Alyssa

On August 4th I have to go a baby shower and my bf is going to cedar point. She doesnt trust anyone else with her kittens. Will she be fine on her own? She is 8 months old and she has been really tired and overwhelmed they will be 3 weeks old by the 4th and i am wondering if she wil be okay and the kittens will be okay. Thank you so much in advanced I'm just worried she had 8 kittens and 2 died because they were under developed. Thanks for any answers

My bf and I have been together for almost 2 yrs. His mom is extremely dependant on him and has been for 10 years. Since his sister was born. He has two now and his moms new bf has a 2 year old son so now hes stuck watching 3 kids. After graduation we want to start a life together but his mom wont even let him get a summer job because she doesnt want him to stop being her babysitter. He usually doesnt mind. Neither would I but we are starting our adult lives soon and she is tremendously slowing him down. Next week we have our senior hours And I know shes already going to mess up his hours and he wont get all 10 of them because of her she constantly does that to him. Everytime he has something important going on she stops it from happening for stupid reasons. She could take the kids with her at some points but instead uses him when he needs to be somewhere impirtant. I know that its his mother but he will be 18 on the 14th and he has a lot to get done our last high school year and she is going to slow it down and stop it to where he wont be able to even graduate. Her New bf is trying to win his sons custody but he never has time to really see him only a few hours out of the entire day does he have time for him. And the rest of the time my bf has to watch him. My bf doesnt mind for now but he s starting to see where it is heading in the future. I help him when I can but I m getting a job soon and he will be stuck alone with 3 kids. Ill still help him when I can. Its worsening

So, my mom snoops A LOT I can't stand her. But I don't live with her and my boyfriend, I've been with over a years mother who she has never met. She hasn't met my bf either btw but she works at the Taxing building in Akron and she looked through his moms information. Her files, her report. Her entire file that is stored at the workplace only there to check if they have been paying taxes which she has. My mom was never told to look at her report tho. She was just being judgmental and overall just a *****. She said she didn't have a drivers license. Remind you. These reports aren't updated to the year so it is from 2015 not 2017 because she has her drivers license and it is not expired like she said. She was in debt but only because her ex went to prison and she had everything shoved under her name and she became a single mom of 3. How was she supposed to handle that? Anyway, this pissed me off because his mom is a total sweetheart and is completely harmless and now both my parents are completely disrespectful when talking about her. And it really frustrates me. My dad also talks very badly about her. He hasn't met her either yet. But now everyone is talking crap about her and it makes me really mad :( but is it illegal what my mom did, if it didn't have to do with her work and of she is in a very high work position? Where she works. There are millions of people's information and she accesses specific people's information just to judge them. They have all paid their taxes.

So, the first teacher I noticed was my science teacher (11th grade) and when I go up and talk to him he stares at my lips a lot, I'm big on body language and I have studied it quite a bit, and I am very observant during class we are usually on our computers and I constantly look over and see him staring at me then he instantly looks away, I can sense when I'm being watched. In my government class, my teacher is really nice, I noticed the other day, when I was walking up to him to show him my work like I was supposed to be was staring at my chest (I'm not chesty but I am to the point some things I wear make them look a lot bigger without me meaning to if that makes sense) I don't have some major ego or whatever but it's been weirding me out 😅 they both look at me A LOT it gets awkward most of the time. They have both paid me many compliments and tend to focus on me more than others, idk if I'm imaging stuff... Being paranoid or what so I thought y'all could help by being your blunt selves 😅 not an insult I promise, I love how honest people are on here lol no reason to lie if you can't see my face. Thank you for any answers!

I have always brushed my teeth more than I have to, most days, three times or even more. I also floss once a day, but o do not use mouth wash, never been a fan. I haven't been to a dentist in over a year, but I am planning to in a few month, I'm not sure yet, I've never had a cavity. Only problem I've been told is that my gums have been inflamed and to brush them more often, which I do that once a day. Suddenly, today when I was eating lunch, my left pointy tooth on the top started having a sharp pain that was escrusiatingly uncomfortable. Will it fall out? Is it weakening? Please answer soon, it is worrying me, I am 16 and I am a female, thank you.

