cindy

Im 22 all my friends are either out of college or having a big time job. Im engaged and just working as a receptionist at a salon. I went to beauty schooo but never took the license test because I wasnt in love with the job.i don't know what i want to do with my life. There's nothing I have a passion for..and i dont have money to go back to school. I just feel lost like i should be accomplishing more in life.

My man, gets upset with me when i get complimented? How does this make sense? He says hes mad that i "like" it so much and that it makes me "happy". i never get complimented everrr barley by my boyfriend. And thats fine i dont need somene always telling me im pretty but its nice to hear once in a while. Especially cuz im very conservitive and dont show alot of my body..so if someone compliments me they really do think im pretty cuz they are looking at my face not body..i just dont understand why hes mad at me for taking a compliment from another man. And what i mean by taking is saying "thank you" hes making it seem like i wanted to have sex with this person..someone help me understand!

So i been friends with this female (im a female) and we are becoming close. Met her at work. Every time i talk about something personal. She never has something to say back....its weird. For example i would say something like "so me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight i think i might break up with him idk what to do" she doesnt say anything and then the subjects changes seconds later. I just need help realizing if thats a bad quality to have in a friend or is she just someone i spend time with? Im starting to think friends dont exsist anymore.

The more i get older, I really start to realize more. Like one big issue i cant seem to understand is that no one likes to talk about their feelings anymore, everyone is so fake now and days its like life is just a big lie. When i say fake i mean, just not honest, like for ex if you dont vibe well with someone and realize you dont like them and have bad things to say about them but you still talk to them in person? Or if you have a problem with a close friend and dont say anything because you "hate drama" so you dont say anything and it gets worst? No one is honest about anything anymore!! And if you are someone who calls people out and is honest, everyone hates you! Or has something to say about you, this world makes me feel like im not aloud to have feelings, im not aloud to speak up,or people just get mad, because conflict is so hard for them to handle they just avoid it all together. So if your different its negative...why are people so fake now and days?

My man, gets upset with me when i get complimented? How does this make sense? He says hes mad that i "like" it so much and that it makes me "happy". i never get complimented everrr barley by my boyfriend. And thats fine i dont need somene always telling me im pretty but its nice to hear once in a while. Especially cuz im very conservitive and dont show alot of my body..so if someone compliments me they really do think im pretty cuz they are looking at my face not body..i just dont understand why hes mad at me for taking a compliment from another man. And what i mean by taking is saying "thank you" hes making it seem like i wanted to have sex with this person..someone help me understand! :/

I have been studying numerolgy as a hobby for 6 years now and its always right! Is there anyone out there who also understands numerolgoy and is crazy about it like me? My life path is 1!

Sometimes i question if my love for my fiance is true..like if were suppose to be together..what is real love like? What does it feel like?

I was pregnant for 6 months,...and had a miscarriage. I feel like no one understands the pain I feel losing my first child.i know miscarriage is common but the pain I feel from time to time is so terrible, I feel like no one gets it. Everyone says stuff like "God didn't think you were ready" or "it wasn't your time" what is that suppose to mean? :/ why wasn't it my time? I'm such a great person I would of been the best mom...why didn't God give it to me? :/ I'm having a very weak moment right now. I just wish I can talk to God and ask him why or I wish I can meet my baby and kiss her or him and tell them I love them..and hold them even if it's just for a minute. :/

I had a miscarriage..6 months ago and I've been feeling super down..cuz mothers days is coming up. I was wondering if I'm considered a mom even if I lost a child?...

So my fiancé handed me his phone to fix some settings on Facebook because he doesn't understand how to use it..and I went on his friends to hide them for everyone except him of course and I clicked on ongoing requests which means friend request he's requested...and he added a **** load of girls not a mixture of both male and female but all women...he didn't notice that I saw that but it really bothers me that he would go out of his way to add all these girls on Facebook...I know people frown upon people who get mad over Facebook but this is life now. Facebook ruins relationships people cheat on there and are sneaky..idk how I should bring this up to him..

Just got hired and they never gave me a handbook or anything saying what the rules are.they just told me start working and that's it. I made friends with a co worker and she was talking about raises and slipped out how much she got paid. Previously when they hired me they told me that I would get paid depending on past experiences which I had 6 years experience the co worker I was speaking to told me she never worked before and that this was her first job. And when she told me how much she got paid..I was confused because she gets paid more than me. A day went by and I decided to ask my manager about how pay works and asked me why and I told her when I got hired they told me they would pay off experience..and told her someone told me how much they got paid and they were getting more than me and started a week before me..wasn't asking for money I just wanted to understand what was going on. She gave me no explanation and said she would raise my pay..then I came back a few hours later and they were investigating the situation they had be write down a statement and send it to cooperate. They are making me feel like did something wrong by asking a question..I know this is wrong..idk what to do can some please help me

