Elizabeth

In debating whether to change my back to my maiden name after divorce, I am looking for public opinion.

I have a very professional job and this will also be my website name. Please...no trolls.

My 11 yr old stepson has been making these little whimpering/humming noises for a few years. They are getting louder and more frequent (almost constant now), He also has a small hand washing issue - it has been worst in the past but has subsided in recent years. He is very well behaved for the most part, he is an A student and he wrestles and swims. I can't find anything on the internet that fits his symptoms. He doesn't have ADD or ADHD but has never been tested for Aspergers (though he socializes just fine, has no problem learning or behaving and does not fit any description of Aspergers I have found);he is also very, very intelligent. I want to help him not have raw hands and stop this behavior. It's terrible to say, but even worse thane being annoying, I am very concerned for his mental health. He is only 11 and this is not characteristic behavior for most "normal and healthy" people.