He sent me this: When I first met you I thought you were extremely adorable. I kind of felt your crush on me then, and I kinda wanted you to have a good impression of me, so I acted goofy to make you smile and laugh. I wasn't into you, unfortunately. When we started talking, I was kinda glad cos I made a new friend. As time passed, I felt us getting closer and I didn't want to stop talking to you. For the past month, I've felt very attached to you, like I could never let you go. For a while, I've wondered about our future. After a while, I started to feel happier with you than my gf... I've been thinking about you more, and I've often felt like hugging you, and holding your hand, and when you're happy and say sweet things to me, I feel so happy and loved... You make me feel like I'm important and significant to someone's life... Whenever I first see you in the morning I want to give you a hug and a kiss and make you happy, but I know I can't... You're so romantic, loving and caring... It's crazy, but I find myself attracted to you. I sometimes wonder what would happen if we were both single...

My boyfriend and I were sitting together at lunch as usual and he suddenly grabbed be y wrapping his arms around my stomach and pulling me in towards him I was fine with it first but then he tightened his grip and wouldn't let go I tried getting up he wouldn't let me, he would only pull me closer and closer to me, he held my hand at one point and kissed it but then he continued to do this. My friend, his best friend texted me today pointing out how it bothered me, I asked why and he said that he needed to calm down and that he will get i trouble if he doesn't stop touching me like he has. I told him I know he won't do anything, he said that he'll keep an eye on him. He also said that he talks to him about really sexual things and what he wants to o to me... it just scares me because he keeps touching me non stop and grabbing me closer, gets jealous easily, gets mad fast and told me he's aggressive but never will be with me. I want to trust him I really do, but he is s strong he can easily control me if he really wanted to it just scares me sometimes. He has shown his strength towards me when he holds onto me and hugs me and he does all of these things with holding my hands, etc. But also today, when we kissed like we always do he let the kiss last a while longer and I felt like he was pressing his face way too hard into my face it kind of hurt... But are these things to worry about, thank you...

So "L" and I are really great friend, we are really close. He said I love you to me today, no biggie, we've said it for months, as a brother and sister would. Anyhow, today he said he always felt so happy to talk to me and get close to me, in person he meant. He also said that he loved it when we compared our hands to each other because it gave him an excuse to touch my hand, he then said I had the softest hands he's ever touched. I said thank you, that's pretty much it. He then pointed out he really wanted to hug me, and I said "awe me too :)" He said he got too nervous to do so though. We kept talking for a while on there and I was talking about how without my glasses my face looked weird but in a humorous way, and he said "don't think that, it doesn't look weird your face is ******* adorable" I sent "..." then "um" "thanks?" He went on about how "adorable" I am to him and it was just awkward lol. But anyhow today he said I love you to me I said it back, as usual and he then said he felt so comfortable saying it to me which was weird because it normally doesn't feel right but saying it to me does. He then said he wished we'd get closer than we already are... The soft hand thing he said he wished that he could hold them. Also, I started talking about my hair don't know how it came up lol but he was talking to me about it too and I told he was right about me having chubby cheeks, it's more obvious with my hair up and he said he loved that about my face... He said that he...

My friend told me my voice sounds kind of dreamy, the kind of voice you love to hear what does it mean to have a dreamy voice?? He also said my eyes were dreamy what does that mean? What does dreamy mean exactly?

My friend and I were texting and he said something weird he said "Don't tell your boyfriend I said this but your voice is kind of dreamy..." He said a day before that my voice melts guys inside and that my eyes are dreamy too what exactly does dreamy mean? Also what does it mean if your voice melts someone inside? I have no idea what that means lol...Thank you for any answers :)

Friend: "L"

You're face is the most attractive thing about you(physically)

I could never be mad at you

Random: I think your forehead is adorable

It's a shame... Sometimes I kinda do wanna kiss you on the forehead

If it weren't wrong I'd kiss your forehead everyday.

*Holds you close*

*kisses your forehead* You promise you'll be okay?

*holds out pinky* Pinky promise?

*gives you another loving hug* :) good...

