Anna Ry

How do I tell my fiance's sister that i find her ethnocentricism very offense. [im asian shes white]. I'm afraid to tell her how i feel about this because i don't want to hurt her feelings. i think she doesn't know any better because her mother is the same way. She is my age (21), and i assumed that she'd be more open minded about modern times. She's my roommate and forbade me to drink in my own house!!! ..

its really starting to piss me off and im afraid that my pent up emotions will come out in a very aggressive way...

the other reason for why i haven't told her is also that she has a very close relationship with her mother and tells her everything.. including when she sees her brother (my fiance) and i drinking... they are very religious (primitive baptist) and frown upon everything that we do.. then i have to hear how sinners go to hell, etc etc from his mother when we visit...

yes .. im distressed