Jennifer Not deja lovely

Every time I get in a long line at a grocery store, the clerk next over will tell either the person in front of me or behind me that they’ll help them out. Even though I have the same amount if not, less amount of stuff in my hands as them. When my husband and I go out to the store, people gravitate to him and ask how he’s doing or if they can help him find anything, but that has never happened to me before. When I go out with friends people just look at whoever I’m with and not me. Why is that?

I’m 5’4, slim body type, mixed race, dark skin, long straight black hair down passed my chest. I look up when I walk, I never cross my arms. What is going on

I used to date a girl who was very feminine. I would bang her from the back with my strap on, she was very submissive. It s been a few years now and she looks and acts like a guy. Cut her hair into a Mohawk, wears guy cloths and calls herself a stem. She wants to have sex, but I feel the sex would be different now. What are most stems like in bed?

I remember at 18 I was a very hyper girl. Super goofy, always joking around and would start beatboxing at random. Now I'm 23, and I'm a little less hyper then I use to be. But still energetic, and corky/dorky. You could say I have a bubbly personality. I joke around a lot, but I try to act more serious now a days. I'm afraid my bubbly personlity though is what makes me appear to look like im a lot younger than I am. Looks wise, I still look like im 16. I know I should be thankful for looking younger than I am instead of older, but my youthful appearance is whats causing me not get taken seriously at work and its starting to become a problem...Is there anything I can do to appear older and mature? I wanna learn how to give off that aura but I'm not sure how. I don't wanna change my personality...I like that I'm cheerful and outgoing and bubbly. I use to be super shy and didnt know how to have conversations pretty much. I feel like ive evolved since then, but I also feel like maybe my quietness made me appear mature back then.

My hair stylist uses Chi for my hair. Which works wonderfully by the way. I highly recommend it to anyone who hasnt tried it yet. It gives your hair protien and makes it soft and shiny. But anyways, Its kind of expensive. It costs over $100 every 2 months and I'd rather just do it myself. I asked the stylist if I could buy the Chi, but all I can get is the shampoo, conditioner and serum. Not the Chi stuff she uses on my hair every few months. Does anyone know where I can find it? Perhaps a website that sells it?

I'm 23, but I'll be 24 soon. I started community college a few months ago around winter time. Ill be 24 soon. I got about another year to go, and then I'm off to a university. But by the time I get to the university, ill be 25. Is that too old? Should I not live in the dorms there? I'm sure everyone living there would be 18, 19 to 20...

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was super charming, confident, and just a total sweet heart. But now, as we gotten to know each other more, he's become less and less attractive to me. Everyday he asks if I'm cheating on him. When I text someone he questions if I'm texting a guy. He constantly thinks I'm cheating on him because it wasn't that long ago that him and his ex broke up and I guess she cheated on him a lot. It just hurts me because I keep telling him to stop asking if I'm cheating. I tell him how I find it appalling that he thinks I'm in capable of keeping it in my pants. I've never given him a reason to think I'm cheating. I've never cheated and everytime a guy asks for my number I tell them I have a bf. I don't know what to do. And he's extremely passive aggressive. When something's bothering him, he won't talk about it with me. He just shuts me out for hours, and I'm getting sick of that. I'm sick of begging him to communicate with me when something's wrong. Are these valid reasons to be mad?

I dont know how it got brought up. But the other night he kept talking about his ex. He kept going on and on about her. But in a negative way though. He kept saying how she was such a slut and how she probably cheated on him a bunch of times (he doesnt know for sure) and he says shes dating some guy whos way older than her. And the more he talked the angry he got. And then when he got angry he went on facebook and sent her ex's sister a message to tell her sister that shes a dumb b i t c h. And then started putting up pictures of me and him together on his facebook. It just felt like he did that to get back at her.