*But seeing you and hearing your voice when I sat down made me smile :)

And knowing your sweet self is smiles when we talk makes it better :) *hugs you*

Yeah little cutie

Night little adorable thing

*kisses your forehead goodnight*

*kisses your forehead*

Sweet dreams

sweeter dreams

sweet dreams to you

*kisses your cheek*

I'll see ya tomorrow :)

Love you :)

But your smile is more precious

The transition of your face from peach to bright pink is a blessing to observe :)

Like gazing upon an Aurora

*Hugs you*

Makes it last a few seconds longer

So you feel how important I am to you

I want you to be happy

I wouldn't let you go to bed crying...

I love you

I feel this way about you...a way I've never felt about anyone else... I just never want to stop talking to you and making you smile and blush...As I've said before, I feel as though we're connected, and when you feel happy, I'm happy, and when you're upset, I'm upset...I can't stand seeing you upset and I'd cry if you cried...You fill my heart with joy... There's just so much inside to share with you...

It's unexplainable...

When I drink milk I feel horribly sick to my stomach, I will eat my cereal with it in it, it's fine but if I drink the milk after eating it I feel sick then If I just drink milk I feel REALLY sick and it just sucks, I love milk what's wrong with me? I've never been this way until now I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm not pregnant, impossible for that to have happen but what's wrong with me? I can eat anything dairy without feeling this way so what's wrong with me, and why am I suddenly having this problem? Thank you so much I'm just worried...

My bf and I were hugging and when we were...all of a sudden he brings me a lot closer right against him and he hugged me so tight that it kind of hurts now I don't get hurt easily either... He kissed me too after but he is SO strong...ridiculously strong he could easily keep me in place physically, I can tell that because of how tight he has held my wrists before. He also constantly wraps both his arms around my stomach from the side whenever we sit down and doesn't let me go...not until he has to until then he holds me there, I don't think he realizes his own strength at times because I'll say that he is too strong and he kind of sounded surprised but the hug...he held me right on him and hugged me so tight...it really it hurt after and he just held me close for a minute, kissed me said I love you and left. Why'd he hug me so tight? He held me so close to him too a lot closer than usual...Is this a red flag or did he just feel attached for the moment being? Thanks so much I just want to make sure it isn't a bad thing I need to keep an eye on, again thank you I am just a bit worried...with the wrist thing he was just pointing out how tiny I am that's all...

My friend and I are very close friends, e's best friends with my bf, and he is always talking about hugging me and holding me close kissing my cheek, etc. He told me that he wanted to kiss my cheek so bad every time he sees me blush. He said he wanted to hold me in his arms, and hold me tight for a while so I knew how important I was to him. I talk to him a LOT and he told me he loved me like a sister. But then later on said after getting to know the real me he really liked me. But now he just says he isn't in love with me. It's really confusing. But he just says things like saying calling me a "lil cutie" and said "night you little adorable thing" he then said today he has wanted to kiss me on the forehead and he would everyday if weren't wrong, so does he like me...or just care about me hae said I'm a part of his heart, if I left a piece of him would leave... Thank you all so much but does he like me?

I was talking to my bf he told me he was crying the day before, I asked why he told me it was because he missed me so much and he couldn't stand being away from me and that he just felt so empty... Then I was texting his friend when I was upset, his friend told him I was upset and he said he wanted to cry when he found out I was upset, when I talked to him about it he said he cried because he doesn't want me to be upset, he wants me to be happy and he wants to protect me... Then today I was talking to him and the same friend of his, teased him about looking at my picture he has on his phone as his lockscreen he said he has done that before for a really long time I mean... I didn't really didn't say anything but he said that he cried yesterday when he looked at a picture of me because he really missed me. Another time he said he had a dream about me where I asked him if he knew what it felt like to die and then five shots when off and I stood up and walked away the he cried all night after that...the thing is he isn't a sensitive guy at all that's what doesn't make sense I mean he's really sweet and caring and everything with me but he doesn't really come off as someone who cries this often...Am I doing something wrong, I haven't judged I never will but I'm just worried I am making him upset :( Thank you in advance...

