Mike S

This question goes out to women (preferably 30 and over or at least mature enough to have never seen twilight)

In the real world, what qualities do you look for in a man? I'm not asking you to describe your perfect man, but just what are a few things about a man, that catch your eye? For instance if the role was reversed and I was answering about a woman, I would answer, My head turns for the gals like Rachael Ray, who are pretty but not models, out going but not pretentious, not confident but comfortable in her own skin. Now your turn!

Ok heres the deal, dated a girl for 4 years, broke up about 10 years ago. Still have feelings for her, and we just started talking again. Break up was my fault, I was controlling, self centered, and looked at her as a possession instead of as an equal.

I would like to know how to approach this situation for friendship. I would really like to get to know her now for who she is, and her to get to know the real me not hiding behind insecurities. While I do have strong feelings for her, A relationship is the furthest thing from my mind, if one happens then so be it.

If any of my elders wish to respond to this mid 30's guy, I would gladly hear your advice.

Dad died yesterday at 3:30, yet I don't feel sad, I feel hatred to the ones that have ever done him wrong. Hatred to myself for not feeling sad, and hatred toward mankind for finding a cure for impotence, but not finding a cure for cancer. Why can't I mourn?

Seriously when will they all realize health care and job creation are state level political issues, that states are more equipped to deal with. The Federal Government should think about fixing the corruption within instead of squabbling over the BAD ideas they keep throwing out for votes.