Tristan

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Long time since I've asked a question. :P Alright, well my friend (uhm Stacy is a good pseudo name) has liked this boy for the longest time. (Roughly 4 years now) The problem is he's an abusive person both physicaly, verbaly, and emotionaly. Over the years they started dating and that lasted about half a year then he broke up with her for another girl because his friends said "Your girlfriend is ugly and weird". So the guy started dating, lets call her, Amanda, that went on for a bit but after he realized she doesn't put out he started cheating with my friend, Stacey. That went on for a few weeks when he started calling her names and threatening my friend. She just couldnt snap out of this god complex with the boy thinking he's the best in the world and continued messing around with him. Recently he broke up with Amanda and promised Stacy that he would change for her once he's done with Amanda. So he dumps Amanda over text then ***** Stacy once and the next day he's back with Amanda telling Stacy to "shut up and **** off"

How do I help my friend realize a boy isn't good for them. Will answer yours.

Hey guys, two questions in one night, how crazy? But anyways,

So my girlfriend I have been dating a good half a year next week. The time we spent during the first 5 and a half months was all cutesy kind of stuff. We would buy each other gifts, shed wear my hoodies, I'd cook for her, and wed kiss every so often maybe every other day after one of us said or did something cute.

But now all of a sudden she's just gotten real horny and flirty recently. Shed pull me aside and wed makeout at the very least three times a day for a good 15 minutes each. Just the other day I was sitting down and she sat in my lap kissing me grinding against me. She's also gotten to being real flirtatious in text message talking about what shes going to do next time she sees me and sending sexy photos.

My point being, she was so meek and cute the first part of the relationship, she wouldn't even send a picture of her face for her contact, but this past week she's been real sexual. So I guess my questions are,

Do you have any idea what might've caused her change?

How do I keep her like this?

Could she be cheating?

Would my girlfriend mind if while we were making out she could feel my erection? I usually pull her in real close when we kiss and hug, its just my thing. I am sure she has felt it on multiple occasions but she never pulls away or anything. We just continue to kiss. Same thing goes for when she's sitting on my lap and we are making out. At that point there is no way she can't feel me but she never is disgusted by the feel or anything like that.

So my question is, how do you girls feel about your boyfriend having an erection while kissing?

Is there a way to hide my ***** better?

Does she not care or is she offended but doesn't want to bring it up?

Okay, firstly thanks for reading and hopefully answering, I'm Tristan and Ill answer your question if you answer mine.

Now to begin, well my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a month now and I know this is totally dorkish but I want to get her something to celebrate our first month together. I was thinking of a teddy bear with a little puzzle box (inside joke) but im gonna paint over the puzzle and write a little poem I've been working on about us. Yes I know I'm a tool when it comes to love but stay with me. I also know she likes to wear my hoodies so I was planning on also giving her some of my "trade-mark clothes" people see me in all the time. So any ideas or is my gift good?

Background:

we dated a while back for a year and some so this isn't nearly as odd as a new relationship, right? We also are both going all out cause that was our little tradition we started last time so she won't be engulfed or scared away by my gift. She's also born on August 28th if that helps cause I know people born at different times of the year usually act accordingly.

Okay I'm terrible at starting these so bear with me.

So a friend and I both like the same girl. Keep in mind we aren't best friends but we still are close. Anyways, he saw her first and has been interested in her for roughly 3 years. In those 3 years he's made moves but with his terrible luck he was ultimately friendzoned. The girl doesn't like him in a romantic way but doesn't want to hurt his feelings and lose a good friend. So I come in and see the girl and I start to like her. I get her number and we text and call and all that love-y dove-y stuff. My friend has not heard about this. Should I stop what I am doing since he has had dibs for nearly 3 years or should I keep going since he was never able to make it with her? Sorry that my sentence structure is all but classy its 2ish here in TN and this question has just been bugging me the past few days.

Okay sorry guys but I'm having another problem with my love life here at my school. Firstly, hi I'm Tristan and I'd like to go ahead and thank you for reading this and giving me great advice.

Well I guess my tittle was a little unclear, so I'll just give you the driest story first. I'm stuck between wanting to date my ex and wanting to date a close friend of mine. Okay but with more details now.

My ex and I dated for roughly half a year before we broke up. She dumped me. But during our time together everyday was filled with fun and laughter. We were one of those cheesy romantic movie kinda couples with me holding doors and helping her out by carrying her stuff. Just gentlemanly stuff that I always thought was the norm for a boyfriend to do. Time passed and well shortly later we broke up.

Now onto my friend. This girl is amazing. She's smart, beautiful, carrying, and hilariously charming. This isn't me just spurting out positive adjectives to give her a good appearance she's all this and more. We started flirting a few weeks back. And well honestly I've always had a crush on her. 6th grade and up haha. Oh man I'm such a dork.

But anyways my problem is I like both these girls. One I know I have a connection with, while the other I want to make a connection with. So really what would you guys do in my situation? Should I date the love of my life? Or should I date the one person who's time with has changed me forever?

Additional Notes. Both girls like me at the moment. I hang around both of them, sharing classes with the friend but hanging out with the ex at lunch. Also, I hope this doesn't change your answer but I'm in 8th grade.

