CHOCOLATEGIRL456

Hello! In my 2nd year English class, they say to write about a question that puzzles you, or are interested in. Well, I'm interested in why men cheat on women. I know, i know.... Both women and men cheat but i would like to know why? Why if they claim they Love that person. Why they cry and sometimes even threaten to kill themselves if the woman does not take them back after THEY were the ones that cheated... Its just a question i absolutely can't stop thinking about. I also find it very interesting. I also don't want to write about anything cliche like the legalization of Marijuana, or obesity in America. When i use my schools research system in the library not much comes up.... And thats another reason why i would Love to research this question. So if anyone could help me on how to research a very unpopular question that no one seems to know how to begin to answer would be great. I wish you great Karma, And thanks in advance!!!!

Hello :) I'm looking for a new great book to read...... I'm into all genres except sci-fi and mystery..... I'm kind of a Romatic but I am willing to read other genres too! My favorite books so far are, 'Their eyes were watching God' and 'Flowers in the attic' if you can recommend any great books or even your favorite I would appreciate it sooo much!!! Thank You in advance!! Have the best day ever

Soooo....... I was in a fight the other day and the other girl scratched the side of my face -.- I really need my face to do daily things so my question is.... Any suggestions on how to heal scrapes and cuts super fast? Yes I know violence is not the answer but she wanted to fight ME! Anyways..... I just need a few suggestions :) thanks in advance

I hate a boy because he broke my heart. This is a feeling i have never felt before and i feel it consuming my life. I HATE him because i feel like he doesnt care. I HATE him because i feel like he isnt hurting the way i am right now. I HATE him but i love him so much. I hate that i dont hate him. I hate him so much i wish i can disappear and not have to deal with this heart break. I hate him so much and i dont know what to do. Do i really hate him. No.... I love him and i would do anything for him. Its so sad he couldnt realize. But how do i let go of the hate? How do i stop checking my phone to see if he texted or called me so i can feel better? He has tried to talk to me but what he did is unforgivable. How do i stop being so angry? Ive tried everything..... Im on anti-depressants and i try to kill the pain with marijuana which works very well but makes me lazy and i have things to do ;( how do i stop this. I feel it consuming my every being. I cant keep going like this...

I hate a boy because he broke my heart. This is a feeling i have never felt before and i feel it consuming my life. I HATE him because i feel like he doesnt care. I HATE him because i feel like he isnt hurting the way i am right now. I HATE him but i love him so much. I hate that i dont hate him. I hate him so much i wish i can disappear and not have to deal with this heart break. I hate him so much and i dont know what to do. Do i really hate him. No.... I love him and i would do anything for him. Its so sad he couldnt realize. But how do i let go of the hate? How do i stop checking my phone to see if he texted or called me so i can feel better? How do i stop being so angry? Ive tried everything..... Im on anti-depressants and i try to kill the pain with marijuana which works very well but makes me lazy and i have things to do ;( how do i stop this. I feel it consuming my every being. I cant keep going like this...

For example: the occasion of the Martin luther king speech was for the black codes and civil rights. What was the occasion of the Declaration of independence ?

