♥Sℓim Shady♥

I was recently involved in a car accident Wed night where my car was totaled and I am currently on muscle relaxers and anti inflammatory medication (with a doctors note and pictures of my totaled car and a case #). To add on to my incredible luck, I had a court date today. I was unable to make it due to lack of transportation and being asked to rest my injuries by my physician. My attorney was present, but I was not. Will my evidence suffice? If not, will I be issued a bench warrant? If one was issued, Id assume my attorney would've informed me by now. Having a mild anxiety attack thinking about this...

Hi! So before I ask my question I should probably give a little background info.

I'm a 21 year old black female that's only been intimate with white men. I've never dated, kissed or had sex with any other races. Just white dudes. It even confuses me sometimes because I find every race attractive, including my own (ASAP Rocky is my dream man lol). A lot of studies I've read about similar topics imply ideas of "self hating black women" going for white men due to negative black influences in their lives and hating their blackness to the point of only wanting biracial offspring. I have daddy issues, but my father was involved in my life (parents are married. Grew up in a nice suburban neighborhood). I do not hate black men. I do not dislike being dark skinned (note I've never dealt with colorism so that's not something I care about). I do not hate black features. I don't even want kids, so I'm not worried about having "mixed babies". I refuse to force myself to like a guy bc of his race, I simply like what I like and those guys end up being white. The only downfall is these guys are usually infatuated with black culture, which makes me uncomfortable and feel like a fetish.

My question is.....do you guys have a racial preference, and if you do then why do you think you have it? Although I can't pinpoint my "preference", I'd guess it's the predominantly white neighborhood I grew up in and the media. It's just kinda cool to know how others feel

Ok, so the other day some strange number texted my boyfriend and claimed they were my ex boyfriend, trevor. The only problem with that is I have never dated a guy named trevor in my life. "Trevor" made all of these bullish*t claims that him and I still hook up and he found my boyfriend's number and was telling him all about how I'm a whore and that I cheat on him. I have never cheated on my boyfriend, I have never dated a trevor and the area code was almost 4 hours away from where I live. I texted the number and basically told them to leave my boyfriend alone and then this nutcase proceeds to make up fake text messages between him and I and used my phone number as the contact name to make it look like I was texting them. My boyfriend knows this person is lying and is convinced its an ex or some girl that hates me. The only problem is that the person it using all of these fake numbers and we can't pinpoint who it is. If this person is making up false claims about me and using my phone number and identity, can I get them for defamation of character?? I really don't care what this freak says to my boyfriend, I just don't feel very comfortable with somebody using my identity and pretending to know me. Or is there at least a way to track down text now numbers? We know it's a text now number bc the genius forgot to get rid of the "www.textnow.com" signature. Thank you :)

Hey guys! I am a 20 year old college student with two jobs and I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful college graduate :). Although my boyfriend is amazing, he still hasn't met my mother. I don't tell her much about him, all she knows is that he exists. I'm not ashamed of him WHATSOEVER, I just stopped involving my mom in my life. That doesn't mean I lie, I just keep my private life is private. I do not dislike her, I just feel so smothered by her. She is very hard to talk to. She inadvertently judges in order to avoid having talks, our communication is sh*t.nstead of trying to reach out and understanding why I'm so shut out, she just tells me to "grow up" and calls me a sneaky liar. I wish I could be more open, but all she does is stress me out when I try. Whenever I want to go out with my friends (which isn't very often), she always says mean things to make me feel bad about hanging out with them instead of her. I'm sick of my mom not trusting me, but I also don't feel comfortable telling her everything. How can I better communication with my mother so she stops telling me to grow up? I'm extremely tired of it

thank you :)

Okay, so I, like many other people, am guilty of putting old school rappers (aka the Originators) over new school solely based on their respective eras. I was a kid in the late 90s, so I was bumping to artists like Crazy Town, Limp Bizkit, Master P/No Limit Soldiers, Big Tymers, Hot Boyz, Juvenile, etc. I'm quick to make fun of Chief Keef and Waka Flocka, but I neglect to realize that they are the modern version of some of the rappers I loved back in the day. 90% of my iPod's hip hop content is A Tribe Called Quest, Pharcyde, PM Dawn type sh*t (90s hippie rap), and I'd rather listen to this in my car than my radio because I seem to have this misconception that all new rappers are wack,when they aren't. There's plenty of amazing new artists, but I tend to lean towards the ones with a more 90s vibe lol. Do you agree that we (old school rap fans) stubbornly stuck in our ways?

**Just thought I'd make a note stating that the rappers I mentioned in the late 90s portion of my question are not what I'd consider "Old School" :) just examples of the tragic rappers I adored back then.

Ok, so before I get put down and called a moody teenager, I just want to make it clear thats not my problem.

