Nicki

To let you know the basics, I am currently a 16 year old female from Pennsylvania, in my sophomore year of high school, taking my second year of french class. This June, the language classes of my school are taking a trip to Barcelona, Spain, and Paris, France. 5 days will be spent in Spain, 5 days will be spent in Paris. I would LOVE to see both cities, especially Paris. I just think everything about the culture is absolutely thrilling, not to mention how beautiful I think it would be. Spain sounds pretty awesome too, I just don't know too much about the spanish culture. Of course, my parents aren't absolutely sold on the idea of me being in a different country. They have a thought set where I can be kidnapped, and I know it's possible, but being with so many chaperones and friends, it shouldn't happen. I am responsible, and I receive good grades at school, and they know that. I just would die to see the amazing sights and the history. I get excited thinking about it, and so disappointed when I think of the possibility that they may not allow me to go. How can I convince them?

Also, is there anything I should know about the two places that are real important? Like, what I should wear, keeping in mind the cultures and the climate, amount of extra money I should bring, or just anything I need to know.

The cost of the trip is $2700. Any help is very much appreciated!!

I've been with my Airman for 5 months now, and there are just some questions that I have that are unanswered. I would ask him, but he is deployed right now. So, as time gets closer to his arrival back home, I have a few questions that I would like to ask for those of you who may know.

-For a deployment of 24 weeks (6 months), will he come home for R&R, or is that something that doesn't happen? And if he does get R&R, it is typically when during the deployment? THey last 2 weeks typically, right?

-Since his home (where I live) is different from where his home base is, (PA and NM), when his deployment is done, will he go back to base or will he be able to come home? How long will he have until he goes back to work?

-Will he still get his month of vacation time if he's home after the deployment?

-Do extensions of oversea tours occur frequently?

ANY info you can give me would be very much appreciated. I am on the edge just waiting, so anything you can possibly teach me would help out a lot. Thank you

For a little bit of insight, I am currently dating a deployed Airman, and it's been almost half a year since I have last saw him. I would love to have some more songs to listen to to relate to my situation that I am in, and I also want to make him a cd to give to him. The song doesn't necessarily have to be about the military itself, but if that's in there, that would be an added bonus. So I am looking for either a song about missing the love of your life or just a really good love song. As a note, I prefer country or rock, I don't care too much for pop or rap, but anything will do. Please help me out here

Alright, so I have been hanging out with this guy named Tyler for almost 3 months now. I do really like him and he likes me back. I am a freshmen, he is a junior. We have such perfect chemistry it's almost scary. The most we have ever done sexually wise is blow-jobs, hand-jobs, he ate me out, and he has fingered me which is not a big deal. The biggest part is that we are not dating which, yes, it does get to me. I want to be his girlfriend almost more than anything.

But, anyways, 2 Saturdays ago, there was a dance and memorial basketball game for a man that has passed away that goes on every year and I always go to it. It's a big thing in my town, so it wasn't a surprise he was there, too. After the game, the dance started and I noticed he was dancing with another girl. I guess I didn't think much of it until he danced with her nearly the entire night. (They only danced to fast songs, but still...) And then one of mine and his songs came on, "Yeah 3x" by Chris Brown. It made me cry because he was dancing with her to OUR song. So with about 20 minutes left of the dance, my friend went and basically yelled at him and told him he needed to come talk to me. So he did come and talk to me. And what he said was this. "Baby, I'm so sorry. I wouldn't want to do anything to ever hurt you and she's only a friend to me but I can understand why your hurt. I feel like a d*ck because I made you cry. I ruined your night. I'm a terrible person." And we ended up making up and dancing to the last slow song. He told me he thought it would be best if we didn't date until track is over for him which is around May 16th.

Now, here's the catch. There's this other guy who I've been thinking is extremely hot since the beginning of this school year. He's been texting me and he wants to do stuff with me. I told him I'd be willing to make out with him, and I pretty much said that because I was thinking "Woo, here's my chance for revenge." But now I feel guilty. This guy's name is Zane. Zane and I also sent pictures to each others and he's friends with Tyler so I feel bad. Should I tell Tyler what me and Zane did? Because I feel bad everytime I look at Tyler. I really, really do like Tyler. Please help me?