Ok, so im a 16 year old Blck female. And absolutely all my friends are hispanic. Sometimes i feel sad & a little akward because sometimes they do each others hair, & even speak spanish to each other. I love them, and i know they love me too. But i just cant get over it because its just how i feel. Now, they all call me oreo & say im a pretty black girl ( i think i am too) lol, but one of my friends lets call her Gabby, is kind of rascist. Well, she really isnt, but her family is. & when you live with your family you kind of form to be like them, you know ? so i guess she might be alittle. She says some really rascist things sometimes that i let slide. i know she loves me too, because she tells me all the time. my Bestfriend is hispanic too. shes the best bestfriend i can ever ask for. I like it when Gabby is around with us because i know she kind of feels the same way i do because she is very overweight, & she feels like boys dont want to do anything with her. She feels akward with us because none of us weigh over 115 pounds. so i can relate to how she sometimes feels akward. i like to hang with people that relate with me. I would love to hang with her more but rember her family is racist. I have identity issues. i wish my hair was longer. i wish things were just differnt. I try to make more "black" friends but all the ones at my school but they seem like .. ghetto ? or "mrs.barbie" or "not friendly" i dont like that & the people who i hang with i love. Its just the color of my skin. At times like this i hate it. I sometimes look at my skin in the shower thinking it cant be true .. anyways. please just someone help me. I dont want to talk to anyone im really close to about it because last time i did i felt like they thought i was crazy or something. so please, just write something to motivate me about going to the beach with them tomorrow because .. i just dont know what to do. i really dont wanna go, but i dont really know an excuse except i just dont want to because they heard my mom already say yes. so please someone just help me. Thankyou so much in advance

ok so me & my friend of 11 years have STOPPED being friends .. we had back and forth with our words and were just never gunna be friends again. Today it was more drama & i was just fed up with it. so i called her aunt. (her mom died so her aunt is the guardian) her aunt is really cool and i love her .. but her family freaks me out too lolol, but she has done SO much stuff. and i was just fed up with it. sooo when i was done venting to her aunt .. she said that were all gunna have a meeting 2mm with me, my mom her and my ex-friend .. i want karma to just get her SO bad !!! i want karma to make her feel how she made me feel when she would make me mad and we would fight. i want to tell her aunt everything wrong she did. i just want her to pay ? i know its wrong but .. i just need some advice guys. idk what to do .. were gunna have the talk tomorrow and i just wanna let everything out but i know i cant because she told me everything while we were friends and it would just be wrong .. but PLEASE just give me some advice ? thanks in advance guys

ok so .. me & my froup are doing a project & to present it, i have to wear professional clothing. i refuse to look too "professional" i wanna look cute but still earn my grade ... i also refuse to wear high-heels too lolol, but i need hwlp with an outfit & where to buy one. reminder: im 15 & REFUSE to wear heels or something too professional. wanna look my age but still earn my grade & look to par(: thanks in advance

ok so me and my ex-bestfriend have been bestfriends for 11 years .. our friendship ended last week because she wasnt treating me the way i wanted to be treated, i was ask if she wanted to hang out and she would flatly say "no" then an hour later i would see on facebook or twitter that she was with some other friends she just had met. it made me so upset ! and this happened about 5 times and each time i spoke to her about it and NOTHING changed what so ever. i cryed and cryed and spoke to my other friends about it and of course they made me feel 100x better. i miss her but then again i dont cause she never texted, called or hung out with me anyways .. we got into a verbal altercation over twitter and i felt bad after cause i hit some low points. but i did apologize & she accepted. I DO NOT want to be her friend at all .. idk why i just dont. i guess im just over it ? but i keep having flashbacks of the good times & i feel kind of sad. i dont want to feel sad. so can you guys help me with feeling better ? i dont want to think of her. so just please help (: thanks alot in advance and please dont say i should just be friends with her because that will make me feel worse and i honestly dont need that.

ok sooo i just made the cheerleading team at my school &'d they were high pony tails with a bow all the same that sits on the top of their head anddd i have a sew-in (extensions sewed into my braided hair) and i can only go for a low pony tail ... anything i can do ? and tips ? ANYTHING ?! lol

ok so i wanna be a cheerleader sosososo bad at my school. its now basketball season and i wanna try out. its monday and tryouts are wednesday. i almost have my splits and my jumps are ok not high att all though eaither but then again there not all over the place. i knoq everythings not gunna be 100% good before tryouts but ill still try my best. all these negative thoughts run in my head because im scared i might not make it. im trying to keep positive thoughts but idk ... i already have a physical scheduled for tomorrow and i already had a talk with my mom and sbout her support. pleaseeeeee someone say something i could keep in my mind to stay positive. i really want this like sosososo bad, you dont understand. so please help ? i need it ! thankyou so much and all i need is support and a reminder that i CAN do it. but only if i work really hard <3

