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and if so how is the quality of the products

or is that something that you have to buy or download

ok so the other day me and my girl watching tv and we seen a documentary on massage parlors and how they pretty much prostitute these women. now my question is are all massage parlors like that. and if not how do people even get put in a situation to have sex with the "employees". i guess what im trying to say is, if im new in a city and i decide to go to a masage parlor, how would you know that you are in one where sex is involved

Now lately I have noticed questions about "black men bashing black women" or "black men not wanting black women". And I'm sure alot of black women feel the same way. I'm sure it leads to alot of unansered questions. Or if you are getting answers trust me I know they are dumb answers. But as a black man I will answer the question for you. Now like I said I am a black man therefor it was only natural for me to desire a black woman and want to cherish a black woman. But over the years that desire had been fading away more and more as the years past. Before you start to judge please let me finish.

Now about 10 years Black men were going through this "trend" or "phase" where cheating was the so called thing. Well within this time period we have hurt women emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. That part I can admit, yes we were wrong for our actions. Well also in that time period (the 90' until 2000) Black men were labeled as low-down, good for nothing, dogs, players etc.... I'm sure you remember the names you gave us. Some women even went to the extent of dating outside of the black race due to the constant pain us men put upon them. But then something happened, between the pain and this new millenium we in, the tables have turned dramatically. It's like the women (black women that is) took on the role of a man and the men took on the role of the female. Trust me I am going to explain just bare with me. Now today in this generation I see alot more black men being faithful to their significant other, only to find out that they were not getting the same in return. And this seems to continue on more and more as days, years, and time passes by. Therefore thats where the anger comes from. But im'm not done.

This part pertains to most (not all) but most baby mothers out there. The majority of the black baby mother's i know (including my own) are also making black men resentful towards black women. Now I know i just touched a few nerves but im not done. The reason being......alot of black men in todays society (notice i said alot) want to be in their childs life, even after the seperation of a relationship. Now for the most part baby mothers are cool and fine until they have an argument with the baby daddy and the first thing they screqam and yell out is "you will never see him/her again and blah blah blah". Now truth be told a man hates to hear them words but over time, that same threat with also make him resentful towards his baby mother. Now not to offend my sisters out there, but after so many times of this a man will start to feel like this is too much drama for him and he will not put himself back in this situation again, therefore no longer dating black women.

Now i know i touched a few nerves and may even get cussed out for this (at least for the length of it). But these are a few reasons why black men bash black women and some no longer date them.

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when you decide to answer the question, keep in mind that i was only basing everything on my personal experiences and other black men i know. this is not a fact for all black men. and when i use the word "bash" i mean talked down upon

Now lately I have noticed questions about "black men bashing black women" or "black men not wanting black women". And I'm sure alot of black women feel the same way. I'm sure it leads to alot of unansered questions. Or if you are getting answers trust me I know they are dumb answers. But as a black man I will answer the question for you. Now like I said I am a black man therefor it was only natural for me to desire a black woman and want to cherish a black woman. But over the years that desire had been fading away more and more as the years past. Before you start to judge please let me finish.

Now about 10 years Black men were going through this "trend" or "phase" where cheating was the so called thing. Well within this time period we have hurt women emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. That part I can admit, yes we were wrong for our actions. Well also in that time period (the 90' until 2000) Black men were labeled as low-down, good for nothing, dogs, players etc.... I'm sure you remember the names you gave us. Some women even went to the extent of dating outside of the black race due to the constant pain us men put upon them. But then something happened, between the pain and this new millenium we in, the tables have turned dramatically. It's like the women (black women that is) took on the role of a man and the men took on the role of the female. Trust me I am going to explain just bare with me. Now today in this generation I see alot more black men being faithful to their significant other, only to find out that they were not getting the same in return. And this seems to continue on more and more as days, years, and time passes by. Therefore thats where the anger comes from. But im'm not done.

This part pertains to most (not all) but most baby mothers out there. The majority of the black baby mother's i know (including my own) are also making black men resentful towards black women. Now I know i just touched a few nerves but im not done. The reason being......alot of black men in todays society (notice i said alot) want to be in their childs life, even after the seperation of a relationship. Now for the most part baby mothers are cool and fine until they have an argument with the baby daddy and the first thing they screqam and yell out is "you will never see him/her again and blah blah blah". Now truth be told a man hates to hear them words but over time, that same threat with also make him resentful towards his baby mother. Now not to offend my sisters out there, but after so many times of this a man will start to feel like this is too much drama for him and he will not put himself back in this situation again, therefore no longer dating black women.

Now i know i touched a few nerves and may even get cussed out for this (at least for the length of it). But these are a few reasons why black men bash black women and some no longer date them.

Now I find this very upsetting mainly because its not true. I see all these lame comments from white men or maybe even kids on here saying that "asian women only want white men for money" and this to me really upsets me. Now I'm not here to ask a question, its more of a statement. First off I am a black man who has a asian fiancee, so apparently some asian women do like black men. Secondly to those who believe that these asian women only want a white man with money, please get over yourselves. I got no issue with white people at all but some of the comments you leave and write on other peoples pages are just crazy. I read one question where he said "why do asian women treat white men like gods" and the first thing that ran across my mind is are you serious? Do you really feel that superior that you feel asian women treat you like god? Im sorry to say this, but comments like this is the reason why lot of people get mad at white men. Like I said I have no issue white people at all, but this is getting out of hand.

Now I find this very upsetting mainly because its not true. I see all these lame comments from white men or maybe even kids on here saying that "asian women only want white men for money" and this to me really upsets me. Now I'm not here to ask a question, its more of a statement. First off I am a black man who has a asian fiancee, so apparently some asian women do like black men. Secondly to those who believe that these asian women only want a white man with money, please get over yourselves. I got no issue with white people at all but some of the comments you leave and write on other peoples pages are just crazy. I read one question where he said "why do asian women treat white men like gods" and the first thing that ran across my mind is are you serious? Do you really feel that superior that you feel asian women treat you like god? Im sorry to say this, but comments like this is the reason why lot of people get mad at white men. Like I said I have no issue white people at all, but this is getting out of hand.

im not the relationship type, i like to party chill hang out, and just enjoy life (meaning mess around with different women) yet my friends who are the relationship type can never seem to find a date at all. Or if they do, then the woman will throw herself at me