Tobi A

not sure how to date a girl cos I ve never really done it I ve had relationships but we usually end up staying in and watching movies and eating food. Hanging out. I m not sure how to woo a woman or see if there is even a point since 99.99 percent of relationships end in a train wreck.

I ve seen her probably like 19 times. Never spoken to her. Wouldn t know what to say to her. Don t even know if it s a good idea to speak to her. Should I just do nothing?

I was finishing my workout and i decoded to end it with 60 pushups in a row which i completed. I can usually do 90 fresh. Anyways i could tell she was watching me in my peripheral. As soon as i stopped she got down on her hand and did a few girlie pushups. Should I take that as a message? Why would she do this? Does she think we are in competition?

I work out and am fit. 6 ft 188 lbs muscle. Abs etc. I bench press 325 lbs.

I go to the beach. I initially went to show off gains. I black so I don't tan and I can't swim. I also go for the cardio. I walk the bike paths. I notice that I get some attention. Unwanted attention from gay men, compliments from straight men and stares from young children and women. Who make comments or giggle to their friends at me but who never and I repeat never say anything to me. Except once but I wasn't interested cos she was much older

From now on I'm going to walk straight and look straight ahead. I won't look around. I won't acknowledge their stares by looking at them. If people are going to be weird and stare at me but not talk to me then I'm going to ignore their looks.

Sometimes they look and laugh... like wtf.

My question for ladies is why do you stare and not talk. Say hi or something. Is that so hard? I've attached a picture like am a freak or something?

I met this beautiful girl at my gym. We talked a few times. I got her number. I asked her if she wanted to chill. She waited 18 hours to text back. I think we're having coffee in a week. Girls are always on their phone why is she delaying texts? To appear busy? Obviously she must know I find her attractive. I didn't ask her to hang out because I thought she was ugly.

Why do girls do it. Should I gather from her delayed responses she doesn't really like me?

I am going to treat Friday like a date, but maybe she thinks we just hanging out. I hope she doesn't have a boyfriend or something. Explain her behavior.

So I got this girls number about 6 hours ago and I was gonna wait till tomorrow to call her...to make plans for Saturday or Sunday but I figured if I wait to long she might make other plans she told me she was free this weekend but the gym was packed and I didn't wanna ask her out in front of everyone and get rejected. I sneakily got her number. I texted her six hours after I got her number. I hate playing that game where u wait a day or two...why do that... Do girls lose interest if you text to soon. Should I have waited.

What happens if you sleep with a girl and your not attracted to her or don't enjoy the sex. How do you break it off with her... I'm a lil more picky nowadays and if I don't love a girls nude body im not gonna waste three months of my life just to be nice. I've never humped and dumped a girl before but if I aint sticking around if I'm not entralled. What is the nice way to go about ending a girl after a one time.

I figure next time I could suggest an activity like swimming to determine attractiveness levels. But its winter people are dressing in layers.

I hadn't seen her for over 2 years. We dated twice and we broke up cos She cheated on me both times. I saw her in the mall today in a cell phone store. i was shocked. Looked her up and down and ignored her. She was dressed to the 9s. She saw me. I felt her eyes on me as I walked by. She looked really good, but I remembered what a sl-t she is and kept moving.

Was it rude to ignore her?

I have a roommate and landlord who cross the line. I told my roommate to stoo knocking on my door when he is drunk cos he wakes me up. I dont drink so No i don't wanna have a drink with him.

I think my landlord goes in my room when im not around cos I keep tge door closed and he complains. Last sunday he knocked on my door at 8am waking me uo asking me to take pictures. He asked again this Sunday i refused.

About an hour ago he knocks on my door while im having a nap and wakes me up to ask me to use my cellphone to make a call.

The first number was long distance. I refused the next two numbers were local.

This motger fer does not understand boundaries. Landlord tenant... u don't wake up ur tenant to ask to make phone calls on their phone

Am i overreacting? What should I do?

Im black shes Hispanic. Real curvy big. Derriere.... these black guys were starting at my girl when i was with Her working out. She pointed it out... should i ask them to stop if they continue or ignore it...

If a guy took three hours to text you back? I admit i kinda did it on purpose i usually text back within minutes.... we do the same. We both text back immediately.

But Sometimes i want a girl to miss me or think i have a life so I didn't text her for three hours.

Would u be pissed?

Can a doctor determine this and whats the test called?

determine if shes been pregnant before or had children before

So i ask her out tonight she says shes going out with her guy ftiend... problem is that its a Friday night... who goes out with a person of the opposite sex alone on a Friday night. Sounds like a date to me?

what do you think

I wanna buy my gf a dress for her birthday that i know she has pointed out when we went window shopping. We are taking Things slow so I haven't seen her naked so I don't know her clothing size. I don't wanma ask her cos Ill have to tell her why ik asking

But we go to the gym together and she stepped on the scale and i snuck a looks. Shes 5 foot 3 and a 110 lbs.

What size dress would she be? Xs, s, m?

The dress is a bodycon from bebe

http://www.bebe.com/Dresses/All-Dresses/Cross-Over...

That's fine w me.  I feel the same way. Was trying to think of a way to go about it too. I have never given you reason to believe id be confrontational with you. So I'm kinda disappointed you reached out this way. Like I said...I feel the same way and wouldn't want a fight or gain negativity in my life unnecessarily.  I think ur a nice guy. But ur right..we are different and not fair to either of us to try make something work we are both in agreement just isn't going to. We both want to achieve things in the near future. I hope things go well for you.

I noticed she blocked me on Instagram... What can I gather she is feeling? Is she just trying to save face by claiming she felt the same way....

A month ago she texted me asking me to go for dinner. She was in town for a day. I told her to get bent and that she just wanted sex from me. I told her never to contact me again.

I was pretty harsh to her. I made it clear she should stay away.

A month later, yesterday which was my birthday, I get a text at 11:50pm, ten minutes before my birthday is over saying happy birthday.

Why is she messaging me...should I responsd. Help

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I met her today....i think she deliberately got on the next train so we could talk...we talk for a bit I asked her what she's doing this weekend. I asknher if she wants to chill...She says maybe if I'm lucky...we talk for a bit I give her a hug goodbye. Its not a close body hug..she warps her arm around my neck but doesn't draw her body close.... She gets of the train and says....u can text me....I say OK.....now what would u read into my this....

So I haven't seen her since April and haven't talked to her in just over a month. This is the longest we haven't spoken. I figure things are finally over it just wasn't going to workout. We dated for a year and a half. She lives in a small town she moved after we broke up. By small town I mean 60,000 people. My brother is a doctor in this town. And they had never met. She text me yesterday after a month and so she met my brother he treated her in the emergency room. She says we have the same sense of humor... She tells me she will be in my city in 5 days and wanta to have dinner with me. I want to see her but am unsure about doing so because she's a very selfish person. She only meets on her time. I won't go into too many details.

Why do you think she wants to have dinner with me? Sex? Get back togethet? How should I behave during dinner if I choose to go?

Would you have dinner with your ex?

She was probably 19, and we started talking on the bus, she was smoking hot. Once I was realized she was engaged, I stopped flirting with her and put on my headphones. Even after my headphones are on 20 seconds later, she continues talking to me. So I'm like what the ****. Her fiance is out of the country. I think she wants the d. What do you think.