Miss Fergie17

i have a 1year old girl. bit small for her age. just a few weeks over one. isnt crawling, nor walking.

she has had a few health issues like bronchitis and spot on lung and being unwell so on.

anyways

her dad recently got access to his own restricted medical files. and found out his grandfather was also his father (insest)

BECAUSE of this im wondering will this Affect my little girl gentics and her devolopment?

i noticed that she is quite small for her age and she is behind on her development. not crawling or walking or trying to stand. she does babble and smile and that.

i play games with my little girl, i sing, i sit with her and her toys the lot (doing what every parent does) but she just cant crawl or walk. she tries her best with trying to crawl but never gets its.

her dad has lots of medical problems (now we know why) like his hearing, calcium deficiency, back problems,knee problems. ect.

(her dad is adopted so hasnt had any contact with his real family since he was 4 so We dont have contact with them.

i have two kids from previous relationship. they reached their milestones in time and everything. but my wee girl just seems really behind and very small for her age. compared to her brothers.

found out my partner is insest that his dad is also his grandfather. my partner suffers from many medical problems.

(Myself is normal my health vistor said my bloodline withen my child would thin my childs bloodline out) but Will this affect my child Medically?

as noticed my child is a few weeks over 1years old and not walking nor crawling or that. and most of my health vistors advice is completely wrong.

thanks.

Okay so i had sex whislt on 3rd day of period and it was unprotected. This was Sunday the 7th. i noticed on the 8th that i stopped bleeding. could i be pregnant? what are the chances.

i recently have been having hot flushes, and feeling unwell, and also when i sleep keep having nightmares but now these past 3 days i havent been able to sleep at night at all maybe for like a hour or two but that's it. Also i have had heartburn as well. Also i have noticed increase of clear sticky discharge.

i have been pregnant twice already i have a 10month old, and in march had a misscarrige at 10weeks i had a bump and everything. also i got pregnant 1 day after my period ended.

i did take a test but because it was earlier i did notice a really really faint line but unsure, my second pregnancy the one i lost in march i tested early 2weeks after intercourse and discoverd i was pregnant as faint line aswell.

with my first pregnancy i used to get nightmares at start of the pregnancy.

and heartburn. which i only ever got when pregnant

what do u think my chances are do you think im pregnant? i will be doing a test on 28th as well.

Okay so I have been pregnant before twice first pregnancy successful I have a beautiful son who was born in 2012 and my second pregnancy I miscarried in March at 10 weeks, now since then I had a period in april and the day of my last period 20th May since then I haven't had a period and its now july 3rd , I HAD uprotected sex on june 3/4th I did take pregnancy test In june aswell which are negative, I accept that but am having second thoughts as my period still not here, ive been getting some back pain and headachs , could I be pregnant? I think maybe I tested a bit too early but not sure as its only been 4weeks now that I last had sex

no bad comments please just want serious answers thanks

okay so my son who is 5weeks old has always been clingy i cant get movin because of him tbh x

he will only go to sleep cuddiling into me everytime i try nd move him into bouncer/chair or moses basket he will wake, He won't sleep in his own bed tried everything doesnt work, he just wants to sleep in my bed next to me

he constantly wants to be held by me, he will get upset when i put him down, even when i leave him for a minute he becomes unsettled

ive let him cry for 5minutes and still he just continues to do it until he gets what he wants

what am i 2 do? i can't find a minute for myself like now he is cuddiling into me and im typing one handed

His birth weight was 9pound half a ounce, he left hosptial weighing 9pounds

and now he got weighed today and he's 10pound half a ounce, and he will be 3 weeks on thursday so is this right or should he be less or more than this?

my babys birth weight was 9pound half a ounce he is 3 weeks on thursday what should his weight be now?

he's now 10pound half a ounce

Im 39weeks today, and been having a lot of Braxton hick contractions, and loads and loads of discharge, baby's head is 1/5th fully engadged, anyone know when it will be most likley i will go into labour and anything to help speed the process along,

Baby has been really active today more than usal as well

Okay so i've been going to the toilet and it's obv been pee's yellow and smells of urine, but then

i been getting a load of heartburn and i started feeling hot and not long after i pee'd i felt like i needed a pee not long after i peed for the 8th time anyways i went to the toilet and it was a lot, even though i had not long done the toilet before hand, and had nothing to eat or drink as well, and i noticed as well that my pee was clear this time and it was alot alot,

also i noticed during the night even after wiping proper that my pants were getting wet like i was leaking or something

Okay so im 35weeks and 3days pregnant

anyways this morning everything fine doing the toilet normal and so on.

but then when i go again this time it sort of stung like burnt, and when i wiped i noticed it was like brown colour is that normal??

it not a urine infection because i've had them before and i know what that is and this is not that.

