*mother of 3 girls*

I am 24 weeks pregnant with twin girls. For the past couple of days my husband and I can't decide on a name for the twins.

MY NAMES:

Victoria Kalise

Destiny Amari

HIS NAMES:

Kennedy Alexis

Ashley Dominique

I don't like the name Kennedy because it means ugly head. All the other names are ok but I'm not the crazy over them. If you all can come up with other names that we might like that will be great.

I received a letter a couple of days ago from my mother saying that she will be back in town Friday or Saturday to get her child, which i have been raising for 8 months now. the problem is that she can't get her and i can't let her take her from me because my fiancee and i adopted her almost 4 weeks ago and because my mother has a drug problem. when she dropped my sister off to me that night, my mother said that she was going to go look for a job up north. she was 2 months than. since than i have gotten several phone calls from a cousin that lives up there, telling me that my mother has been calling her asking for money to spend and she has also seen her 3 times with 3 different men. and she also looked VERY bad. my daughter will be 10 months on sunday, december 14th and she doesn't know or remember our mother. the fact that she is just getting in contact with me is making us upset. this is the FIRST time in 8 months since i have heard from her. i'm trying not to stress about it because i'm 15 weeks pregnant with twins and i am also graduating from grad school saturday. i love my DAUGHTER/sister with all my heart, but i cannot let my mother take her away from my fiancee and me. she doesn't know that i'm pregnant, graduating, engaged, and that we have adopted her. this is just too much on me and my body.

I REALLY need help. what should i do and what would you do?

Today my fiancee and I finalized the adoption of our 9mon. old daughter, my baby sister. And we took her out because we were both really excited. Ok anyway, about 45 minutes i took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I have not told him yet that i am because i don't know how i should feel. We already have a 9mon. old daughter and now I'm pregnant. Trust me this baby was NOT planned. We was going to wait until she was at least between the ages 3-5 to have a baby. How do i let him? Rising this baby comes with a lot of baggage. like her father, his side of the family not wanting us to take care of her, OUR mother and rather not she is coming back wanting to take her and leaving her with God knows who. I'm excited that I'm pregnant but how are we going to take care of a newborn and later a 18mon old, who's now 9mons. I know that I should be excited about my first pregnancy, but having a 9mon old is going to be hard. We are financially ready for a another baby but not physically and mentally. How should I tell him and how should I feel? and yes we all live under one roof.

Ok so my fiancee and I went to go see our lawyer today about adopting my 8mons old sister, soon to be 9mons on nov 14. Our lawyer asked us if we wanted to change her last name or keep it. In the office we told him that we wanted to change it so she will have our last names. Since we left I have been back and forth on how we should change it. Should we just add our last name on to her name, or add my last names on to her name. Right now her name is Zaria Ariana Clark. My fiancee last name is Anderson. So it will be Zaria Ariana Anderson or when we get married it will be Zaria Ariana Chisholm-Anderson. Chisholm is my last name. He wants it change because he is upset about her father not being in her life and that my mother just left her with us. Don't get me wrong he loves that little girl and will go to the end of the earth for her and so will I. As of now she has HER father's last name. I have a different father who treats her like she's his own. My father keeps her on Mondays because that's his day off. I talked to my father earlier and he told us to change it. Neither my father or fiancee wants Clark in her name. When we get married my last name will be Chisholm-Anderson

What should we do?

Zaria Ariana Anderson

Zaria Ariana Chisholm-Anderson

I am 23 yrs old and currently raising my 8mon old sister. im wondering if i should let her call me mom when she starts talking. OUR mother is not around at this time and probably wont be for a long time. she asked me to watch her just for a couple of days while she try to find a job and this was when my sister was 2mons old. i don't look at my sister as if she is my sister. i look at her as if she's my daughter because i have been her care giver for 6 mons now and i feel as if she's my daughter. its already hard that im in graduate school and working, but now i have a 8mon old that might be calling me mom and my boyfriend dad. so when she gets old enough to talk should i let her call us mommy and daddy or just tell her that im her sister and that he's my boyfriend?

Im 27yr old and her husband is expecting a baby girl she gave me a list of first names and told me to come up with the middle names. can anyone help me b/c all of the names she picked can go either way.

Corie/Cory

Troy

Kennedy/Kennedi

the names that i have came up with are:

Cory Alise

Troy Victoria

Kennedy Destiny

idk why they picked a boy name for my niece but i'm tryin to get them to change their minds.

I'm 19yrs old and I might have PCOS. I've done the research for PCOS and from what I've researched there is a strong possibility that I have it. Is it hard to get pregnant with PCOS if I have it?

I'm know 19 and last night I told my godmother that I had a miscarriage in December, but the thing is that she is like my real mom b/c my biological mother is not around. I was still 18 at the time and was in my first year of college. I had to tell her over that phone b/c I live w/ my older sister. When I told her I could tell in her voice that she was very hurt. This was the only secret that I have kept from her and the biggest. When I had the miscarriage, I didn't know that I was pregnant and I was hurt that I had a miscarriage. My mother(godmother) means the world to me and I never meant to hurt her. How can I tell her that I'm sorry that I didn't tell her over the phone?

I have been praise dancing for 9 years now. I want to take my dancing to another level. Not only do I want to take my dancing to another level, the Spirit is telling me to do that also. I see that the people in the church are being blessed when I minister to them through dance, but I would love to bless more people than them. When I minister to them not only are they getting blessed, I am also. Dancing to me is my world. If its not dancing its singing. But me dancing and going to another level is very important. I not really sure on how to do that. My god-mother is a minister, I could go to her for advice but praise dancing is not her area. My uncle is also a minister at the church I'm dancing at. So do I go to him or just sit back and wait on it?

i’ve heard so many stories about AKA and DST not getting along. in my family i have several members that are Deltas and a cousin and big sister thats an AKA. ive been in both an AKA and DST Jabberwock Pageant. dnt get me wrong i enjoyed being in both but at the time i dnt knw if i wanted to pledge. i was just doin it b/c my family members asked me to. since i now want to pledge, im having a hard time deciding on which to pledge. what should i do?