HappyBunny

My grandmas house is so disgusting the other day I went to move a letter in her letter box and a swarm of tiny roaches came flying out from their hiding spot onto the counter. It's about the same next door at my aunts house where there are 4 perfectly healthy capable people that could clean but clearly don't. My concern is that this could probably be seen as elder and child neglect for both houses. I'm not sure how to handle the situation or talk to them about it, short of going over there and cleaning it myself which is very tempting. I've held off on doing that for fear of them just assuming I will do this each time, and for fear of making them mad. Being a generation under most of them pretty much ensures that they will ignore most anything I say and assume they know better somehow

Unfortunately, I work at the same place as my brother's girlfriend and she also happens to live in an apartment with myself, my boyfriend and my mother also living here. Not only is she usually have short fuse when it comes to silly things (She snapped at my boyfriend when he asked if she wanted help loading the dishwasher even though two seconds before that she was muttering about having to clean when she got home.) But apparently shes begun to gossip about me at work. She told coworkers i live here rent free eat free food and dont pay her gas money for whenever she drives me to work, all of which is untrue. So now i am getting attitude at work and at home. Not to mention she took me buying a friend of hers on some stupid myspace application seriously and bought the friend back and said "Those who laugh last laugh the most". Like we are 12 or something. She is really on my last nerve as well as the rest of the families, i dont know how to handle the work situation or the situation at home, because im sure if i complain to my brother he will get defensive about it. I'm not going to get dragged into some immature back and forth fight with someone but the drama at home and work has turned me into a reclusive depressed person that im normally not.

Is there a way where i can post a blog but restrict which people on my friends list can read it and who cannot?

I'm fostering a mother cat and her kittens. I don't think she is producing enough milk and the kittens all have snotty noses also. The vet put the kittens on Clavamox and sent me home with fluids to give them but he failed to mention how often i should be giving them fluids. Really im just worried about the one that is sleeping more and not really eager to eat ( and i've checked he doesn't try eating when his sibling nurses on the mama). I have a heating pad in the cage also on low per the doctor as well. I just dont want to give the kitten too much fluids but i also dont want to let it get too far gone. Any suggestions?

I was molested by my uncle at 6, but didnt remember until i was about 16. i am 24 now, and this was in texas. he lives in texas now, i want to know what the law can still do for me. I also think ( i still have to confirm it with the girls) that he has molested other people. If i cant do anything myself would i at least be able to testify in someone elses trial or does the statutes cover that also?

It's been a few months now. She was an outside stray, so i took her and got her fixed and found out she has Feline AIDS. I can't take her to any shelters because they euthanize them there. She's a very sweet cat and i read online that they can live just as long as other cats. There IS a sanctuary in Boca Raton that told me they could take her but, Does anyone know of a website that will help me find another FIV positive cat owner that may want another cat, or a rescue that is willing to try and find a home for positive cats? Any advice is greatly appreciated.