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I have cheated on my boyfriends of 6-8 months, our situation has always been fairly complicated in my eyes, I basically repetivaly became intimate with my co-worker whom I had previously had a crush on before

My current/X boyfriend. That s beside the point, we never have vaginal or oral sex, but I did allow anal Sex though he didn t "finish." That was only one time. To make things worse I repetivaly lied to him about seeing another man and allowed him to take me out on a 100 dollar date. This co-worker has a girlfriend of 5 years by the way... My X says that I should have already done some things to prove myself to him and my character, I don t know what these things could be and he won t tell me because it wouldn t be genuine and would be meaningless.

I discovered that one of them was inform the co-workers girlfriend of the affair... Which in not sure I can do... Any other ideas of what he could possibly be expecting other than an apology? Could it be a reimbursement for the dinner?

There is this guy that I have had my eye on for a long time, though I never thought that we would have a chance together because he is 24 and I'm only 18, though I was 17 when I first began liking him. When me and my boyfriend of 4 years broke up, we started hanging out, and when I started doing research on the Gemini man, i realized that we weren't comparable. We have made out plenty of times, but then he broke up with his gf, and told me to loose my feelings for him, a week later they broke up again. And now we have been hanging out a lot and I have spent the night at his house a lot, I'm scared that I will loose him because he dosnt talk to me very much, and didn't even answer my text goodnight tonight. Please give me some specific pointers to win him over, I know to be spontaneous, kinky, talkative (though in not and I don't know what to talk about) i need some specific pointers pleassseeeeeeeeeee :l

So I am 17 years old, I know how to take care of all my fish, and I have been training my little brother how too take care of fish. He is 13.

So I have a 40 gallon hexagon tank with a wood stand, and I know how expensive they can be to buy, I was never planning on selling it, but it's my brother and the thing is a pain in the butt! I don't have any fish in it at the moment, and I don't like how awkward it looks, and how hard it is to clean.

So my question is, should I trade them my tank, with a heater, filter, and substrate, for a brand new 30 gallon aquarium kit?

My fish just went through a very traumatic experience, I was cleaning the tank and re arranging the rock work, i was washing a rock in the sink and it was running warm, all of a sudden a feel something slippery inside. Hole in the moon rock, an all of a sudden a fish come flopping out! I rush it back too the tank, but it can't move it's back fins or even open them up, it's like he's paralyzed! Is my fish. Goner or is he just in shock, it's a 1" neolamprologus brichardi

i just picked up a 75 gallon tank, and i am going to stock it with lake tanganikyan african cichlids, i am definatly getting an altolamprologus calvus, and a neolamprologus brichardi, and some sort of shell dwellwerd which i have not yet decided on yet, but that only gives me a few fish to stock with, any other ideas?

I am flipping out!

My friend knows the last four digits of my social security code and my debit card pin!

I thought I could trust him but now I'm seeing some scary signs of wanting to get into my Business! I'll walk in my own room and he is on the phone with my bank checking my card balance and tracking orders that I have placed from stores! I am going to change my pin but I'm really paranoid! Could anything bad happen?

i have three fish tanks right now (40, 24, 10) running off of two outlets, (and connected to those two outlets are 3 more..like a extension cord) they are all taken up, but i think i will be getting 1 or 2 more tanks for Christmas, a 75 and a 40.. so would it be safe to connect more extension cords to the extensions that are already connected? thank you!!

My boyfriend is Latino and wants to put the presents out a week before christmas

But I think that that's stupid because then we will see all our gifts and it won't be a surprise on the actual Christmas Day.

But he Doesn't like my idea of not seeing them on Christmas Day, so what do we do?

So I got 2 pecostomus's like 5 months ago,

But one was getting too big for the tank (not too big but I got a bigger tank so I decided to but him in there)

But then my African cichlids were beating him up, so I put him back in the other tank (25 gallons) he stays in one place and my other pleco is allllways by his side, when I fist out him in he would stop sucking on his/her body, it's been about 2 weeks and they never leave each other's side,

Are they mating?

these are the fish i want:

altolamprologus calvus (white)

julidochromis gombi X2

pundamilia nyerei

pseudotropheus acei

cyprichromis leprichromis (utinta)

i already have a pseudotropheus crabro

and a red zebra mbuna (dont know scientific name)

thank you!

So I was just wondering, would it be okay to mix like convict fry with African cichlid fry, or Oscar fry with Texas cichlid fry, or even convict fry with guppy fry,

I was just curious to know that since that grew up since little babies if they would not be aggressive, if they simply wouldn't know any different?

Or would their natural instincts jump in?

Thank you!

What are some colorful African cichlids that don't get to large in size for a 75 gallon aquarium?

I like Africans from all of the lakes (tanganika Malawi Victoria) would mixing them be bad?

Thank you:)

So I'm quite positive that I am getting a 75 gallon tank for christmas,

I already have a red zebra mbuna

And a bumblebee Mbuna:)

I also want the fallowing

Pearl galaxy

Astolapia calopitara

Electric blue

What are some other colorful Africans?

I do like haps and Mbunas,

But nothing too large.. (I know the astolapia calopitara gets 8 inches but is just so beautiful!...also which one is prettier the male of female?)

So any suggestions will help thank you!!

I'm so depressed and I don't feel like telling the story why,

I don't feel like explaining much of anything anymore not even to my boyfriend of 2 years and 7 months,

I use to cut my wrists and upper legs when I got really sad,

I finally stopped and started feeling happier,

But now I'm so depressed again and don't even feel like fixing my broken relationship I feel like cutting my writs but I don't want the marks to show so I thought about cutting my legs but it doesn't bleed as much or feel as good.. Also when I wear a bathing suit it shows What do I do I'm so depressed and I'm stuck in a dark pit with no where to go

So last month I had a balloon bey Molly that grew very skinny and when I woke up was stuck on the filter,

I let him free but his body was deformed and eight minuets later he died,

And one of my neon teats has been swimming crooked and floating to the top for about 6 days now (is this because their only in a school of 3) I haven't got the chance to complete the school yet, also I just bought a (1) dwarf gourmie, and she has been swimming in place for quite a few days now and is now laying on the bottom of the tank gasping.

I do not understand why they are dying the tank has been running for about 11 months now and I pump the gravel once a month along with a 25% water change every 2 weeks.

I change my carbon filter when needed and I have a heater,

The tank is 25 gallons and has 15 community fish in it,

Also their are rocks from the salmon river and drift wood from the salmon river but I soaked them for nearly a day:o

What is going on?