Earlier this school year (I'm a senior) my "friend" (a term I've learned to use loosely) randomly decided to send me a text declaring the end of our friendship. It doesn't end there though. All of the people we were friends with is siding with her (she"s very manipulative) leaving me friendless. I'm a very opinionated and blunt person, I refuse to censor myself because I feel thats fake. Up until my "friend" ended the friendship, my personality was funny, admirable and refreshing. Now since she doesn't like me, she's got this theory that I'm mean and sour. Its a well known fact that I'm defensive of my friends and I'm a generous person, but I'm not afraid to curse somebody out if necessary. She wants people to think I'm a bad person. (she became friends with this girl that hates me. this girl is willing to do whatever to get her way)

Next, my home life sucks. My brother abandoned us (I say this because him and I were super close), my dad is terrible to me (he's physically and mentally abusive, narcissistic and controlling), and I feel betrayed by my mom for not leaving him years ago. I feel as though my parents don't care about anything but my grades. They never asks how I feel, but what my grades are like. My dad (it even kills me to call him that) is the worse. He talks down on me, he's put his hands on me too many times, and he never apologizes or says I love you. When he punched me in my face, instead of apologizing and making me feel loved, he buys me an iPhone. I'm sick of them showering me with material things instead of making me feel worthy. The fact that my mom doesn't defend me or divorce him breaks my heart. She wants me to have a father figure, but her "father figure" is driving me insane.

I've been broken and torn down, I cannot take it. My once confident, outgoing and blunt personality is now reserved, sad and nonexistent. I feel so unmotivated about everything. I have made a few new friends with ease, but its not the same. I've been close with those girls for so many years, but the fact that they've all ganged up on me is too much for me to handle, mostly because we haven't had a falling out, but the ex friend's actions cause a split that isolated me. When she's not around Im their friend, and I don't do sometime-y friends, so I've decided not to call them my friends.

Any input on how I should deal? I really don't want to be bothered with this childish sh*t since I'm 18 now, but I know ignoring it won't make the problem go away.

Okay so like most people between the ages of like 17 and 30, I grew up adoring many pop acts, including Backstreet. A few of my favorite songs were:

All I Have To Give

Everybody

Quit Playing Games W/ My Heart

I'll Never Break Your Heart

As Long As You Love Me

Roll With It

Boys Will Be Boys

I Want It That Way

Back To Your Heart

Set Adrift On Memories Bliss

now, my question for you is what were your favorite BSB songs. Like classic R&B, bubblegum Backstreet, not that "In A World Like This" stuff (although I do love "Try")

Hi guys :)

Lately I've been facing some issues, some personal, and have decided that the best solution would be to fix myself and become a happier person. I've gotten rid of people that I did not really like and made me upset, decided who my true friends are, and have began to ignore uneccesary bullsh*t and focus more on my own happiness. As the music lover I am, I need a soundtrack to go along with my journey. The only issue is that I don't have a lot of rap on my playlist (its mostly 90s pop & ska punk at the moment). I want to know if you guys can reccomend some easy going, happy go lucky rap songs. Doesn't matter the era, but I will give you a few examples of the types of songs I'm looking for.

Good Day - Nappy Roots

Runnin'- Pharcyde

Good Life- Kanye

Nothing You Can't Do- Asher Roth

Today Was A Good Day- Ice Cube

Okay here's the deal:

I'm a 17 year old rising senior and I've live in the suburbs my entire life. My parents are married and have been for a while. On the outside, my life looks awesome. I have good grades, nice clothes, an iPhone, I drive a convertible beetle and I love to have fun. But my peers don't know anything about what goes on inside. My dad is a total d*ck to me. He always has been. He's verbally abusive towards me, like he always makes sly comments about my weight (I'm definitely not fat. I'm slim, but I'm busty and I guess being post pubescent means fat in his book), he belittles me, and he loves to praise other kids but not me. In addition to his verbal abuse, he's been physically abusive to me on multiple occasions. Once when I was about 8, he violently beat me in the Walmart parking lot. A man (I remember him having a beard) watched in disgust, but didn't do anything about it. Then about 3 years later, I remember him tackling me and beating me over an argument MY BROTHER AND I were having (my brother and I were jokingly fighting over me losing at guitar hero, it had nothing to do with him), so my mom intervened and he punched her for protecting me then he ran away for a day. Then when I was 15 and learning how to drive, every time I would make a mistake, he would scream at me and draw his fist back like he was going to hit me. Once during the driving session, he grabbed me so hard that my cardigan ripped, so I jumped out of the car and ran away. He ran behind me and threw me in the car, forcing me to go back home. I kept trying to jump out but he wouldn't let go of me. The most recent thing that happened was about a few months ago. My mom had a hysterectomy and she wanted me to visit her so I did. I am extremely allergic to pollen so driving with the windows down makes me really sick during pollen season. He knows that I am allergic to pollen, but doesn't care. On the way home he rolled down all four windows (he has A/C, so idk why he did to be honest), so I said "hey could you please roll the windows up?" and he got offended and straight up said no. I didn't really care, so I just rolled my window up which ticked him the hell off, so he rolls it back down and I rolled it back up and go "I know you want your window up, but please dont roll mine down. its making me really sick" and he got mad at me and was screaming at me (I can't remember what he said to me) and rolled it back up, then I obviously rolled it back up, then all i remember is him jabbing me in my face (he busted my lip and made the area between my upper lip and nose irritated and swell too) and my soda flying out of my hand into his lap. So i started crying and took my phone out to call my mom, and he snatched it out of my hand and tried to throw it out of the window so I couldn't contact anybody. I ran home, grabbed the house phone and ran upstairs, locking my door. I literally went insane in my room. I tore stuff off the wall, I smashed stuff and I screamed. Then I called my mom and told her what happened. She talked to him, and he lied and blamed everything on me. He had the balls to say that I busted my own lip and that he didnt touch me. I cant believe he would do that. I also can't believe that my mom is still married to him, he treats her like straight sh*t. For a good portion of my life, I was able to hide my anger and make my life seem picture perfect, but lately it has really been getting to me. It haunts me in my sleep. I've slowly stopped caring about school and my personality is starting to become more cynical. I cannot deal much longer and I can't even stand to live in the same house as him. Some nights, I think of just leaving and never coming back, but I don't know what he'll do to her while I'm gone, which scares the living hell out of me. I honestly think I need to see a therapist or psychologist soon to make the problem go away before it becomes serious and affects the rest of my life. Should I? Excuse my lengthy question, I just needed to vent..

Thank You,

Sky

So recently I just realized I knew the lyrics to:

What's my name - Lil Bow Wow

Barbie Girl - Aqua

Take ya home - lil bow Wow

Pretty fly - offsprings

Any Backstreet Boys songs off of Backstreets back & Millennium

I like it - Sammie

The entire Justified album

Ride With Me - Nelly

Uh Huh - B2K

It's gonna be me - NSYNC

First Time - IMX (immature)

Stutter & I wanna know- Joe

Steal My Sunshine - Len

& these are all songs I haven't heard since i was a little girl. It's funny how I still know them word for word. Do you guys do the same thing? If so, what songs?

BQ - what's one 90s/Early 2000s song you'd die if somebody knew you knew all of the words to?

Okay so recently my brother who is 7 years older than me (I'm 16, he's 24) married a woman that nobody in my family has ever met & he got married without telling me, I found out via Facebook. He also recently joined the military (he had no interest until he met this woman) & got stationed in Germany & didn't even tell me he had left the country (this I also discovered via facebook). His wife and I have had one conversation over Facebook & it wasn't very friendly (it got to the point where her and I are not allowed to talk). I had confronted my brother about the way he was acting & she went off on me when I was not talking to or about her so I charged back 10x harder. The part that blows my mind is that my brother didn't say "hey she's just a kid, let me talk to my sister & see why she feels this way". He hasn't contacted me in over 9 months & I really miss him. We were so close to the point where he was my best friend. Everybody knows how crazy we are (were) about each other & it kills me when they ask about his whereabouts. He didn't even say happy birthday on my sweet 16 but I was more than happy to contact him on his bday & tell him even though you treat me badly, you're still my top friend & I miss you. He won't talk to me though. My question is, should I be upset with him or the wife because my brother is the nicest person I've ever met & would be friends with anybody until he met her. He was a total mamas boy, now he wont talk to our mom now. But she can't force him to be a jerk can she? All I want is my brother back....

Hi guys :)

If you've ever seen my answers you'd know that I'm a fan of stuff like De La Soul, Arrested Development, A Tribe Called Quest, Outkast, Black Sheep, Digable Planets, Black Star, The Pharcyde ect...like rap from the early 90s (or 90s influences) that's just mellow, silly, happy, and a great alternative to gangsta rap, plus its really lyrical. How do you feel about this kind of rap? If you're not a fan, explain what you dislike about it & what you'd choose over it :) I personally like it cuz I'm the ultimate nerdy, goofy black kid (think Pharrell) & it like fits my personality lol

Salutations,

$ky. :-)

So recently I got into it with my friend. Let's call him.....Jimmy. So Jimmy and I had a disagreement that I kind of threw out the window cuz it was so petty. Then, he was hella stale for no reason and I didn't know why. So I was chatting with my mate, let's call her Stacy. So Stacy goes "he said you were b*tchy and bossy" so I kindly asked Jimmy if this was true and he denied it (load of crap ik) so I let it go, cuz I'm anti drama. So then he goes, well I heard some ish about you too. So I'm just like "Wtf is he talking about?" Then he goes "well (let's call her Allison) Allison told me that you said I wouldn't pass and I sing too much" and I said that so long ago that I had actually forgotten. And the way i said it was so nonchalant, I didn't even think about it. I wasn't dissing when I said it. I was just regurgitating something he had said to me. And idc about the singing part tho. My question is, should I ask Allison about it or just forgive and forget? She's and awesome friend, she just runs her mouth too damn much.