Just got hired and they never gave me a handbook or anything saying what the rules are.they just told me start working and that's it. I made friends with a co worker and she was talking about raises and slipped out how much she got paid. Previously when they hired me they told me that I would get paid depending on past experiences which I had 6 years experience the co worker I was speaking to told me she never worked before and that this was her first job. And when she told me how much she got paid..I was confused because she gets paid more than me. A day went by and I decided to ask my manager about how pay works and asked me why and I told her when I got hired they told me they would pay off experience..and told her someone told me how much they got paid and they were getting more than me and started a week before me..wasn't asking for money I just wanted to understand what was going on. She gave me no explanation and said she would raise my pay..then I came back a few hours later and they were investigating the situation they had be write down a statement and send it to cooperate. They are making me feel like did something wrong by asking a question..I know this is wrong..idk what to do can some please help me

So I got a new job and I really like it, they told me when I got hired that I will get paid based on past experience with retail. I have 6 years of retail experience. I was having a conversation with a co worker who started 2 months before me and she said she never worked a day in her life and told me how much she got paid a certain amount and that amount was more than me...and I thought that was weird cuz I have a lot experience and they told me pay was determined on your experience....so I decided to ask my manager what's going on and why I'm getting paid less then someone who has no experience when they told me they pay people off experience. And she acted super weird and involved corporate like I did something wrong by asking what's going on. She didn't even explain to me why I wasn't asking for money I just wanted to understand the situation...idk what to do...someone help

Before I say anything please don't leave rude comments.

Well I'm newly engaged. I'm a good women to my fiancé. We live together and I do everything for him at home.i clean for him, cook for him. Support him in everything he does. But I've been having so much doubt in marrying him...yesterday he noticed one of my guy friends like a photo on my Facebook and after a long day at work the first thing he said was "who is this" in a angry tone like I was cheating on him or something. I told him he was a friend from work. I'm a social person I make friends with everyone. The guy who liked my photo is my girlfriends fiancé. Then he started questioning me if I hang out with this guy and that he thinks I'm sneaky and lie to him out of no where. How can I marry someone who randomly judges me like that saying I'm a liar and he doesn't trust me? :/ I just feel really sad cuz I'm starting to think he's not good for me.

So I'm buying a motorcycle off of craigslist and the guy doesn't have the title yet in the mail he said he will mail it to me when he gets it. He seems like a good guy but I want to make sure I'm covering my tracks. How can I write a contract saying that if I don't get the tittle in a certain amount of time I am not liable for anything. Pretty

Much just a agreement on paper saying it's my bike I'm just waiting for the title

Okay so the type of friend I am is someone who wants you take care of you and will do anything for you and be there whenever you need me. This one particalar friend I'm talking about I am very good to. I've been noticing her making sarcastic comments about how I use her for weed. She always invites me over to smoke. I'm not a big smoker so I don't buy any, I only smoke

With her because she offers it to me. For free. Lately every time I see her she makes comment over phone for ex I called her and said I was excited to see her then she answers "only because I'm going to smoke you up" and that's not the case. At all. I don't think of weed in anyway. Of course I told her that's not true but then the comments continued. She wasn't being upfront. If she wanted me to pitch in she could of just asked. I do so much for this friend I buy her dinner all the time get her things on holidays and for her pets. Recently I took her to an airport that was 3 hours away and she said when I dropped her off "since I smoked you up that means I don't have to pay you gas money right ?" I can't believe her should I stay friends with this person ?

Me and my bf have been together for 2 years now and has started a bad habit..he smacks me when he gets mad..today we were in the car and I was messing with him poking him and he was getting really mad and I asked him in a joking face "Why do you get so mad over the smallest things? It's not worth " he called me stupid and told me to **** the **** up..and hat triggerd me..how can he talk to me that way? I asked him why he thinks it's okay to talk to me that way and he called me stupid so I spilled water on his lap saying "so you can disrespect me so I can do the same to you right?" And he slaps me in the face...:/ im really hurt by this...he's done something similar before. I don't just take it I do fight back but I'm just so confused on what to do Cuz I love him..idk why he would be so disrespectful I've talked to him so many times and he never changes...why won't he change why won't he stop? :/

I really need advice. I've been with my bf for 2 years now and we live together. Ever since we have been dating he doesn't make any time for his friends and makes his life about me. I'm sure most people would love that but I'm a social person once in a blue moon I want to see my girl friends, but every time I go out or im not home a a certain time he gets angry with me, he gives me attitude like I did something wrong to him..I really love this guy but this doesn't seem normal..he always doubts what I tell him and doesn't trust anything I say when it comes to me going out. I never go out but when I do I always make sure to communicate with him so he knows what's going on but he still just stays mad or ignores me. What should I do? Btw I tried talking to him about it but nothing changes

I question every person in my life expect for my family and one of my best friends. I've been back stabbed so many times that I question everyone in my life even my boyfriend. I don't think he's always cheating on me or anything but I do think at any moment he can do me wrong. So if something bad happens im not surprised cuz I expected it. I'm like this with friends too. I just don't trust anyone..is this bad ?