Jake

So here it is, Friday once again and I'm sat alone on my bed with nothing to do except drink 4 beers on my lonesome, it has become a far too regular occasion. Now wishing I was somebody else doing something else. The people who in previous years I would have considered friends are now out having a good time living it up, and never do they contact me. My problem? I'm a social retard. It has affected my ability to make friends and also to maintain them, at least to a point where we have bonded enough for them to contact me every now and then, I haven't a call or text off a friend in weeks. It also has affected me when at work or when trying to get a job, now I'm unemployed and virtually have no money. It doesn't help either that I'm gay and my friends don't know it, which is why I think I'm misunderstood. For too long these things have been a problem and I need to sort it, most of all I think socially I need to improve, but it seems so difficult when your in my situation and just reading this you wouldn't know the half of it, but to sum it up I'm a 22 yr unemployed gay virgin with no friends, no significant qualifications and stressful home life. Still if anyone could please offer me some advice I would appreciate it, thanks.

I've had this habit where I sniff my soft t-shirts and gently rub them on my mouth and around it, I've had this habit as long as I can remember and I thought I would have grown out of it by now at 22 yrs old. I've always had a few quirky habits which come and go, like drumming my chest or tapping my knee to a rhythm but the clothe sniffing is pretty consistent and I've noticed that it's causing spots to appear around my mouth and nose, and also may be causing chest problems if I'm constantly inhaling germs and bugs that live within the fabrics of my clothes. I feel I do this for comfort, but can anybody offer me a greater insight as to why I have this habit? And how can I stop it? This is not a troll question, please take this genuinely.

I'm 22, and since I was about 13 I always thought I was gay and these feelings intensified in my teenage years until I was certain of it. I tried to live the straight life dating girls in high school but it didn't work and I never did anything more than kissing with them which I didn't particularly enjoy and the relationships were short. I usually only ever watch gay porn, however lately I have been feeling increasingly aroused by women particularly their butts, and have felt a slight decrease in my attraction towards some men. I'm extremely sexually inexperienced and perhaps my desire to have sex is just making me more aroused but it's really confusing me, am I still gay or is my sexuality changing? is this a phase? I feel like I could have sex with either gender and enjoy it, but the feelings for women are new to me and still lesser than that of men. Is this normal?

I realise that this does not represent the views of all Christians and some homosexual people themselves are Christians.

But here is a list of things which MOST Christians will probably have done therefore have sinned and are considered an ''abomination'' in the eyes of the Lord.

Is it ok to pick and choose what you follow? Or is it just easier to single out homosexual people? Or is it just solely an excuse for your bigoted ignorant and outdated views?

Regardless I hope you realise those who use The Bible against homosexuals are fools, here's the list.... http://www.buzzfeed.com/omgitsanf/19-things-the-bi...

Enjoy!!!

I'm 22, and since I was about 13 I always thought I was gay. I tried to live the straight life dating girls but it didn't work and I never did anything more than kissing with them which I didn't enjoy and the relationships were short. I only ever watch gay porn, although I have ventured a few times to straight porn but rarely. I find some women's butts sort of arousing when I'm in the mood. Also when I'm aroused more recently I've been feeling like I could have sex with either a man or a woman, although I definitely prefer male genitalia and feel I would be happier in a relationship with a guy. Am I gay? Am I bisexual? Or am I something like 90% attracted to men and 10% women? What does it take to define yourself as gay or bisexual?

Some very good points are made here, and remember we are all part of he same human race regardless of gender, race, religion, and sexuality. Leave homosexual people alone and stop hating!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDKL-f9Iwds

I've decided I want to give acting a shot, it has long been an ambition of mine but during high school I had no confidence to perform in front of others so opted for other subjects which I enjoyed less but felt more comfortable with at the time. I really want to test my acting skills and feel like I have matured to a point where I now have the confidence to do whatever I want to but I have no idea where to start, can someone please offer me some suggestions of how I can pursue an acting career at the age if 22 with no acting experience or qualifications?

The conversation for many is an awkward one and especially I feel it will be with my close male friends, so can anyone please tell me some ways you could maybe phrase it, ease into with small talk in order to soften the blow sort of, and make both myself and the person I'm telling feel more comfortable talking about it. I don't want to end up rambling on about it but neither do I want to just out of the blue say ''I'm gay''.

I want to purchase one since I have recently started working out, but I have quite a hairy body and want to remove stuff like chest hair, armpit hair, the soft and smooth hair on the belly, a bit on the shoulders and back which is only visible in brightly lit rooms or some daylight, I need a body shaver which gives a close shave, is good quality, gives minimal irritation, with £40 being my budget, any suggestions please?

Drink seemed to make it easier, but it felt like I missed the emotional relief I would have gained from doing it sober and the courage I would have gained but I'm struggling to tell anyone else and get really nervous was I consider doing it. Should I get drunk and tell others or is there a good way of doing it otherwise? Help needed please, thanks.

Serious question, although I am high so not too serious but I expect serious answers...but not too serious? Seriously though 10 points for best and this time I really am serious.

Just from personal experience this seems to be the case and I'm quite confident that there are more gay men, I very rarely come across women who are gay or see many in the media. If this is true, why are men more inclined to be attracted to the same sex?

I'm bored so I was just wondering what everyone's opinion is on this.

I'm worried that this might happen even if it isn't done deliberately it might just because of the stigma which surrounds the gay community.

I'm so happy, I was so comfortable telling him and he reacted brilliantly :D

And if they do is it as the child's mother or just as a family friend?

How does it all work out?

I was wondering how to achieve a look which I will both feel comfortable with but one which is well suited for many gay men. I'm 21 and have a hairy chest, butt, legs, fluff like hair on some parts of my body like upper arms and shoulders and can grow a beard, I want to remove it from my chest. butt and the fluff type hair and maybe shave every other day? Would this be a popular look? What are common areas of the body that a lot of gay men prefer hair to be shaven/waxed etc? What do you do personally and like personally on a partner?

You don't have to answer all of these questions any tips would be appreciated, thanks.

I was wondering how to achieve a look which I will both feel comfortable with but one which is well suited for many gay men. I'm 21 and have a hairy chest, butt, legs, fluff like hair on some parts of my body like upper arms and shoulders and can grow a beard, I want to remove it from my chest. butt and the fluff type hair and maybe shave every other day? Would this be a popular look? What are common areas of the body that a lot of gay men prefer hair to be shaven/waxed etc? What do you do personally and like personally on a partner?

You don't have to answer all of these questions any tips would be appreciated, thanks.