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I know this is a stupid question but I'm in college and I'm kinda getting tired of living a life without a partner. I'm currently a freshman and I would say I'm not half bad looking and I'm not all that awkward. I go to parties and stuff but I feel like I never follow through. We always kind of just stay friends and I'm tired of this crap. Recently I got this girls number and she's really cute, we talked for a good 30 minutes but now that I have it, what should I do? I'm kind of scared to call because I haven't asked a girl out for years and I know asking over text is super lame. What do you think I should do that would ensure a yes? Do you think I should ask the first time I call? Thanks so much appreciate your help

Last weekend I went to a couple parties and for 3 consequtive days took ecstasy. Took 2 pills everyday and everyday meaning a total of 6 pills. since then, I have gotten fair sleep, taken 5-HTP everyday and eaten well, but I feel drastic changes in how motivated I am, how tired I am, and I've been feeling very sad and depressed. If you are going to lecture me on how drugs are bad, don't bother answering because what's done is done, I can't reverse what I did. Will this stop soon? Because all my friends told me they already feel normal but I still don't.

So I've worked with her the entire summer and she seemed to be pretty flirty and I would flirt back but she also seemed to flirt with one of my coworkers too. Anyways, yesterday I told her straight up that I like her. She asked me why I was telling her now and I just said I wanted to let her know before she quit at the end of the month and she just said "oh ok that's cool". Today she talked to me just like she always did and I really can't tell whether this feeling is mutual or not because she never told me she liked me too. Should I give up or keep trying? Because I don't really want to seem like desperate or anything, if she doesn't like me I guess I'd just back off but how can I tell?

Got a job this summer, met this girl, flirts a lot and not just with me which kind of sucks but its just what it is. Anyways, I'm really trying to get laid before summer ends. Any suggestions on how to do this? And don't tell me to take her on a date and just do it. Idk how to get it started or really give her the idea I'm dtf. You really can't tell who she wants due to how much she flirts so I'm just trying to get it in before anyone else and before end of summer! Your suggestions are greatly appreciated!

I am a junior and she is a senior. We don't talk much but we always say hi to each other with occasional conversation. At first I thought it wasn't worth asking her because she is a senior and I thought someone would have asked her by now because she's really hot but today I asked her how the whole prom thing is going and she said she still does not have a date soooo I thought maybe this is my opportunity but I don't want to just ask her with a note or anything lame but nor do I want to make a big deal out of it in case of rejection because we really are not that close. Any suggestions?

So last weekend me and my friends took acid for like the third time. This tab I must say was very strong and I was tripping like crazy. I was having a great time but eventually I got really tired, quiet and demotivated. For the last few days I've just been feeling down. Now I did not have a bad trip but this seems to have an effect on me or it might just be me over thinking it. I mean I feel a little socially awkward and I have higher anxiety. When will this end and what can I do to stop it?

So I got a girl in my bio class who I kinda liked and all of a sudden really like. She's not slutty, she's really cute and really funny. But she sits all the way accross the room and I can never talk to her. For valentines I got her chocolates and then we kinda didn't say anything after that. I barely have time to talk to her but its driving me insane how I am dragging this out. I've talked to her like twice and both times I had pretty much nothing to say. When she leaves the class she goes with her friend so I feel embarassed to try to join a convo with both of them. So tell me what you would do for this

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Well I usually don't go out but last night my friend invited me over and we took vicodin so we could get a little high and I got kinda sick and I don't feel so great today and my other friend told me there's a party today and he got some really good bud. I wanna go but I don't wanna get more sick what do you think?