Sometimes when I want to do something he'll say, in an angry manner, "Thats something my ex would do"

I know he says bad things about her, but it just feels like she still has a hold on him. Also, he's told me that I kind of look like her. That I have her hair type, and that we're both mixed, and thats what attracted me to him.

Is that kind of weird? What do you guys think? Should I worry?

Theres this guy in my computer class. He's very confident, funny and he's a theatre major. He's very sarcastic and always has the class laughing. I really like him. But I found out he's literally over a decade older than me. He's 34. But i still like him. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too young for him though. He always holds the door for me. And we meet up after class almost everyday to work on songs together on the piano. He's always saying things to help bring my confidence up because I'm naturally a shy person, and have a hard time just letting go when I sing. We've never hung out outside the school before, but today we agreed to work on more music stuff maybe at his place. After he told me that, he bumped fists with me :/ no hugs, just bro fists. Is he interested in me at all? I've been told that I'm attractive and I guess I'd give myself an 8 on looks. But he's older and is probably wanting something deep and I don't know...what do you guys think of all this? And what can I do to get him to like me?

Theres this guy in my computer class. He's very confident, funny and he's a theatre major. He's very sarcastic and always has the class laughing. I really like him. But I found out he's literally over a decade older than me. He's 34. But i still like him. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too young for him though. He always holds the door for me. And we meet up after class almost everyday to work on songs together on the piano. He's always saying things to help bring my confidence up because I'm naturally a shy person, and have a hard time just letting go when I sing. We've never hung out outside the school before, but today we agreed to work on more music stuff maybe at his place. After he told me that, he bumped fists with me :/ no hugs, just bro fists. Is he interested in me at all? I've been told that I'm attractive and I guess I'd give myself an 8 on looks. But he's older and is probably wanting something deep and I don't know...what do you guys think of all this? And what can I do to get him to like me?

Theres this guy in my computer class. He's very confident, funny and he's a theatre major. He's very sarcastic and always has the class laughing. I really like him. But I found out he's literally over a decade older than me. He's 34. But i still like him. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too young for him though. He always holds the door for me. And we meet up after class almost everyday to work on songs together on the piano. He's always saying things to help bring my confidence up because I'm naturally a shy person, and have a hard time just letting go when I sing. We've never hung out outside the school before, but today we agreed to work on more music stuff maybe at his place. After he told me that, he bumped fists with me :/ no hugs, just bro fists. Is he interested in me at all? I've been told that I'm attractive and I guess I'd give myself an 8 on looks. But he's older and is probably wanting something deep and I don't know...what do you guys think of all this? And what can I do to get him to like me?

Theres this guy in my computer class. He's very confident, funny and he's a theatre major. He's very sarcastic and always has the class laughing. I really like him. But I found out he's literally over a decade older than me. He's 34. But i still like him. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too young for him though. He always holds the door for me. And we meet up after class almost everyday to work on songs together on the piano. He's always saying things to help bring my confidence up because I'm naturally a shy person, and have a hard time just letting go when I sing. We've never hung out outside the school before, but today we agreed to work on more music stuff maybe at his place. After he told me that, he bumped fists with me :/ no hugs, just bro fists. Is he interested in me at all? How do I get him to like me? I've been told that I'm attractive and I guess I'd give myself an 8 on looks. But he's older and is probably wanting something deep and I don't know...what do you guys think of all this? And what can I do to get him to like me?

Theres this guy in my computer class. He's very confident, funny and he's a theatre major. He's very sarcastic and always has the class laughing. I really like him. But I found out he's literally over a decade older than me. He's 34. But i still like him. I'm afraid he thinks I'm too young for him though. He always holds the door for me. And we meet up after class almost everyday to work on songs together on the piano. He's always saying things to help bring my confidence up because I'm naturally a shy person, and have a hard time just letting go when I sing. We've never hung out outside the school before, but today we agreed to work on more music stuff maybe at his place. After he told me that, he bumped fists with me :/ no hugs, just bro fists. Is he interested in me at all? How do I get him to like me? I've been told that I'm attractive and I guess I'd give myself an 8 on looks. But he's older and is probably wanting something deep and I don't know...what do you guys think of all this? And what can I do to get him to like me?