Okay so my friend wants to know what is happing!

Last year in October/November she got a letter in saying her two kids a adoption process will be starting. Tried fighing to stop it but obv has failed

During that time she was allowed to see the kids but... Now 2012 she and the kids father hasn't seen the kids for 3months and they were at a panel last week and another panel has been booked but because of it they still not allowed to see the kids and the next panel in a few weeks

Just wondering is this the social work getting ready to tell them that their kids will be adopted.. she really worried..

any info would be useful to anyone that has gone through it.

Okay so my friend wants to know what is happing!

Last year in October/November she got a letter in saying her two kids a adoption process will be starting. Tried fighing to stop it but obv has failed

During that time she was allowed to see the kids but... Now 2012 she and the kids father hasn't seen the kids for 3months and they were at a panel last week and another panel has been booked but because of it they still not allowed to see the kids and the next panel in a few weeks

Just wondering is this the social work getting ready to tell them that their kids will be adopted.. she really worried..

any info would be useful to anyone that has gone through it.

Okay this is for people who live in west lothian or knows about white goods.

I am just wondering has anyone else recieved a White goods starter pack of 330 and if so is it free because i got a letter saying application is successful but something about payment i always thought white goods was a free thing because the woman said hand in the letter to get the voucher or something Can anyone shed some light on this?

Okay so this girl i know says she had to come off the implant because she ended up getting a rash basically a side effect from it.

But what doesn't make Sense is she said The same day she got this taken out she had gotten the jag on the same day!!

It doesn't make Sense because i always thought there was a waiting period for them

Can someone answer who has been on the implant and moved to the jag before.

(no cheeky comments or they will be getting reported)

I come from a big family but this baby will be first grandson for my mother and father and i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions?

My son will be getting the middle Name Lee and his surname is Ferguson so am just looking for a first name.

I like Shane or James but does anyone else know any names?

Okay so First of lets start by saying this is not my dog. If she were then she wouldn't be going through this!! Im just concerned and am trying to get her owner to see Sense!!

Okay she is a Miniature staffy. she is like 3 years old. and she has had a lot of Phantom pregnancy's.

The first litter she did have was last year in August 2011 time. But she was caught by a french Mastiff. And only had 1puppy. Her owner said it wasn't supposed to happen that she was never meant to be caught by that dog.

Anyways its now April 2012 and i have heard that this litte dog has now been caught by a Rottweiler! and apparently she is two week and so many days pregnant.

Her owner said the friends that were looking after her didn't do a good job because they allowed this to happen. But the owner is wanting her to carry on the pregnancy!

I don't think this is a wise choice to be honest but as i said before it's not my dog.

The thing now is the owner has said the dog she has stopped eating and i was wondering what can be done is this normal will she be okay? she is a Lovely wee dog and i hate seeing her go through this i really doo.

How can i make this owner see seance??

Okay so He know im Pregnant! we didn't end things on good terms. as always the relationship broke down because of stress of him going to jail and just arguing about everything.

I thought once it had ended that would be it - But gosh how wrong was I? - Few days after we Split i found out i was like 2months pregnant in Feb.

Anyways a lot has happened since then.

1, im almost 5months pregnant.

2, he is back with his child abusing ex

3, i went back to the place that i had been advoiding and think im in love with my best friend

4, my ex's two kids who are in care and getting put up for adoption well they should be with a new family with-in end of this year - if not they get separated.

I've also heard that his ex who he is now back with wants another child with him and has came off the implant even though she knows that by doing this that will be Their 3rd child together that will be put in care. Why do you think she is being that selfish??

