Peter

So I am a slight sleeper, my gifriend is a snorer.

The first couple of nights I spent with her I barely slept because of her snoring.

She knows she's a snorer and I'm a light sleeper. I can sleep in silence only

So last night I wore ear plugs and they helped me sleep.

I told her I wore them and she took offence

I can't see the problem with wearing them.

Is my girlfriend creating a fuss over nothing.

She said she wouldn't wear them without asking me first, but I told her I couldn't care less if she did or didn't ask, only that if I snored and she was the light sleeper I. Would be glad she wore them to help her sleep

I met my girlfriend on an online dating website. I've known her for four months.

I have slept with her once, and it was terrible. It was my first time.

The only other times I've tried to have sex, I became limp at the point of putting on the condom and entering her, and the second time I couldn't get it up because she started asking me how much I wanted to do it with her.

I told her the reason I went limp was because I was not relaxed because I was thinking about getting a limp penis as it was a negative experience that happened before, and that I just need to relax more.

She took it personally and thought I didn't find her attractive, which I do.

We do a lot of foreplay where I go down on her and she sometimes gives me a hand job, although she hasn't finished me off (it takes me ages - again a mental thing)

She's had plenty of bed wetting orgasms.

I don't and I'm sure she doesn't want no penetration sex forever.

What do I do?

She doesn't like talking about sex and she said she'd rather let what happens happen.

Outside of the bedroom everything is fine

I'm 25 and she is 31. We met online.

She is my first girlfriend and she took my v card from me. I have been with her for nearly four months.

Everything is great, except when it comes to the bedroom.

She claims she's inexperienced even though she's been with five men, including me and that she lacks experience to teach me (I don't want teaching)

We have had sex once, which was terrible. She said weeks after the session that she couldn't feel me inside.

I was obviously nervous so maybe my penis wasn't as erect as it should be, and I'm slightly below average in size anyway (4.5 - 4.8 inches)

Since then the following has happens which has put loads of doubts into my mind when it comes to the bedroom

She said it didn't feel right when she had sex with her only ex or eight years She claims to have only had sex a handful of times during those years

She said she couldn't feel me inside the only time we had sex (she was on top)

Said she's scared of letting someone else in (she had a year long fling with someone at her work, he left her and got in a relationship with someone else)

She said I have not the biggest penis when we were talking about her not feeling me inside

We have tried to have penetrative sex a couple of times since and both times I have not got hard enough, or I get erect then it goes flat because of nerves

She also asks me if I want to do it (as in sex) and then how much...this is such a turn off.

I am nervous as I have not done it before (I've had sex once but my girlfriend was on top)

What do I do?!

My girlfriend got upset because I couldn't keep it up. My heart was racing.

I told her it wasn't her fault.

She kept asking me if I wanted to do it (go inside her and when I said yes, she then asked how much

I said I wanted her and she then said "well maybe if you truly did it wouldn't be this difficult (to keep it up)

I trired to talk about what happened with her but she didn't want to talk about it.

I've got it in my head that it's going to happen again (this time is not the first time it's happened)

I am scared my girlfriend will end up throwing me under the bus and dumping me if I can't get and keep it up long enough to go inside her.

She likes the oral and I enjoy doing that but I can't keep doing that forever.

I can't get and keep it up and it's playing on my mind!"

She tells me I can stick something else in (as in my penis) into her vagina, but "only if I want to"

Then I say I do and she asks how much I want to.

We've been in a relationship for four months and have had sex one and it was terrible.

Outside of the bedroom everything is great.

So I've only ever had sex once in my life, with my current girlfriend. It was terrible. I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 3 months. I am 25 and she's 31.

Before we had sex on that occasion she says/asks ... "you can stick something else in there if you want to"

So I say I do..then she asks....how much? Only if you really want to.

Which of course I do.

The only problem is, is that I am a very nervous person, and I find it hard to keep the erection up...my heart starts racing then the ***** is killed, especially when she says such things.

When it comes to intercourse I get nervous. I have no problems giving her oral which she likes.

I've told her that I'm nervous and its something I need to work on...and that the nerves are not her fault.

She's a lovely girl and outside of the bedroom everything is fine.

I don't want this to tear us apart!

Is this normal that its not a turn on?

So my gf is my first sexual partner.

I have been seeing her for 3-4 months and we have only tried sex a handful of times

The first time I went limp, second time I stayed hard but gf couldn’t feel anything, and 3rd time I went limp

There have been plenty of non penetrative sex sessions.

I am so nervous when it comes to sex

I just want everything to go ok and for it to be good

My heart just starts racing then I can’t get or keep it up

My gf got upset yesterday because she thinks it’s personal when it’s not. She knows I am a nervous person

Outside of the bedroom everything is fine and we get along really well

What do I do please help!

Surely a real lady and a nice gf would not split with me because I’m having trouble with the *****?!

It's slightly below average I know...but I'm worried.

I've had sex once and gf couldn't feel anything.

She was on top and came off about about a minute.

Crying over a cake left in the fridge that should have been taken upon leaving the house

Crying over a light that no longer works

So I got my girlfriend a birthday card with the word girlfriend on it

and for my birthday I did not get one with boyfriend on it...it was just a standard card that could have been used for anyone.

Am I being stupid?

So in the last two. Weeks the following things have made her cry

Left a cake in fridge at my house.... Had to come back and get it

Her thinking her house was haunted because a sensor light kept coming on

I need unique names....

Someone is buying me a star for my birthday and I need a name!

Thanks!

So my new girlfriend is 31, I'm 25.

She has slept with 5 people including me.

She's had one relationship that lasted 8 years.

She claims to have only had sex with this guy a handful of times during those eight years.

She had a fling with a guy from work that lasted a year.

The other three she met off the internet, including me and only slept with each 1 or 2 times.

I've slept with her once. It was my first time.

She claims she wants someone experienced although she didn't tell me this until the other day.

She is so inexperienced that she even gave the guy from work a HJ on the work bus in front of everyone on a night out when drunk.

She claims she scared of letting someone else in, although she had no problems dropping her knickers for the other guys off the internet who only wanted one thing from her.

I'm obviously going to need a little bit of guidance on what to do to start with, because I am inexperienced and I'm not the most confident person..

I'm confused.

She clearly is not inexperienced, right?!

Shall I dump her?!

So a few days ago we didn't have intercourse, she was jacking me off and I came....some it it went over my hands.

I wiped my body with loo roll to clear away the mess and I thought I did my hand.

I then started to finger her.

She asked me after I started if I had wiped my hands.

I think I did. But I have doubt if it did it properly cos my hands were still a little wet.

How likely is she to get pregnant from this?

If there was any sperm on my hands it would have been there for a couple of minutes.

Her period normally occurs around the 22nd of each month, although in January it was a week late .

Please help!

My erect Penis is about 4.5 inches, so it's slightly below average in size.

We've had sex once before where she was on top and she said she couldn't feel anything.

I obviously want to please her!

I've had sex once. It was crap.

I'm a nervous wreck when it comes to having sex because I haven't done it before and I worry that I'll do something wrong or I won't be able to do something.

Me and my girlfriend did the deed once, but she told me she couldn't feel anything because my penis is on the small side. It's 4 inches.

I know it's below average in size, but is there not a saying that

I told my girlfriend that it's not the size but its what you do with it that matters.

She said she's been with guys with bigger penis' and she felt something, she said it's not her insides that are the problem.