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Why do women stay with the same type of men who are usually abusive, tend to use drugs, and alcohol or are attracted to the bad boy looser dirt bag type and only keep the good guys as friends? I think the world of this lady. But she tends to stay with the bad boys who are well dirt bags.

By good guy I mean would be willing to take of her her and her children in a positive way? Not be abusive, dont use drugs or use alcohol in excess, and is generally an all around clean cut good guy?

I havent cheated on her and never will. However; her friends and sisters have told me that "the guilty accuse" So what does that mean? I need a solid answer.