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My boyfriend is coming home for the weekend! :D:D I want to surprise him Friday with something. I was thinking I'll make him dinner, desert, wine, movie? But what should I make him?

Does anyone have any better/additional ideas? I want to make this weekend p e r f e c t because I wont be seeing him for a couple weeks D:

My boyfriend and I have been together unoffically since January and officially for two months now. The first couple weeks he was home so we saw each other most days but now he's back to traveling a LOT for work. He spends the weeks in a one city that's 8.5 hrs away and one that is about 5.5 hrs away. We have managed to see eachother every weekend since he's been gone.

But nowww I'm out of school (college) I work on the beach as a lifeguard. We are VERY short staffed this season so it's looking like I'm going to be working all weekend every weekend (the only time he's home) through August. He'll be home in August for the most part unless he gets placed permanently at the city 5.5 hrs away.

I broke the news to him today about possibly having to work during the weekends 8am-6pm. He was gentle about it but he told me how that isn't a relationship and he doesn't see how things could work if we never get to see eachtoher..

Is it possible for this to work? or should I just give up? or should I get a different job?

I really care about him.. a lot.. and just thinking about us breaking up makes me feel like I'm going to cry. We have a wonderful relationship but the more I think about it the more I see what he is saying.. Is this a lost cause?

I recently found a 32g iPod Touch. After advertising that I found it for two weeks and without an honest reply back I decided to keep it.

However! No music, applications or anything is on it as though the ENTIRE iPod has been reset. When I plug it into my computer the only thing that comes up is a picture of a USB cord with an arrow pointing up to a picture of iTunes.

Does anyone know how I can sync this to my iPod shuffle library? Or is there any programs I can download to get the applications that come with the iPod back? Or is this thing useless to me?

Apple wont give me free advice on this topic. How much does help from Apple generally cost?

I found an iPod touch and I was able to keep it bc no one claimed it.

HOWEVER, I can't use it because it wont sync to my library and I hate all their songs.. Is there anyway I can get around this?

Saturday night I have a blind date with this guy to go to a local rock concert (they're fairly hardcore). I'm so excited but I have a few problems. Well first of all, my style is more feminine. I wear a lot of floral prints, cardigans and heels which doesn't go with the date at all. So I really need help with deciding on something to wear which will make still look like myself, but not a fish out of water. I guess I would like to look a little more edgy.

Secondly I'm kind of short and the guy is 6'7" so I'd like to look taller. Are heels ever okay in a mosh pit?

My body type:

I'm more of an apple shape. My shoulders are pretty broad. I have a large bust so nothing too low cut. I'm 5'4" and I'd like to look taller and thinner.

So what should I wear on my date? :)

P.S. pictures really help!

Andddd I'm 20.. so I'd rather not look like a 13 year old emo kid.

Thanks :D

I've been working hard at losing weight for the past three weeks and I'm seeing very little results. This is what I've been doing.

*Swim two miles (72 laps) three days a week.

*Three days a week I do a 20 minute ab workout.

*I work 40 hours a week with very little opportunity to sit. (As a lifeguard and in a pizza shop).

*Currently I'm doing NutriMirror, which is a online food dairy and according to that I should be loosing 3.2 pounds a week.

*I get my recommended amount of fruits, veggies, calcium, protein, iron, and water daily.

*I'm also just active all the time. I don't have a lot of free time just to lounge around.

Today which is a pretty average day this is what it says:

for weight maintenance: 2805 calories allowed

for weight goal: 2384 calories allowed.

I've only had 853 calories today, and I've burned 1053 calories through exercise! I will eat two more small meals today of 250 calories each.

Like I said I've been doing this for three weeks and I've only lost five pounds! I'm starting to get really frustrated.

P.S. I'm trying to lose 20 pounds.. According to my doctor I weigh enough for that to be a healthy weight lose.. Just so you know I'm not ridiculously skinny and that's why it's not coming off :p

My entire life I've been getting these bumps that are under my skin. They are about the size of a pea and they itch SO badly. I used to only have one at a time and they'd last for months and months and when they didn't itch they would be flat but red. As I itched them they would rise up. Now I have multiple on my neck, check, scalp and one that's even in my armpit! They itch all the time and they are noticeable now.

Has anyone ever heard of anything like this? Any suggestions as to what it could be?

My boyfriend, Eric, sold his Dodge Ram to this guy named Andy. The agreement was that Andy would pay Eric $200 a week until it was paid off. Andy has paid him once in five weeks! In the bill of sale Eric wrote that if he missed one payment Andy would have to pay him all the money at once the next week and the price would go up. Eric has continued to give him more and more chances but Andy still wont pay. To make matters worse Eric handed over the title because Andy said he needed the title to show his boss (which was a lie to get the title).. So does the title mean the car is Andy's without paying Eric?

P.S. we've pretty much ruled out repossessing the truck because a friend of ours that knows Andy told us that Andy didn't pay the people he got his last car through either and when the other people were going to repossess it Andy totaled the car.

What can Eric do? Is this a matter for the cops? What if Andy totals the car, will Eric see his money?

My boyfriend, Eric, sold his Dodge Ram to this guy named Andy. The agreement was that Andy would pay Eric $200 a week until it was paid off. Andy has paid him once in five weeks! In the bill of sale Eric wrote that if he missed one payment Andy would have to pay him all the money at once the next week and the price would go up. Eric has continued to give him more and more chances but Andy still wont pay. To make matters worse Eric handed over the title because Andy said he needed the title to show his boss (which was a lie to get the title).. So does the title mean the car is Andy's without paying Eric?

P.S. we've pretty much ruled out repossessing the truck because a friend of ours that knows Andy told us that Andy didn't pay the people he got his last car through either and when the other people were going to repossess it Andy totaled the car.

What can Eric do? Is this a matter for the cops? What if Andy totals the car, will Eric see his money?

My mom just bought me the dress I want for Spring Fling. I love it, but she bought it a size too small and there is a no return policy. So basically I have a month to lose 3 inches in my bust! My bra size is 36 DD I do have three inches to lose.. What exercises will help me slim down there and through my back? Thanks a mill :)

My ex-boyfriend, D* and I dated for a little over a year. We were so in love. One night at a party, I got too drunk and cheated on him. D* took me back but for a month I could tell he was really broken up about it. On our one year he gave me a promise ring like he planned, but five days later he blew me off on a double date we had planned for weeks. Turns out he was going to hang out with this girl, F*. I broke up with him over the phone when I found out assuming he was planning on cheating on me. He didn't talk to me for a week.

During that time I started hanging out with my old friend, K*, that I had been on a few dates with before I dated D*. We've been seeing each other for about a month an a half now. K* originally started off as just a rebound, but now I developing real feelings for him. During this time D* has been trying to get back together with me. D* admitted that after we broke up he slept with F* but he didn't that night that he blew me off.

I'm so so so in love with D* but I have strong feelings for K* now. Should I try to start fresh with D*? Or should I just keep seeing K* and see where things go?

I want to get a white tattoo but I'm having a hard time finding a lot of information on them. Do they fade a lot? If I tan with them will it still stay white or will it get darker with my skin? Feel free just to dump a bunch of information on me.

kthanksbye! :)

My new boyfriend and I have only been together for about two months. We both just got out of really serious relationships so I really want to take things slowly. HOWEVER, my boyfriend keeps saying things like "I think I'm falling for you" which is cute and all but I'm afraid that he is going to say that he loves me!

How can I prevent him from saying "I love you" too soon? And if he says it what am I supposed to say without hurting his feelings? I really like him and I'd like things to be more serious in the future but I'm afraid that this situation is going to ruin our relationship.