-Twist

Oh Okay, well first off I'm sorry but as much as everyone hates answering lovestruckteens stupid questions, Ill have to ask my own. Just a quickthing though, I tried looking for a story similar to mine but there was little there. Oh andsorryformy writting style I was nevveer really good.

Well okay I guess I'll start by telling you about myself. Well my name is Tristan, I'mdescribedby others as humorous, charismatic, anda tad flamboyant.

Okay now for my pro-- well i guess i should give some back ground information first. Okay so my ex and I first started dating in 7th grade. We dated for roughly 7 months, and all was good. We talked, we went out, and people would always comment on how cute of a couple we were. Her being a bit shy and me being loud and obnoxious haha. "A perfect match" some would say. Well all good things come too and end so my ex and I broke up roughly 9 weeks ago because..... well haha, that's not really relevant. A week AFTER our break up she got together with a friend of mine. Theylasted roughly 3 weeks before he dumped her for being too distant. Well about that time myex andI decided it would be okay if we went back to being just friends. All was well at first. We talked, we flirted, we did everything we did before we started dating. But after a few weeks she became completely distant from me. We can't talk in real life and every time I try to talk she givves short answers almost as if she just doesn't want to speak with me. So a little while later a rumor was being spread that I liked her again. Well I guess it isn't a rumor. I never really stopped liking her. I, at most, just liked her less. Well I'm pretty sure she heard the rumor cause she became even more distant. She won't make eye contactwithme andshe'll always slightly lean away from me if we are ever sitting side by side at lunch. Oh yeah,my ex and I share a common group of friends so we sit together at lunch. Well not next to eachother usually but just at the same tables. Fast forward about 4 weeks and the lunch table has gotten very awkward. And after a bit of thinkingandwalking around I figured the table is only awkwardcause there'sy unresolved sexual tensionbetweenmyex and I. I've decided to..... well to put it simply confess my love for her. If she doesn't like me the same way, then ill be ungodly embarrassed but at least now the tension will be broken, right? But if she says that she would like to go steady again then haha, well I guess Ive gotten back my love.

So I guess the questions are:

1) Why did she suddenly get cold with me andnot talk?

2) Is me confessing my feelings a rookie's mistake or is it a grand idea?

3) I would also appreciate it if you have anything else to add.

Thanks for reading and always yours,

-Twist

Well they first started dating about 4 months ago that relationship lasted about a week. They only broke up though because the girl's (my friend) father didn't like her dating a black boy. So racist by the way. They got back together and kept it secret from her parents. That relationship lasted about a month and ended because the guy (the ***hole) was sexting another girl. That relationship ended bad with horrible things being said from both of them. Well after about a month and a half he asked her out again, she, being as dumbas usual, said yea. That relationship is going on right now and they haven't toold anybody except me and my novia. Oh yea i forgot, she only figured out he was sexting someone was because he would constantly brag about it to me and all the other guys, so in the end i guess the word got spread back to her. Well I just dont understand why first someone would go out with an ex and secondly why you would go out with an ex after they sexted someone else. So what would you do if you were in my position? Thanks for reading, cheers.

Okay first off I am 13 and I've heard all of the stuff about how kids shouldn't date, they don't know what love is, when I was your age I played with barbies not dressed like one. And I would like to say young love still exists in this messed up little world of ours. Besides (although you've must have heard this 100 times before) i am mature compared to most of the kids my age. Okay so now to the question. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over a month now and we've hugged, held hands, and just today I kissed her on the cheek. Right after I had kissed her I could tell something just wasn't right. So my question is am I taking the relationship to slow? To fast? Or what? If you answer mine I'll gladly answer yours. Thank you.

Okay first off I am 13 and I've heard all of the stuff about how kids shouldn't date, they don't know what love is, when I was your age I played with barbies not dressed like one. And I would like to say young love still exists in this messed up little world of ours. Besides i am mature compared to most of the kids my age. Okay so now to the question. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over a month now and we've hugged, held hands, and just today I kissed her on the cheek. Right after I had kissed her I could tell something just wasn't right. So my question is am I taking the relationship to slow? To fast? Or what? If you answer mine I'll gladly answer yours. Thank you.

Bare with me because this a long story. Okay it all started about three months ago.... okay so afteer finally working up the courage I asked Jesse out. All was going well untill I learned she was keeping a secret from me. After repeatedly asking Jesse finally told me "the secret." Well apparently it turns out that my best friend told her that he has had a crush and asked if he would've asked her out before me if she would've said yes. She, being a good girlfriend, respectfully said no. I told her I wouldn't tell anybody but this just doesn't seem right. I haven't told my bestfriend that I know. What should I do?

Bare with me because this a long story. Okay it all started about three months ago.... okay so afteer finally working up the courage I asked Jesse out. All was going well untill I learned she was keeping a secret from me. After repeatedly asking Jesse finally told me "the secret." Well apparently it turns out that my best friend told her that he has had a crush and asked if he would've asked her out before me if she would've said yes. She, being a good girlfriend, respectfully said no. I told her I wouldn't tell anybody but this just doesn't seem right. I haven't told my bestfriend that I know. What should I do?