Rick

Say a guy invites you over to his house for whatever reason. (movie, food, video games, hang out, etc.)

Would you accept the invite if you didn t have a romantic interest in the guy?

Not looking for anything in return, just want to make her smile. Thanks :)

I mean really, are they that off putting for men to wear? I'm in decent shape and have great hygiene.

I mean, it's just a piece of clothing. If they are comfortable and prevent my male anatomy from getting all sweaty and sticking to my leg, why are they considered gross or a big turn off to women for men to wear them?

Please note that I am talking about thongs made for men, not women's underwear.

I mean really, are they that bad? If they are comfortable and prevent the male anatomy from getting all sweaty and sticking to my leg, is it such a big deal to women for me to wear them?

There is this girl I am friends with that I would like to have one of my sweatshirts.

How can I give it to her without coming across as desperate or trying hard.

Thanks for answering :)

I apologize if this is a tad bit long, thank you for reading.

So there's this girl I know, I could probably write a whole book about her, but I'll leave it simply to this. She's amazing and I don't deserve her.

Anyways, I first met her sometime in August I believe. I asked her on a date the first week I met her. I was pretty forward and I think I scared her off. She said she "wasn't into the whole dating scene right now, and didn't want to lead me on"

I took the hint and backed off. I told her that I completely respect her decision and that I wouldn't pressure or persist her into any dates. She was very thankful.

We then went a while seeing each other about twice a week at school and I would text her every now and then. We talked on the phone a couple times too. She seemed to enjoy my company and laughed with me occasionally. She also invited me to a couple parties.

Now that we've gotten to know each other a lot better, I don't text her much anymore, I really only talk to her when I see her in person. Since I limited my contact with her, she seemed to start flirting a little I guess? Things like repeatedly touching my arm, hugging me hello and goodbye, laughing at my jokes, and finding a lot about what we have in common, just really good small talk.

Should I continue to move on from her, or should I give it another go?

So my mom asked if I'd go to town to get some groceries for her. I told her, "I just woke up, can I take a shower first?"

She said, "That's fine," however, after about 2 minutes into my shower she knocked on the bathroom door and said, " Nevermind, I'll get the groceries myself, take your time."

Was she insinuating that I masturbate in the shower by telling me to take my time?

Now I'll be honest. I do masturbate 1 - 3 times a week, but very discretely. Is there any way to bring it up with my mom whether she was insinuating that I masturbate or not?

22 year old male here, saw these sweatpants and ordered a pair as it's starting to get cold where I live.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00JRINQGQ/ref=oh...

However, I just realized the California logo and writing will be across my butt. Is that a turnoff or is it not a big deal?

I do believe my legs are my best feature, and I'm the kind of guy who doesn't really give a damn.

I just wanted to know if it looks unattractive to you ladies, beings as I'm not gay.

http://i248.photobucket.com/albums/gg168/whatisup6...

I like boxerbriefs, but they ride up. Do these look ok?

http://www.amazon.com/Demarkt-Underwear-Briefs-G-s...

I really don't understand why it's taboo or gross/weird/creepy for a guy to wear a man thong.

Honestly I don't wear them for anything other than comfort. I work in the hot sweaty weather all day and all my other types of underwear ride up and get all bunched up and give me swap @ss. Thongs have solved that problem for me.They are honestly comfy to wear at home too and feel like they aren't there despite common speculation of people who've never given them a try.

I just don't see any reason for such backlash from women saying things such as "gross" or "whatever floats your boat, but it's nasty."

What is so off putting or disgusting about a man who takes care of himself physically wearing a thong in a conservative/professional manner for comfort, Ex. wearing a belt or a long shirt/shirt tucked in to avoid exposure.

It's not like I'm an exhibitionist or someone getting off on wearing thongs. I buy my own male thongs for comfort and would never wear womens undergarments.

Could you ladies please explain why it's so troubling to you to think of a man in a thong?

She hasn't ever really been in a relationship. She's 20, straight, and wears a promise ring. She lives with her grandparents.