Thanks!,

a bad friend named $ky :\

Okay my 15th birthday is next month (november 22nd to be exact.) and I wanna throw some kinda party with friends but idk what to do & how many friends to have over.

My ideas.

-Have a couple friends come over that friday after school to sleep over(like one rides the bus home with me, & one lives in my neighborhood so she can just get off with me, and one lives in walking distance so she can just walk.)

-then the next day (that saturday) I have like a group of friends come over & we just play video games, watch movies, play games, eat cake & some kinda food (pizza?),chill ect. I wanted to have like 9 more people come over on that saturday..

does that sound like a good plan & do you have any other ideas?

Okay I'm asking this question because I was recently discussing who's gonna blow up and who's gonna plummet to the ground. I say Bruno Mars is gonna be a HUGE success, but my brother say's he's gonna be a total fail. I think he's just a naturally talented person. I mean really, dude sings beautifully, plays guitar, piano& drums and is a pretty good producer. He claims he won't last long though. Okay every song he has been on has been a HUGE success (Billionaire, Nothin' On You, AND Just The Way You Are). He mentioned how his EP didnt do so well and Drake's did, but thats because he barely promoted it and Drake did, and most people only noticed him cuz he knows lil' wayne and alot of us grew up watching him on DeGrassi. But Bruno's EP was ahh-mazingly good! Like it was Cute (somewhere in brooklyn, count on me) Sad (Talking To The Moon) and Upbeat (The Otherside).. I'm not saying this as a hormonal teenage girl thinking he's just a cutie pie (he is though but thats not important) I'm saying this as a fan of good R&B music. I think he is good R&B. He doesnt disrespect women ,he has barely any profanity & pretty much no sexual content in his songs, and they arent corny.

Okay on the 21 of may I have cheer tryouts! (:

I'm soo excited! but there's one problem, I can't tumble at all! my most complicated "stunt" is a Kart-Wheel lmao(: anywhoo, my strong points aree: I've been Cheer-Dancing for a while so I'm a dancer, I'm very flexiblee, excellent jumps, my movements are super tight( from the Cheer-dancing), I can chant well, and when it comes to learning I'm like a sponge: nice and quick . So my actual question is : Would my "tumbling problem" stop me from making the squad? or would my strong points help?

Much Lovee,

♥Sℓim Shady♥

Okay so im gonna be a freshman and I wanna be a cheerleader at my highschool(: there's gona be practices from the 21-26 and the actual tryout is on the 27. Okay so my question to you, are there any tips for trying out you can give me? Also, could you give me a daily conditioning routine and something to help with my backwalkover and handstand. Thankss(:

Love, Slim Shady(:

Ookay(:

As most of you all know on the last day of school most middle schools have a going away dance for the 8th graders known as the 8th Grade Formal. This year the theme is Casino Night, I wanted to know what type of dress I should get to match that theme. Also, what kind of shoes should I wear? I was thinking heels, but I'm a bit of a klutz so I'd like to know what are some easier shoes to walk in that look really cutee.

Thankss(:

and if you have any suggestions PLEASE feel free to leave them!

-Slim Shady

Okay for a career plan I want to become a T.V. personality like Shawn Robinson,Alexa Chung,Tatayana Ali(ik actress turned interviewer) ect ect. I have a very vibrant and fun personality, I'm very poised, articulate and all that jazz. I'm always up on the hottest celebs and the most intelligent men/women. Is it true that I'd have to major in Communications and get a degree in that before I even consider this career? This is really what I want to do, I take dance/modeling/acting classes and I'm an honor student. Am I on the right track?

Ok I'm tired of my parents doggin' me about not doing chores if I want money, they give me like 10 bucks. I can't go anywhere with 10 bucks, I go skating every friday, renting skates is 10 bucks alone, not including food and games. I wanna work at McDonald's over the summer, its right around the corner. But my mom thinks I'm a little girl and I need a babysitter. My McDonald's hires at my age, and my dad thinks its a good idea, my bro did the same thing at footlocker when he was a yr older(15-16) but that was a bit far away. Like everytime I say McDonald's is hiring, that trick says "Not for you" and I think it is so sexist how she let my bro work, she even drove him to work everyday. But wont do it for me.