Dont you need to take Math 90, then 91, 92, 93, 98 and then 107 and you're done?

Whenever I go see my hair dresser, i leave the salon with nice silky straight hair. But eventually throughout the week, I of course need to wash it. But after I wash my hair and straighten it with the Iron, its straight, however, it looks very poofy. It does not look at all how it did when I came outta the salon. What do I do to get it back to that state? I even use the products she recommended me using. I no longer relax my hair. She uses this chemical called Chi, which is suppose to be more healthy she says. I just dont know what to do, i've always had this problem. I dont know how to keep it silky straight. After I wash it, I usually put it in a pony tail til I see my hair dresser again which is like a month or 2 later. Whats the secret to keeping it straight? Please help

Whenever I go see my hair dresser, i leave the salon with nice silky straight hair. But eventually throughout the week, I of course need to wash it. But after I wash my hair and straighten it with the Iron, its straight, however, it looks very poofy. It does not look at all how it did when I came outta the salon. What do I do to get it back to that state? I even use the products she recommended me using. I no longer relax my hair. She uses this chemical called Chi, which is suppose to be more healthy she says. I just dont know what to do, i've always had this problem. I dont know how to keep it silky straight. After I wash it, I usually put it in a pony tail til I see my hair dresser again which is like a month or 2 later. Whats the secret to keeping it straight? Please help

Whenever I go see my hair dresser, i leave the salon with nice silky straight hair. But eventually throughout the week, I of course need to wash it. But after I wash my hair and straighten it with the Iron, its straight, however, it looks very poofy. It does not look at all how it did when I came outta the salon. What do I do to get it back to that state? I even use the products she recommended me using. I no longer relax my hair. She uses this chemical called Chi, which is suppose to be more healthy she says. I just dont know what to do, i've always had this problem. I dont know how to keep it silky straight. After I wash it, I usually put it in a pony tail til I see my hair dresser again which is like a month or 2 later. Whats the secret to keeping it straight? Please help

I recieve absoloutely no pleasure from my boyfriend in bed. Hes very very tiny. I dont feel anything, and I've honestly tried every position you could possibly think of. He thinks its because I'm wild and like trying new things...but no, I'm just trying to find the right position to where I can actually feel it. He has no idea that i'm not satisfied in bed. He gets off, but I never do. I feel like if I tell him he's too small, it would hurt his feelings badly. I dont know how to communicate to him how I feel without hurting his feelings. How do I start the conversation off? How do I talk to him about this? What would be a good solution for us?

Im a 23 year old female, almost 24. and I happen to like this guy that goes to my college. Problem is, he's 19. I didn't know that when I met him. We got to know eachother and I ended up liking him. When he told me hes 19 and he asked about my age, I lied and told him and his brother Im 19 as well...and now I'm afraid once I tell him the truth he won't like me anymore or think I'm too old for him. What are your thoughts on our age difference? Would I be considered a cougar? Please give me your input on this

I want to become a music teacher for elementary school kids. I play a variety of instruments, but I'm not adavanced on either of them. I would say i'm at an intermediate level when it comes to piano, drums, guitar, but im not the best. I started learning as a kid, but when my piano teacher had cancer, i stopped playing. But now i've picked it up again, and I do love music, as well as kids. Being a teacher is something i've always wanted to do. I'm in college right now, taking a bunch of piano and music theory classes to better my skills. Should I continue with this career choice? O

I get really nervous when I present in front of a class. My presentations suppose to be about my career and what I want to do. I put I wanna become a music teacher. I know the salarys and how much they'll make. I know about the advantages and disadvantages of becoming a music teacher. But I dont know how to make my presentation interesting so the class wont fall asleep...Any suggestions?