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People who are mentally disabled, arent called "retarded," by doctors, are they? I was told that they were; that that was what they said when they were diagnosing them. But idk if that's true, I thought they would be called special Ed, or maybe the exact name of their case or something. So, if the actually disabled people are called special Ed, ect.. Why is it wrong to call a person a restated ? It's not you throwing shade at special Ed people b/c that's not what they are called, anyway (retards; they aren't that,) so, therefore isn't it not offense yeah?

He can't talk to me without getting BRIGHT red, and he cant look me in the eyes; he always looks down. in class last time he rubbed my shoulder with his thumb intimately for like two dirty, nasty seconds. It was extremely inappropriate. I've already requested to get out of one other class when im not even supposed to and my consular was annoyed. idk what to do at this point. Is it serious enough in ur opinion for me to try to switch

I Know sleeping with makeup on breaking like THE cardinal rule but does it matter with just my lips

I want to believe in God, and for two years of my life I spent hours everyday in prayer and reading the bible, losing friends because they weren't christians. And I didn't cheat, or lie ever. I had OCD over the thought of demons coming and taking over my soul. I'd say "I give you my soul forever" to the "devil," compulsively, stayed up for nights crying because of it. So, sure, I cheated and lied less, but I was never really any more loving. So because of that, I was scarred I wasn't really saved; I spent hours, wasted sleep, praying as long as I can, and putting every ounce of my being into asking to being saved. I really meant it. But God never accepted me. So how could God be real? I want to believe in him, but I don't think I can anymore, because out of all this devoted time to him and I haven't been feeling of the love or receiving any of the promises I was told I would receive. And don't tell me I must have not meant it when I prayed, because I did. So tell please tell me how that is possible ?

I don't know, I might have some mental illness but Idk how to be myself and it's not social anxiety or awkwardness and idk how to describe it but one day I was at lunch sulking thinking "idk how to be myself." And then tho. I realized I did and I was being myself for a little bit but now no.

When everyone else around you doesn't have this problem, when you are stripped of yourself and everyone's a jerk to you because your not charming to them, while your just trying to figure it out. When everything you do is iffy and you feel like a price of you, (pretty much the whole freaking piece btw) is gone. Bc this is me and I'm never myself and it's not social anxiety or awkwardness and I'm hoping someone will know and understand. How do u do it

I'm really confused right now in my life. I'm like in despair because I don't know how to act, or talk to people, or be myself. It's so tiring. And no, it's not just social anxiety or awkwardness. It's with everyone, even my parents. I have no friends because of this. Someone please help?

I'm not just being jealous, 4real I don't think she's cute. She's so average........... I don't get the hype at all, as I also don't enjoy her music .......

Considering everything you do, is you being yourself.

I have some freaking unfair problem that freaking sucks and I'm freaking freaking done. It's effecting me right now, it effects every little thing I do because I don't know how to be myself or what to do at any giving second. I can't talk to my family, or make friends. I'm 14. Help, anyone? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm so tired, and I don't know how to explain my problem into words. Other people are so lucky that they get to be there Selfs. I'm stuck inside my head... :( one day, I was talking to this girl, and I said something and once again I got that face that said "wow, ur really dumb & wried." And then I said to myself. "Wow. I don't even know how to be myself." And then I realized, huh yes I actually do, I could feel it and I understood and them I was energized and I felt like myself but that hasn't again since so...... :( any advice ? & no this isn't social anxiety or awkwardness.

I am 14, I have no fiends,even thou. I used to be super social. I have trouble talking to anyone, I feel disconnected and trapped in my own head. She's annoyed by me frequently I think bc of this... Idk how to be myself. Should I talk to her about this? How could I do it without it being awkward.... I'm scarred but I don't really want to keep it to myself. Would she even be able to do anything you think?

I always joke that I'm socially retarded, and it's kinda true. I don't realize when I'm being mean, or too nice that's it wried half of the time.... And it's terrible bc I would NEVER want to hurt anyone's feelings but yesterday I ratted this kid out on something and today he was a jerk to me, but it's okay it's bc I hurt him! I want to do something nice w/out him thinking I have a crush on him. Should I like ask if he hates me for ratting him out

I'm really sad right now, and usually I'm happy but today I just feel so rejected and like nobody likes me, which I know isn't true but I feel attacked. In science class today, I accidentally made a PowerPoint instead of paper and people were so mean about it, I had mean comments thrown at me, And I felt like the whole class felt was making a big deal. Then I presented my 3 items about me or whatever and this boy slow clapped when I was done. I'm just so sad and what should I do? Everyone was like trying to say funny comments I think so they could look good but nobody was caring about my feelings, and it hurts really bad. :( I don't have any close friends and usually am happy like that, but right now, I just wish I had a friend to assure me and like give me a hug. Please tell me this isn't how the real world is ? Only hight schoo?

I haven't had a crush in like 2 years or something like that, so I was really quite surprised when I randomly starting liking this guy. I know that he's not a godly person, he doesn't have to same values as me (which makes him less attractive) but i still have a crush on him and i think he's so beautiful and just ugh...(: should I not like him or is this just a normal part of Gods creation. Idk if I can control my urge to not try to be closer to him.......... ;( I'm 14, by the way.

I was trying to prevent breast cancer the other night by massaging them, and then I noticed at the end part of my breast I'm not sure how to describe it, like a little hole or some thing where my boob like goes in less or something. I don't think it feels right... Should I tell my mom or is it nothing ? I'm only 14 so I might just be siking myself out but idk

People will very clearly sometimes when I look good that day, stare at me/check me out because ya know, that's the "normal" thing to do. The thing is, I never really desire to smile or anything at them because they don't actually like me, they like how I look, and who rlly cares? One day I look sexy, the next I look like a monster (IMO), so I don't think I can rely on my looks to reel them in. Is it rude to not smile or anything? Why bother? Why should that be what makes them talk to you? I think I have a reputation of being stuck up, because I have no friends (I'm always alone so they assume I think) and because I don't acknowledge boys and b/c I'm really socially retarted. But anyway, what should I do, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, if it should ever happen again, I don't know the etiquette.

Hi!(:

So, I have no friends, and I'm not a people person at all, that's okay, but I have some really odd problem where I restrict my personalty or something, and all that helped me is jesus and this:

“Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.”

My problem is, I don't know how to really believe and act upon that but I feel like myself when I do. I'm so sick of this I hate the mess I got myself into, if you can help please do, I know this is going to sound so strange if you don't understand it/me but still(: thanks for any answers!

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I like children, like talking with them and being there friend, I like one on one interaction. I like decorating and I'm really good at it (I don't know much about interior design, I mean like when I make cards I make it cute) if I wanted, could I do something in city looking for acting/modeling (little gigs) because it seems relatively easy you just have to find something. Right? Idk I want to do something I like but I don't want to be poor. Ideas?

She says for my moods and for my skin she wants me to try it out for at least a month, but I don't want to at all and I don't know what to do. She's getting really angry. She says the reason I have no friends is because of my skin (even though Idc about making friends that much, & people with worse skin than me have friends) I have read about this healthy 23 yr old who had a heart attack, blood clots, hair loss, just overall not a lot of positive experiences . I don't want to try this... Please give me your thoughts and advice! :( I'm 14