So, my friend and I have gotten VERY close... At one point 3 weeks ago about, he said after getting to know the real me. He said last week he know longer does, but he has been constantly commenting on how adorable I am. How sweet my laugh is, how adorable everything is about me...He also said today that he really wants to hug me on Monday I said okay because I do too but only because he is my friend, nothing big I hug all my friends but he began talking about he was going to hold me close and how he would never want to let go. I just laughed it off but he went on he said that he has always wanted to kiss me on the forehead, I laughed it off again, then I said something about how bad I would blush then he said that when I blushed he really wants to kiss me on the cheek I laughed it off again. He then said he loved everything about me, and how amazing I make him feel inside, and that he wants to make me feel like the most special girl in the world, and that he just wants to make me feel the same way... he then said I love you he has said it before but he always said "I love ya sis" a friendly I love you...I said I love you too then he said that he wishes me met me a long time ago. said I did too then I said that I felt like I was betraying my bf for hugging you, he said not to feel bad and I said okay, and he said "It's not like you love me the same way you love him." Before that he had said he felt like we were destined to meet, another thing he told me he wanted to just hold

This light is dying, it is only getting colder…

I’m dying here and you don’t even care

I will chase you but you will only run away

You will leave me here even though I cared

You gave up on me when I still love you

You keep hurting me and I keep letting you

You offer yourself I take in

Stop doing this to me

When you know that you will break me

Even more that ever before

Stop hurting me because you know I will

Always take you back

You know I’m weak

You love that

You made me this way

You love this, you love seeing this horrible

Pain in my eyes, I’m glad your happy

That’s all I ever wanted I just didn’t

Know that you had to kill me to be this way

I would’ve done it sooner

But no congratulations on your happiness

You killed me

I’m dead

It’s all because of you....

When "J" and I are talking are talking he always lciks his lips or makes this weird smacking kind of sound when he is talking it is kind of weird. Whenever I'm not looking at him when he is taking he does it more often. When we hug he either kisses me on the lips or cheek I'm not sure if he is getting ready to kiss me again when he does this, do you think hee is? I feel like that is why but I'm not sure... At one point he was hanging out with his friend and I was texting the friend with him while they were and he kept texting me what he was talking about and apparently he was talking about me and was talking about how he couldn't wait to kiss my soft lips again... He seems to really enjoy kissing me I'm not sure if that makes me a good kisser but he seems to love kissing me though, I love kissing him too, but he is only the second person I have kissed so I'm not really sure what makes someone a bad kisser or a good, can you guys help me out there? Also maybe some tips? Thank you all so much I really appreciate. it.

My bf and I were talking about when we first met and he was talking about when I had started going out with this guy he got really depressed but when he grew more feelings for me and when he found out I broke up with the guy he told himself that he would ask me out this time which he did and we now love each other very much and he said the weirdest thing after I told him how much I loved him he said "Wow, but after my last breakup I felt like no one else would love me again but when I met you I got so addicted to you" What does this even mean I have been thinking about it non stop it sounded great when I first thought about it but now that I have overthought about it I am really curious about what it means please if you know what it means...tell me first one to tell me what it means gets the best answer...

My bf loves tickling me, I hate it because I am very ticklish and he know where :/ but anyhow I sometimes just grab his wrists and hold them still so I know he won't do it again but he is too strong and gets me anyway lol he always moves his hand then wraps his hand around my stomach within seconds and I kind of love that lol but he said when I was trying to defend myself it was adorable and he just always says things about how adorable I am. Then my friend "L" said that my smile was adorable and that he wished that I could see it then he said when I blush it is the cutest thing and that he thought my smile was just so adorable then my other friend saw me and my bf wrapped his arms around me and said something really sweet and I blushed really bad and then my other friend said that my blushing was adorable and my bf said he agrees. Why do so many guys use the word adorable to describe me? I am 5'6 I am kind of skinny, I have bigger cheeks, and I have a dimple, then I have big brown eyes, brown hair a couple inches past my shoulders, and it is straight, I have a calic too that a lot of people say compliment my face, I have a clear face, so no acne, I don't wear makeup I wear t shirts and jeans with DC's don't know what is adorable about me but they seem to think so, I also smile and laugh a lot with my teeth showing I have straight white teeth a lot of people say I have nice teeth lol but what would guys find adorable about me btw my bf is 6'0 and my guy friends are all tall