I'M Rarely Right But Never Wrong

So this started when I was with my abusive ex. Every time we'd fight before I'd go to bed my head, neck, and sometimes arms would shake violently. He obviously always thought I was faking which in turn made me question if I was controlling it. Well he's been my ex for four years now and it still happens sometimes. Usually at night I'll get this clicking or popping feeling in my head and then have head shakes. They usually last for about 15 seconds to as long as a minute. Even more recently they've happened randomly during the day. They don't really hurt just my head feels like it has pressure in it if I try and fight it. Unfortunately I can't go to the doctor as I can't afford health insurance. With my job I "make enough" to not be awarded assistance but after my bills and food I have no extra money. Haven't purchased anything but food in a while. I know people here aren't doctors but I'm curious if anyone has something similar.

This might be a dumb question but I used a skin care product the other day that after reading the ingredients knew I wasn t allergic to any of them but after using the product I broke out in hives? So I was just wondering if for some reason they way the ingredients mixed together made a new thing that I m allergic to. I hope this makes sense

I love lush. I've only recently discovered them and they have the only cosmetic products that I'm not allergic to. I have an oily scalp and super dry/dead ends. I'm trying to find a good shampoo/conditioner combo that will help my hair become healthier. I also color my hair brunette/dark auburn so I need a shampoo/conditioner that won't lighten my hair.

So I've been flirting back and forth with a co worker and I couldn't tell if we just had fun flirting or if he actually liked me (and to be honest if I actually liked him). Well tonight he invited me out with a group of his friends. Total 3 guys 3 girls. (One married couple). I know this sounds immature but I'm just looking for a little advice. We went to a movie and I could tell the non married girl seemed to like my co worker although the third boy seemed to like her. When we went to sit in the seats for the movie she purposely held back so that she positioned herself to sit between my coworker and I but before he sat down my co worker tried to ask her if he could sit where she was about to sit but she ignored him and sat down. Then when the movie was over and we got up he waited at the end of the aisle for her to pass then started walking with me. I know I know I'm an adult this is childish but advice from complete strangers seems to be the best because you guys are ruthless. What do you think about all this?

My ex boyfriend was abusive in multiple ways. I don't like telling friends and family because the few times I have I could see how it made them uncomfortable in their faces. I'm not ready to talk with anyone face to face and I've tried looking up anonymous chat rooms but none seem right.

I'm 24 years old and my last (and only) boyfriend was abusive. A mutual friend held a party tonight and I didn't know my ex was going to be there until I got there. I avoided him to the best of my ability but now I'm having intense flashbacks of all the stuff he put me through. When I mentioned to my mutual friend that I'd like to know in advance if he would be there so I could avoid this he told me that he thinks I need to get past it because it's been two years. My ex would get mad at me for things like dropping something and multiple times forced my into sexual activities so I could "make up" for my "mistakes". I was constantly belittled and called horrible names. I'm now having a panic attack. How can I explain to people that I'm uncomfortable around my ex without having to tell them what I went through? Everyone thinks I'm being over dramatic or a jealous ex because he has a new girlfriend. I live in a very small town and most of the time I'm able to hang out with my friends without him but he's impossible to avoid when everyone knows everyone.

So I'm 24 years old and single. I've had crushes and been on dates throughout my life but I always tend to think I'm going to marry my best friends brother. This may sound weird but I always dream were dating. I like him but I've also had other interests as well. Any ideas why I keep dreaming that were dating even though while I'm conscious I don't think about it as much?

I'm 24 years old. My last (and only) boyfriend of three years was emotionally abusive. Since he was the only relationship I ever had I was naive and didn't realize that this wasn't normal for a relationship at first. He would call me horrible names, not allow me to talk to friends or go out, forced me to do stuff I was very uncomfortable with, and belittled me every chance he got. When we first broke up I was a mess. I had anxiety and depression and suffered from intense flashbacks. Now any time I get close to being in a new relationship those symptoms start again. What bothers me the most is how people react when I tell them I'm not ready for a new relationship. I've gotten "it's been almost two years get passed it" "If it was that bad why didn't you leave sooner" and the worst were "people stay in that relationship because they like it" and "it's like S and M". So my questions are how do I react when people say these things and what are some tips for me to move on? I just can't seem to see a therapist I chicken out every time.

For my friends bachelorette party me and my co maid of honor are taking her indoor skydiving. Can anyone tell me what to expect?

I had a group project in which we needed to put together a presentation about an economic article that we were assigned. The presentation needed key terms, summary of article, supplementing outside articles, and biblical application. The key terms needed to be emailed to the class a week before and a summary of the entire presentation needs to be emailed after we finish our presentation. When assigned i volunteered to do key terms, outside article, and put the PowerPoint together because no one would respond. Night before presentation I'm emailed by two of the 4 members giving me the summary of the article in outline format and one verse for the biblical application part. I put the whole presentation together then asked who would do the essay. No one responded so I wrote the 8 page essay as well. So finally my question is do I tell the professor that I recieved minimal help or do I just forget about it and let them get the grade I get?