well this year ive been feeling kind of weird. i mean im always just sad. around people im funny, happy, helpful but deep down im really just sad and depressed. i dont know why this is. part might be that i have high anxiety in talking to hot girls so i havent had a girlfriend in 3 years. i am 17 years old and as the years go by i just get more and more anxious and depressed. i hang with my friends pretty often and lately this year ive been smoking a lot of pot and doing other stuff to temporarily disable this feeling but right after the high it comes back. i use strategies like talking things out with myself when i feel discouraged but i almost hear a voice in my head. like when i am about to talk to a girl, something tells me, not even worth it she wont like you. and i hate it. i try hard to stop it but i just cant. any suggestions on relieving stress not just temporarily but long term? anything will help. thank you

well i always told myself i wouldnt try it but this guy told me he had it and i was just a little tempted to try some but i am a little nervous. have you ever tried it and if so how was it? is it worth trying? is it risky and how can i assure a good trip. thanks for your help

Ok really I expected to get one by junior year but still here with nothing. I'm 17 at a very large high school and all my friend have girlfriends and thy always tell me, to get a girlfriend and its really irritating and not only that but I actually want a girlfriend. Not sure what I do wrong I mean I am funny I'm not fat got no acne often get good haircuts shower everyday but I'm too nervous to ask girls out or for their numbers. Now don't tell me to just ask them because its not that easy for me. What could I do to get a girlfriend this year cause part of my 2013 resolution is to get laid with someone who is not a whore. So help me out if you can! Thanks!

so i always get all pumped up like, yoo im totes gonna get with that girl everytime i see a girl, but right before i go to try to make a move, i see that shes already talking to a guy and i think its just not worth trying and i lost all motivation. also when i do talk to girls i dont get far i mean im usually funny and we talk about typical stuff but it doesnt go far from there. then i see all my friends like, yo all these girls like me, stuff like that and i really dont know what i am doing wrong. i know for a fact i am not awkward and i am not pushy at all i usually never ask for numbers because i never think it is "the right time to" it might just be my brain being stupid but please tell me what i am doing wrong be legit

so i am a junior in highschool and since freshman year i have not had a girlfriend and ive been trying to figure out why and ive been thinking on the things i say to girls. a lot of girls laugh really hard at the stuff i say but is it a turnoff if i say things like, "ahh just farted". or "cocaine is a hell of a drug". i am also nervous to ask for numbers or to hang out so that might be part of it. those are just examples but any idea of what i might be doing that might me driving them away?? and i am not an ugly fat guy so it has little to do with looks!

well last week my friend had lsd and i took it pretty awesome but you say dumb things and i can kind of remember talking to this girl very cute in my spanish class and i never talked to her before though i wanted to, there was so much on my mind considering i was tripping and i was thinking about the door if it was actually black or not, im like, would you say that door is a more brown or black finish? and shes like, what? i dont know. and i went back today and she gave me a weird look, is there anything i could say or do so she doesnt think im an idiot

i never really talk to any girls because i always feel other guys know how to talk better than me and are more charming than me and it seems like everybody got something so far in highschool but i havent got jack yet! so what strategy could i use to maybe boost myself to talk and make the talk good! anything would be cool

so that was obviously my most prized possesion, i left it outside mcdonalds for 20 seconds and i see a mexican guy with a crown tattoo get on and ride away. saw him yesterday riding around that neighborhood and if i go around there i can catch him. but i am a very angry and aggressive person so i want to beat the living crap out of him. should i call cops or kill him?

i know its not in singles in dating. i just know that there are more normal people in singles and dating rather than in the nerd section. so i just wanna know your opinion! mine is SPAS 12 and AA 12

so other day me and my friends were hangin and my one friend had LSD. soooo i obviously took some, i mean, who wouldnt. then i was high as hell and we were walking around, couldnt tell if anything was real, then i think, im pretty sure i did, i saw the girl i really liked and i think she said "hey. are you okay?" but idk if i was just tripping or if it was reality. and either way, i dont know if i said anything to her! what should i do? cause if i text her and it never happened, shel be like, what? please helllpp!!!

i know how to talk to girls but sometimes idk what they like and dont like. please tell me in good detail what you want from a guy when a guy you dont know approaches you. thxxxxxxx