alright, so at my school (im a freshmen in high school) i have this class called weight training/conditioning where we lift weights and run and all this other stuff to get really fit. since this class is for 18 weeks, i recently changed to this class from the last class i had. there are a lot of really good looking guys in my weight training, and i actually never paid any special attention to this certain guy. i always flirted with the other guys being because this guy is the quiet type and i felt awkward talking to him. but one day i smiled at him and after that he was asking all my friends for my number. we went on a date recently and he really likes me, he says. he'll say the sweetest things. for example, we both only have one dimple when we smile. he said my smile is beautiful and he thinks i'm his other dimple and we're meant to be. he's adorable. he also always tells me things like he wishes he could just be with me all the time and he looks forward to seeing the prettiest girl in his weight training.

we aren't dating, so i wondered what people thought. and by the way, he is a junior this year in high school, and like i said, i'm a freshmen. im a bit taller than him, which doesn't bother me at all. he is not a perv at all in anyway. is this boy a keeper ? (: thank you.

Hey, I know I shouldn't really be worried about this, but like most other girls I am. Haha. So, can you please rate my looks 1-10 ? What could I do to make myself look any better ? And, if you are a guy, would you date a girl that looked like me ? :)

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and you can look at my other pictures, i just don't feel like posting the other links. :)

And for my personality.. I'm a girl that loves to laugh. I'm funny, usually quiet, but sometimes loud. I'm somewhat of a country girl (: I'm constantly smiling and acting kinda dumb with my best friends. You could call me ditzy, lol, but I can be considered smart. People say I'm playful(: I'm polite.

Thank you for taking the time to read this! :)

I am a freshman in high school this year and I'm currently in French 1. My french teacher is planning a 10 day trip to France and Spain. Of course, we'll be spending 5 days in each country. This trip will not be until next summer, so it'll be the summer after my sophmore year. I know I shouldn't be concerned yet, but I would like to know if this is a good idea or not. The cost will be right around $2700. Is that expensive or a good price? And I live in Pennsylvania, about how long will I be on an airplane? I'll be with my friends. If you had the opportunity, would you go?

I really would like to loose about 15-20 lbs. by January 29. I have a special event happening that day and loosing that much would help me feel more confident. I am 5 feet 5.5 inches tall and I weigh 145 lbs. I'm not FAT but I'm not the skinniest girl you've ever saw. I just would really like to slim up a bit. What kind of exercises should I be doing daily and for about how long? Also, what foods should I be eating? I appreciate any kind of help anyone is willing to give me. Thanks so much! :)

Ok, so in the summer of '09, I fell for this guy, Travis. He's everything I have ever wanted. In '09, we spent quite a little bit of time together. He would come to my house on the weekends and wanted me to go to his, but I never got the chance. Early this year we stopped talking, and it just devastated me. I cried over him many nights. We started talking again though just a few months later after we stopped talking. We were close friends but I was still crazy for him. Now, were talking even more and one night we talked until 4 in the morning, we both had to get up at 6. He told me I would make a perfect girlfriend and started telling me all this stuff like what he would be like if we were to start dating and what he would expect of me. The only thing standing in the way is that he is leaving for the army the summer of '11. I don't mind but he seems to be bothered by this a lot. Recently, one of my friends texted him and asked if he hated me. (Keep in mind I did NOT tell her to text him. I was extremely furious at her, she was asking for attention is all.) He replied, "Omg. I'm not dating anyone. Im leaving soon." However she did not say my last name when she asked if he hated me and he knows more than one girl with my name spelled exactly the same. He has never talked to her before and could've easily mistakingly thought she was asking for another girl. Does he like me? Was he serious about wanting to date me? Please, please help.

last summer, i met this guy who i ended up totally falling for. we gave love a shot, and everything was perfect. he was the best boyfriend i'd ever had. and maybe that's the whole reason why it's hard for me to move on now. we ended up breaking up, and i was totally devastated. now we're talking a lot now. but he has a girlfriend. they haven't been dating long, and to be honest, i don't think he really is that into her. i mean, he still flirts with me. he'll stay up until four in the morning talking to me, even on his work days. it doesn't make sense. he tells me im pretty and im cool. he says he can't wait to see me again in two weeks. does it sound like he still likes me even just a little?

should i confess to him that im still crazy over him? or would it ruin our friendship we have now? i just don't quite think i can just be friends with him now. how can i convince him to give me another chance? please help me. thanks in advance :)

(the male is the pisces, the female is the capricorn.) how would that turn out? give me a little bit of detail, please.

