MIke

My ex girlfriend is a pyscho and took herself off birth control to get pregnant. She knew i was done with the relationship and that i was beginning to talk to other girls and i know it's my fault i had unprotected sex but never in my wildest dreams did i think someone would do this. I was young, naive, and ignorant. However after not speaking to her for two years i get a piece of mail saying i have a 13 month old daughter that i'm being sued for child support for. Well it's been about a year since and things are going pretty well. I've done my best to mend the relationship despite not wanting to just for my daughter whom i love and want to do everything before but there's a couple of questions i have. If i pay child support will i ever be able to live a happy life financially? it's 17% of your salary and i should come out of school with a decent job. I'm graduating from a good school with a business administration degree, and a 4 year collegiate athlete with no criminal record and the other question i have is will girls still want to date me? idk i feel like it's a stupid question but knowing the fact that i have a child kind of hinders my ability to talk to girls because i don't think they will be interested. If anyone out there has experienced any of these issues please help! and seriously i know i was irresponsible and s**t does happen in this world. I don't need to hear from people that i should have done this or shouldn't have done this. I'm looking for advice in the situation that i'm in currently. Thank you.

Ok i'm 22 years old. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up like 3 summers ago and she was kind of psycho to the point where she pulled herself off birth control lied about being pregnant then went two years without talking until she hit me with court papers saying that i have a 13 month child. I didn't want to be with this girl we dated in high school for a little while and she obviously has some issues. Yea i know i should have used a condom i dont want to hear all the things i should have done ok. I thought i was with someone that i atleast could trust not to do something of this magnitude. I see the child as much as i can because after all it is my child and i don't want to be a scum bag and the child is so innocent and has nothing to do with my ex making this terrible decision. But i feel trapped now. Like i can't leave my hometown and do move across the a country and do what i always wanted to do or meet other girls. I feel like they are going to look down on me for having a child or if i move i'll feel bad. It's just a bad situation because I don't want to be with this girl and she did it to be with me for life and i honestly feel bad for her because her plan backfired. How should i tackle this situation can anyone help me out with a little life experience?

if someone was doing cocaine and smoking weed one night and had unprotected sex with a girl whom then took a next choice morning after pill approximately 5 hours after sex? please don't judge me it was only one night i know it's wrong and i'm stupid so please just save those comments for yourself.

I had sex about a month ago with a girl and unfortunately we weren't safe and ejaculated a little inside of her. She took a next choice morning after pill about 5 hours after sex. I have been in contact with her and she said she is not pregnant and that she has had her period. However, I had a crazy ex girlfriend that got pregnant and didn't tell me until the child was 13 months old. I guess i'm just nervous because i feel like the same thing is going to happen. I watched this girl take the pill and i have asked her so many times if she is pregnant and continuously says know am i just paranoid idk i just get really worried about this stuff.

I had sex about a month ago with a girl and unfortunately we weren't safe and ejaculated a little inside of her. She took a next choice morning after pill about 5 hours after sex. I have been in contact with her and she said she is not pregnant and that she has had her period. However, I had a crazy ex girlfriend that got pregnant and didn't tell me until the child was 13 months old. I guess i'm just nervous because i feel like the same thing is going to happen. I watched this girl take the pill and i have asked her so many times if she is pregnant and continuously says know am i just paranoid idk i just get really worried about this stuff.

I had sex about a month ago with a girl and unfortunately we weren't safe and ejaculated a little inside of her. She took a next choice morning after pill about 5 hours after sex. I have been in contact with her and she said she is not pregnant and that she has had her period. However, I had a crazy ex girlfriend that got pregnant and didn't tell me until the child was 13 months old. I guess i'm just nervous because i feel like the same thing is going to happen. I watched this girl take the pill and i have asked her so many times if she is pregnant and continuously says know am i just paranoid idk i just get really worried about this stuff.

ok so i had unprotected sex and finished on accident inside of her. She then took NextChoice about 5-6 hours after the sex. Do you think she'll be pregnant?

I had sex a couple days ago and by accident got a little of you know what inside of her. She was not on birth control. So i went to CVS and purchased next choice and she took the pill maybe 3-4 hours after we had sex. Is this stuff effective?