. The following Sunday I text him and I never heard nothing back.