Jo Ann

I am unable to call one number or receive any calls from this number. The number is long distance. Live chat for support is Mr. Cooper who happens to be a. automated computer. Email support is a joke so if any of you have had this problem and can tell me how to fix it, I would appreciate it. My number comes up with someone else name. He no longer pays for Axvoice. I get his calls as well as mine if I get any calls. I have even called 2 numbers for customer service. No one is near their desk. Surely, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to correct their problems. I can't even make a call to my neighbor without calling the area code first. Please help ! Jo Ann I do have great Linksys router and high speed internet, upgraded phones and have tried it all.

I am at level 4 and allowed less answers to questions than level 3. What can I doand how do I earn more points. I need this answer as soon as possible. Jo Ann

I am the mother of the 42 yr. old son whom I described as verbally abusive Jan. 14, 2012. My son has not apologized or called after yelling at me, showing no respect for me as his mother. I feel the need everyday to talk to him to let him know he hurt me so much with his lack of respect shown with anger. I made an appointment with a professional and it was the best thing to do. People who are passive are easy targets for verbal abuse. He learned by examples of his father's behavior. Every time the phone rings, I hope it will be my son calling. I pray that one day soon that he will realize what kind of a mother he has ignored. I will always love him and want the best for him. I wish I had the answer for his anger and lack of respect. He is not happy because he is always attempting to try different challenges. It's like he is competitive and seeking attention. I am not calling him because he is the one who verbally abused me. My husband and I have a beautiful home admired by others. I am surprised that he only visits 3 times a year. He is missing so much. He lives 15 minutes away. I was wondering should I write him a letter? If I did, it would be soaked with tears. I will be seeing my doctor again soon and he tells me my son needs help. It seems as though the people who need help the most are those sho seek help the last. What suggestions do you have to mend a relationship which hasn't been the best.

I have submitted this question January 14, 2012 but it was before I joined Yahoo Answers. My 42 yr. old son has recently yelled at me, has hurt me so many times. I was a stay at home mom to my two boys. My younger son is a great father and husband. His group of friends are friends that don't curse and neither does he. My older son's friends are treated with great respect as he wants to make a good impression on them. My son is a me person. HIs father also was. Both my boys seen their father use verbal and physical abuse on me. Their father was killed by a drunk driver. It is sad that I never felt free until he died. I thank god that I found a wonderful man and we have been married almost 20 years. We are Eucharistic Ministers at our church and a caregiver for one of our neighbors. My son does drink beer, only the expensive kind and cigars as well. He is a " Me" person. He has tried to start 3 business, white water rafting, Texas Hold em gambling, breakfast bars, 3 Harley's, Motorcycle clubs, Leather crafting, 3 college enrollments, Masonic Lodge, never attends a meeting now. Now he is in college studding Bio-Med. He has a great job at $80,000 now but he probably will not save much. He doesn't do drugs and never has and I don't think he has a drinking problem. He has given up the motorcycle club due to his employment now. He's a great father but he raises his voice often. His wife is patient and I don't think he is mean to her. One day he is high spirits and other times it's like his fuse goes off. I suffer depression and for 15 years I have been on medication. I have had 3 nervous breakdowns, 2 while I was married 25 years to my first husband. I have been diagnosed with mild bipolar. I think my son is also bipolar and needs anger control. I love him very much but I have to make a decision and take care of my emotional health. I have cried for 3 days, loss of appetite, loss of sleep, unable to think of anything to take my mind off this situation. He yells at me on the phone telling me I need professional help. I think it is time that I tell him I did seek professional help because my Dad verbally abused me and my siblings. My son's dad also verbally and physically abused me and now my son is verbally abusing me. When my son was 18 after his father was killed, he told me he hated me and he wished that it would have been me instead of his father. He lost a child and became angry with God. I am 70 yrs. old and I pray that he will one day find himself and his problems belong to him and stop blaming his mother. I worked as a psychiatric nurse and I was able to counsel young adults but they knew me as a nurse and not a mother. I have been reading some answers on this web site and now I must follow through. I will not tolerate his behavior, language, disrespect and anger. He hasn't called to apologize yet but when he does, I will accept his apology and thank him for calling and tell him that I will love him forever but I will tell him his behavior is unacceptable and that I will not tolerate it ever again. It may be the best thing that this passive mom can do for her son. I have tried and cried but nothing has helped. He needs professional help but he needs to know that he needs help. I ask for your prayers and opinions. I am sure that I am only one mother out of thousands who are hurting in this situation of mine and some are hurting worse. Jo Ann