ok so me and my bestfriend have known each other for 9 years && this year we met a new girl and shes really really cool. ok so we hung the night before all together && then the next day i had to go to my grandmothers b-day party. and they went to the movies. I fell kind of afraid that my bestfriend might like her more and we might loose touch. I talked to my mom about it and she said it wont happen because we live only 7 houses down from each other and thats too close to just loose touch. But im still worried ? i hate feeling left out but then again i wasnt because they invited me and i couldnt go. soooo yeah please help ! what should i do ? what can i tell myself to make myself feel better ?

ok well im african american and i watch alot of tv and i see girls with beautiful skin i have a few pimples and i want them gone. boys like me in school in all but i just dont have confidence in myself though. sometimes i feel as if im ugly and i smell and i just kind of get sad. i dont want to fell this way but thats ust how it seems to come out for me. i have ezema and i have skin problems like dry spots and stuff and they turn black i put coco butter stick on it but it wont really work i mean it does but not as well and fast as i want it too. and about the smelling thing, what can i do to smell myself like24/7 so i can know if i smell good or bad ? please helpp and be nice !!!

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ok today me and my bestfriend were ok. Then when we get on the bus i ask her if she wants to join this club with me. then she said on i cant. i ask her why and she just says because she cant. everytime i ask her if she wants to do something she says she cant ! and she wont even ask or even try. This just gets me sooo sad because my other bestfriend or used to be bestfriend hardly even calls me anymore and it just gets me so sad. i cry alot and very easily. i dont know what to do. i think im depressed but then again im only 14. im just so sad im crying as i type this. sometimes i feel like not even being on this earth anymore but then i think of my family and god and remember that i have to to help. i love myself and think im very pretty and all but im just so sad. i pray and i always ask god to please help me just please but nothing happens. i guess i just have to wait ? i dont know what to do. someone please help. and yes i have spoken to her about it many times but all she ever says is sorry and i swear next time ill at least ask. but nothing ever happens ? i really wish i can have a friend that i can actually just go over there house with her not gettung in trouble that im there. i did have a friend like that but we fell out unfortunantly. and to tell you the truth i really do miss her i did wrong but so did she. if i can turn back time i really really would . the reason i posted this again was because i wanted to let you guys know that ive know her for 9 years

ok today me and my bestfriend were ok. Then when we get on the bus i ask her if she wants to join this club with me. then she said on i cant. i ask her why and she just says because she cant. everytime i ask her if she wants to do something she says she cant ! and she wont even ask or even try. This just gets me sooo sad because my other bestfriend or used to be bestfriend hardly even calls me anymore and it just gets me so sad. i cry alot and very easily. i dont know what to do. i think im depressed but then again im only 14. im just so sad im crying as i type this. sometimes i feel like not even being on this earth anymore but then i think of my family and god and remember that i have to to help. i love myself and think im very pretty and all but im just so sad. i pray and i always ask god to please help me just please but nothing happens. i guess i just have to wait ? i dont know what to do. someone please help. and yes i have spoken to her about it many times but all she ever says is sorry and i swear next time ill at least ask. but nothing ever happens ? i really wish i can have a friend that i can actually just go over there house with her not gettung in trouble that im there. i did have a friend like that but we fell out unfortunantly. and to tell you the truth i really do miss her i did wrong but so did she. if i can turn back time i really really would .

me and this girl stopped talking a while ago. we got in this huge argument. and now shes like all i can think about because i feel like i will never find a good friend like her. please help me stop thinking of her advice please ???!

ok my friend is saying that she doesnt think that i had my real period . like wtf ? im bleeding from my cooch lmao. but anyways i got it august 14 at nite time like 12 or something and i guess it stopped at like august 16. and shes saying that i havent gotten it because thats too short but i did even my mom said it and my gramndma. soooo advice please ?