I'm 23 years old and I coach JV boys volleyball at a high school. I'm most comfortable playing/coaching in spandex and I do wear spandex while coaching girls but should I not do it while coaching the boys team? What do you think?

So I've gone on a few dates with this guy we're both in our early 20s. He's a great guy and we have very similar personalities but he refuses to celebrate any holidays per his religion. I'm religious too but I do celebrate holidays. Right now this isn't a problem but I can't stop thinking about how we wouldn't be able to get married because we'd disagree too much on religious stuff and I don't want to just date him even though I know how it'll end. I think I'm playing it smart by pulling back now but some of my friends think "it's better to love and lose than not at all" but if I could avoid heart break why would I knowingly pursue this right? What are your opinions? Don't say drop religion because that's not an option.

So I work with this guy at a job I got about 3 1/2 months ago. He found out I loved to read so he started bringing me books that he really liked. After I finished one that was particularly good I messaged him that it would suck to have to wait until we worked together again to talk about it. So he said well let's meet for coffee then. We met and had an amazing conversation then we didn't hang out again for about 2 weeks. The second hang out was sort of random. After work one night he randomly asked me to go get dinner with him and we talked for 3 hours. That same night an hour after we got home he asked me to go to a play with him the next day. All of this was very promising to me. We hung out about 3 more times but he told me he was going on a trip with a friend who is a girl and I got a little confused because he was going to visit her family in another state. (I'm not a possive girl so I didn't act all crazy about it, it just made me wonder if we had something going on or if he thought of me as just a friend) So the next time we hung out I decided to ask if we were hanging out as just friends or if They were dates. His response was "I'm glad you asked this question. I was under the assumption that we were hanging out as just friends..." So I said "ok just thought I should know now rather than later". He still is making plans to hang out with me and I can be just friends if that's what he wants but is it possible it could turn into more? Any input would be awesome. Thanks

I only ever have two nightmares. They usually differ slightly but they're usually very similar. One is that I'm trapped in a room filled with snakes and I can't get away from them. It has given me a phobia of snakes. The other one is a sleep paralysis nightmare where I'm being held down by an invisible force and I can't move or even scream in these dreams I'm always partially conscious and a few times I've even woke up screaming. I get the snake dreams at least once a week sometimes more and the sleep paralysis I get about twice a week. The snake dreams started about 2 years ago and the sleep paralysis started about one year ago. Does anybody have any idea what these could mean?

I'm dieting and excercising to try and lose weight. I started at 215lbs and am down to 202. I've been counting calories and at the end of the day after eating breakfast lunch and dinner and snacks I'm only around 1000 calories and I'm not hungry. Is this a bad thing? Or will I be ok continuing to eat like this? I'm 23 and 6'1. I usually eat things like oatmeal for breakfast with a banana or yogurt then lunch is a turkey sandwhich with veggies and mustard then a snack of carrots/broccoli/triscuts and hummus then dinner is chicken breast and cous cous and green beans. Something like that and I'm still under 1000 calories.

So I've recently started eating healthy and excercising to lose weight. I am 6'1 and was 215 lbs. In a week I lost 10 lbs and was down to 203 two days ago (week and a half). However, this morning and tonight the scale reads 3lbs heavier than that. I didn't work out today and only did a short workout yesterday but still have only been eating healthy foods and staying around 1,200 calories. Is it normal for my weight to fluctuate like this before it starts going down again? My goal weight is 170 lbs.

Hi. I lett for vacation on Wednesday and before I left I set out a bowl of food for my puppy. When it was time for me to leave I got my puppy and took him to the dog sitters (he has his own bowl there). I just got back tonight (Sunday) and when I put him in the yard I noticed that he was eating out of his dog bowl. When I went over to look there was mold in the food. He probably ate about 4-5 bites. He's 19 weeks old and 25 lbs. will this hurt him? What should I do?

I show Siberian huskies and I have a puppy who's call name is Kovu but I need a good AKC name. The kennel name is Echo Call's so the AKC name would be something like Echo Call's Prince of Pride Rock. That's the only name I can think of so far. I'm here for creative suggestions. Any ideas?

I show Siberian huskies and I have a puppy who's call name is Kovu but I need a good AKC name. The kennel name is Echo Call's so the AKC name would be something like Echo Call's Prince of Pride Rock. That's the only name I can think of so far. I'm here for creative suggestions. Any ideas?

So this is sort of a silly question and honestly I'm expecting some silly answers but according to my best girl friend, best guy friend, and sister I'm either terrible at flirting or just don't know how to do it at all. I'm a 23 year old girl and I honestly have no idea how to flirt with guys. My sister tried to tell me to just smile and giggle a lot but that sounds vapid to me and I honestly have no other ideas about what to do. I don't know if there are any suggestions that could be tailored to my personality but here is a general overview if it helps. I play volleyball, and video games, so I'm kind of a nerd, I'm pretty quiet but not really shy, more just like soft spoken because I think I talk too much sometimes. Basically I'm awkward and need some help haha. So any suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you :)