Why wouldn't she want to date anyone?

Protective grandparents, trying to get through school? I can't figure her out.

She's a good friend and was telling me she doesn't want to date anyone right now.

I'm not talking about nudes, I respect women.

I just want her to send me pictures of her pretty smiling face every now and then (only if she wants to, I don't want to pressure her.) so I can look at them when I'm having a rough day at work to make my day better.

Also I don't have a picture of her for her contact info in my phone, so yeah, a few pictures of her would be nice.

We are somewhat good friends, we tease and talk in person here and there and text occasionally.

How should I ask her?

Prematurely asked a girl out to dinner a few months ago (over text, yes I realize that was a mistake). She said, "I'm not into the whole dating thing right now for good reasons, sorry."

Should I translate that to, I don't like you, or take it at face value? Is it wrong to ask what those reasons are? I know she's shy and takes a while to open herself up to people.

I'm asking because since those few months we've gotten to know each other a lot better. She's invited me to a few parties (little dancing, few drinks haha), we hug each other when we see each other and oftten laugh/joke around with each other. We text and facebook each other quite a bit too.

I don't want to invade her space if she doesn't want to date, but I feel like things have changed since I first met her and asked her to dinner.

What should I do?

If I do ask her to dinner again, it will be in person.

She's 21 if it matters, and also, I'll add that I'm not a pushover. I give her distance.

So I met a girl recentley and we connect pretty well. I'd like to take a picture of us togethor because her face and smile help me get through the rough days.

Any way I can get a picture of us smiling togethor without being needy?

Thanks so much :) We're both 20 if it matters.

Her words to me upon asking her on a date (probably premature): I'm just not wanting to date anyone now, sorry.

Her actions to me after getting to know me better: Hugs, good conversations (smiles, a few laughs), party invites, occasinal texts, ect.

I'm not a pushover nice guy by any means. I keep a fair distance with some rapport. I think she's just trying to figure me out.

Do I have a chance? How should I proceed?

This kiss is obviously for a deep long term relationship only, but I was wondering what you thought of it.

It's called an open palm kiss, where a guy (and again, this is a serious relationship) slowly takes your hand, kisses your palm, and then closes your fingers over where he just kissed.

What do you think?

This girl knows I like her (I told her I did) and has responded with mixed signals, but invited me to her birthday party nonetheless.

I want to give her something thoughtful and creative to stand out a bit, but I don't want to over do it and become the needy desperate guy.

Any Ideas? Thanks

I'm 20, She's 21.

So I met a girl recently and asked her to dinner as a date. She said she had too much going on right now to be in the dating world.

Anyways, I got tickets to a rodeo the other day near my town. This girl I asked to dinner is a country girl and is always posting pictures of her riding horses on facebook.

So I asked her on facebook if she'd like to go to the rodeo on Saturday just as friends (no dating world), no strings attached. She clearly read the message and didn't even respond to it.

It angered me because she didn't even have the decency to tell me "I don't want to go," so that I could have asked someone else, instead of waiting to see if she was going to reply.

She then saw me Saturday after the rodeo at a friends house and looked me directly in the eye and then looked away. She didn't say a word to me and I was still kinda pissed she didn't even respond to my message so I didn't talk to her either, I just kept walking and went up to talk to a buddy.

I get it, she doesn't want to hang out with me as friends or go on a date with me as something more than friends.

But I cannot understand this. After all this happened, I went home and posted a status about enjoying the rodeo and posted a few pictures of some of the horses, and events that went on there.

Why on earth if she doesn't want anything to do with me, did she go and like all the photos, the status update about the rodeo, and more of my stuff on facebook.

What kind of games is she playing?

She said she wasn't ready for a relationship right now, however we still talk to each other on a friendly basis. Is it ok to compliment her on her looks (not out of the blue, but in conversation)(also nothing like hot, sexy, ect. but instead a genuine nice comment about her appearance), or is that not a good idea?