MissMay

I have been married to my husband for 18 years and he has been diagnosed with cancer. I was asking him about our finances as most of our money is in his name. He informed me that he is leaving everything, but the house, to his kids from a previous marriage. Am I entitled to any of this money? What measures should I take to ensure that I will be taken care of after he dies. I couldn't afford the house if I am left with none of the money.

I am trying to do some Christmas shopping and I am trying to find something nice to get my sister's boyfriend. He likes to wear urban or hip hop wear and so I am wondering if someone could guide me or show me a few links to something that you like. I was looking at jeans, but I am open for looking at all clothes. Thank you for your help!

So this is sort of strange, but last night my boyfriend and I were talking about kegel exercises and then I asked if it was possible for a man to exercise his penis muscle so he showed me his flexing abilities and I was very turned on by this and then he said "yeah, I've been told a lot that I have a very strong penis" and this statement really turned me off and it quite frankly pissed me off a little. Then he got mad at me for being upset about this. Is this something that shouldn't piss me off? I mean I can let go of it, but he was acting like no other person in the world would get upset about something like that. Then he went on to say "that's all they'd talk about" (his penis being strong). Any thoughts or comments... I guess I'm looking for justice for him or me..

I had my baby a little over 6 weeks ago and my husband and I attempted to have sex. I want to have sex, I desire too. He is scared it will hurt me so he doesn't want to. Also, it didn't feel the same, almost like the feeling I used to get down there was completely nonexistent. I'm scared that it will never feel good again. Is this true or could it just be that I am still healing? It scares me to loose my libido so early in life.

For the last hour and a half my baby has been pooping and peeing every 2 mins. Nothing seems out of the ordinary except the frequency of it. Is this normal or okay? My baby is just over 6 weeks old and only drinks breast milk.

My right breast is very tender and sore, and I am worried it might be bad for the baby to drink out of it. I just got a breast pump today and pumped about 3 oz of milk out, which made it softer, but it was still sore. Any idea what could be wrong with it? And is it ever a good idea to stop feeding the baby out of a boob that is sore? or is it better to continue feeding?

I know that I will be receiving antibiotics during labor, but because I have to receive these antibiotics will it cause any other differences in labor? I have been planning on using drugs to help with the pain, will this have any affect on my choices?

Last night I went to lay down in bed and a few minutes after laying there I noticed the bed was slightly damp underneath me. It looked like I had spilled some water, not a ton of water, but more then just a slight spill. I don't know if this was my water breaking or just some vaginal leakage? I didn't feel the gush or anything, I just felt the wet spot on the bed. I haven't noticed anything else unusual, no contractions. If any only very very slight, no pain or anything. My due date is dec. 30th, is it normal to have leakage? Or any ideas about what might have happened?

I am having a baby around Dec. 30th and I am thinking about starting a savings account for my baby. I can't decide if I should do some kind of CD for like ten years and how much money I should start with? Any suggestions as to how much money I should put into savings at this point and where a good place to invest it is?

I started at 134 lbs when I found out that I was pregnant and now I am 36 weeks pregnant and weigh almost 190 lbs. Am I going to be able to loose the weight? I really don't know why I gained so much weight, but I think it has to do with becoming a bit more lazy and and eating more. My doctor said my weight gain is fine and that I will be able to get skinny again, but my nurse practitioner and other nurses have commented about how my weight gain is too much and that I need to slow it down. Any suggestions as to what to do now or what to do to loose the weight after the baby? Or will I be able to easily get down to my normal size again? I didn't work out before I was pregnant, but I maintained a healthy diet and kept active. Is that all I need to do to become my old size after the baby is born? Please help! I am getting nervous and insecure about this weight gain.

I am going out of town for 4 and a half days and I am worried my betta will not get enough food. I bought her some new food and tested it on her, she likes it. I bought her the tetrabetta floating mini pellets. First of all I am unsure as to what one serving is of these pellets. Second of all has anyone had experience with putting these in their tank for their betta to eat while away? I plan to feed her some of her regular snacks before I leave, but I want to leave some extra food in her bowl so that she can eat. Any suggestions?

Everyone has their reasons why they like or dislike Christmas. I really like Christmas and having family traditions on the day of Christmas. This will be my first year away from my parents and sister for Christmas. I am not able to travel to my hometown because I'm pregnant and my due date is Dec. 30th. I want to try and make the most out of my Christmas with my new family, but my boyfriend is really not into the holiday and I am worried I might get really emotional if I don't try for a wonderful Christmas with him. He sees no point in Christmas and I can understand thinking family should do fun things all year round, etc... but there is a spirit of Christmas that fills me with warmth and love like no other time of the year... anyway.. I am just curious as to reasons Christmas is special to you.. So please share traditions and reasons with me.

I have been staying at my boyfriend's parents house and they have been doing a lot to help me and my boyfriend get back on our feet. I brought my dog with me and I was very open to them getting close to on another. But now it's gotten to the point where they shut their bedroom door with my dog in there, and I'm not okay with that. Any suggestions on how to get him to come back to bed with me? Or how I can tell his parents without offending them? Because they are great people. I just feel very distant from my puppy these days and I miss him and want him to sleep with me if he's going to sleep with someone.

I have no confectioners sugar- any suggestions on how to make frosting without it? I am using things i can find around my kitchen, i managed to make the chocolate cake, but now I can't find a way to make the frosting. Please help!

My dog ate a roll of sinew and has been pooping it out for a few days and just started to puke this morning. He won't eat his dog food, or drink any water. What kind of effects could sinew have on him? Should I take him to a vet or will it pass?

Also, he seemed to be fine the last few days after eating it, but got lose yesterday and may have gotten into something else.

Another thing it could possibly be from is drinking run off water from the streets at the dog park.

Let me know what you all think please. I could use the help.

To the ladies who have done this before, how does it work? Does it have any negative effects on the donor? Any advice or information would be great.

I have been wanting to for so long. Currently I have no money and have been living with my boyfriends family. I want to get out and live on my own, but I don't know if there is anywhere I can go and be accepted that you don't need money for. I don't mind being homeless, I've done that before, but I have a dog and a boyfriend and feel like it is just too much to take care of while being homeless and I'm not willing to give them up. Any suggestions, other than telling me to get a job and be a productive member of society?

Do you watch it? are you in a relationship or single? do you ever choose to watch it over having sex with your partner? Do you think it should be accepted in a relationship if both parties aren't into watching it?

I was watching a video about Mexico's fattest man getting married and I wondered if they could even have sex?

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