Anyways my other Main question is

When me and my ex were together we had this friend and he was a good friend but a load of crap happend and so they fell out. I just recently got back in contact way this friend and he is decent all his family love me and say that i was too good for my ex

i never thought about my friend in this way before but im starting to have some deep strong feelings even his mum has telt me he cares and likes me more than any other person. and that when i showed up yesterday he never seemed happier.

So if me and him end up going out and that - How will i tell the father of my unborn child that i am seeing the one person he hates! even though they used to be friends. ???

and by telling him this how will i make sure my ex doesnt start a fight or that or try and ruin this for me?

And what could i expect from all of this i don't want a war zone. Im not doing this to hurt my ex - im not the type of lassie to be like that but i realise i do have feelings for this friend.

Okay so I was out with my ex for about 6-7 months ended up breaking up Towards the end of January 2012 But i discoverd i was like 2 months pregnant in Feb.

Our relationship wasnt the best - alot of Domestic abuse had take place. He has two kids from a previous relationship, Those two kids are in care and the adoption process is starting. He swore on those two kids lifes he wouldnt get back with the mother "she is a child abuser" even if we broke up or not. but of course it was a lie and he ended up running back to her the day we split up.

He is a criminal not long out of jail. He told me that he will never change not for anyone so i don't see him changing for his baby! - he is only 20 and this will be his 3rd child. and only child that will not be in care.

The thing is i've heard that his gf has come off the implant because she wants to try and have another baby with him. but everyone knows including herself if she does this that will be another child in care - because she was giving the choice long ago about going back to him or keeping her 1st child and she choose him. and since then no social work will ever let them keep a baby.

Why doesn't he just leave me alone, have another kid with her and leave me to get on with my life and our soon to be baby?

And im starting to like someone else This person was me and my EX'S Friend! i love my freinds family and everything and his mum has told me that he has feelings for me because he tells her stuff like that, I never thought of him like this before just until last night when i saw them havent seen them since Feb x

But im worried if i go out with him because im like almost 5months pregnant with my ex's baby my ex might find out and start a fight with him or cause **** though i don't see what right he has to do that because he choose to give up any his rights when he went with that child abuser again!! I don't care who my ex goes out with but i would of thought he would have more sence and pick someone better.

What should i do! should i go out with this friend and just hope my ex dont find out, or should i just leave it and why do you think my ex is botherd about the baby - easily he can go and have another one with her and leave me alone so why doesnt he do this?

Okay so the way me and my Ex got together was a bit bad he cheated on his girlfriend the mother to his two children. The thing was they both always argued and he would throw her out in the early hours of the morning and their both kids are been in care since the oldest was 1nd a half and since the youngest 11 hours after being born.

She is a child abuser and she cheated on him first which triggerd him to cheat on her like 6-7 times with diffrent lassis.

Anyways it was diffrent with me and him Both of them were my friends but he was my best friend i only knew them because i went out with his step brother.

but anyways to cut a long story short me and him started at it behind her back! I know that is sad! but thats not what im here to talk about.

At first he was really sweet i was only 17 at the time he broke up with her to be with me.

Like any relationship at the start everything was fine i wil admit i think we moved in with each other too soon he was the first ever person (boyfriend) i had ever moved in with!

I stayed with him for about 6-7months before our relationship broke down

I THINK it broke down cause we rushed from wanting to be together to moving intogether

i was basically staying at his house way him and his ex had been in his family home were his first child was living here for half a year.

before gettig taken away

anyways just want to know

is it normal to miss him and still love him we broke up in FEB, he ran back to his ex, me and his relationship turned from good to bad to worse lets just say for christmas i got a black eye nd basically went through a lot of domestic abuse with him.

I never have cried over him like when u break up from a relationship have u ever noticed that u might cry over them even if it is just for one night, i havent done that at all

I don't know if it's because im pregnant with his baby (almost 5months pregnant- didnt find out till after we split) or i don't know if it's cause he made me feel like crap and he ran back to his ex even after swearing in his two kids lifees that he wouldnt go near her again after the stuff she put him through and her daughter through!

Okay so

I want to adopt 2 young children who are siblings i know the social worker is looking for family for them but what are the conditions?

Like is it a age restriction to adopt them, how would i go about doing it ectt.

Any help would be good for people who have adopted before.