also, how would sex be like between them? detail would be helpful as well :)

thanks! :D

i fell so hard for this guy. i fell for him last summer and i still have the same feelings for him. he used to be crazy for me too. we were inseparable. we did everything together, and when we couldn't be together, we'd be texting or calling each other on the phone. so i guess i was just blindsided when he all together stopped talking to me. he gave me no reasons or anything. finally, he began talking to me again. but then he started ignoring me again. this keeps on happening. i dont understand. i try to change, i try to be who he needs me to be. im never pushy or a ***** to him or anything. we fought a little, but we always made up and somehow got stronger in that process. i miss him so much. and i know he loved me. i KNOW he did. we were soo close. but now, like theres so many guys that like me. i have guys that are way too old for me hit on me all the time. so i dont understand why he doesnt like me. i dont think its because of my personality... we used to be able to laugh for hours together. idk what i can do to make him understand how much i care for him and how bad it hurts when he ignores me. am i really ugly or something?

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^^ heres what i look like. is there something wrong with me? why does every other guy go crazy over me? please help me? i love him and i need him. i'd do anything to keep him! thanks sooo much in advance.

i have fallen for this guy so completely! it was the summer of '09.. and I STILL have the same intense feelings for him. but the problem is that he's going away to the national guards. but, i really don't have a problem with that. i'm proud of him and i will stand with him always. i will be faithful and everything. he tends to think that he will hurt me too much and won't date me because he's leaving soon, the distance, and he said there's another girl he's "working on" as in trying to get her to date him. i do not know what to do. all i know is that i love him and i will totally regret it if i don't go after him. please give me your input... im a love sick puppy and i need some advice. thanks sooo much in advance. :)

i'm with the guy i could never imagine being with. i mean that in a good way. i have fallen so deep for him. he is all i think about. but i want him to be as happy as i obviously am. how can i make him happy? how can i make our relationship the best it can be? should i tell him i love him? we've been together since 9/12/09 and it's been amazing. is it too early to tell him i love him? he knows i love him and i know he loves me.. we just have never said it. please help me(= thanks soo much!

so i think im in love with this guy(keep in mind im not dating him).. i know that he definitely used to like me a lot. he used to tell me all the little things he knew i wanted to hear. he might have possibly loved me back.. now he just seems to be ignoring me, but it may be because of somethings i have done to him. he used to ask to see me a lot, i used to make excuses not to see him. i would get jealous of him going out and tell him to let me alone and not to talk to me. then i would finally realize that i needed him and would tell him i was sorry and ask him to forgive me. he would tell me it wasnt any big deal and move on. i have been doing this to him a lot recently.. but now he seems to be maybe getting tired of it and is ignoring it when i do it to him.. how can i tell him im sorry? how can i control myself to not say those hurtful things to him? im willing to do anything for him.... i cant rest until i know how he feels about me. im dying to see him. have i lost him?? please help me???

i met the guy of my dreams in the summer of 2009. he will be leaving for the national guards at the end of this summer, but im okay with that. i have tried to tell him many, many times that the distance won't bother me and i will be waiting here for him. however, we are not dating, and he doesn't want a serious relationship right now before he leaves. i have given him more than enough time to decide what he wants to do, and when i ask him, he just says, "i'm not sure yet, but i have been thinking about it." what does he mean by that? also, he has been to my house and met my parents and everything a few times, but since the entire thing where he doesn't know if he wants to see me or not, i haven't asked to see him. im my opinion, it will hurt me more in the long run because he might not want to see me, and i don't want to love him more than i do, and have my heart broken more than it is. he says that no, it will give us a better chance. who's side seems more realistic, or both? should i tell him that i miss him a lot, and i want him to make up his mind soon? what can i tell him to let him know how i feel?

please help? and i will return the favor if you answer this question, i will answer yours. just leave me the link. thanks :)

do i look like a wh*re? honest opinions, please. and while your at it, please rate me 1-10? lol :) . thanks.

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the guy i really like (or USED to really like, its starting to seem.) hardly ever texts me first. i mean, i do text him and he texts me back but sometimes we go 8-12 days with no communication whatsoever. i know he does like me, be both have admitted how much we truly do like one another to each other, so its not like im stalking him lol. but, im suppose to go see him tomorrow at an outdoors event, and im not going to go if its really cold outside. so, is it stupid to make him text me? and if he doesn't text me, i wont text him until he does text me. does that seem stupid? am i just thinking about everything too much? please help? thanks.

anyone have any suggestions for military romance novels? ones like Dear John by Nicholas Sparks? or if you would like, you could just suggest any romance novels that you have enjoyed. please give the name and author, and whether its a military romance or not. thanks in advance, and first best answer will recieve the 10 points. thankss :)