Evans Mummy

my son is nearing 4 years old very soon and will not use the toilet for me, he will use it at day care (he goes 1 day a week) but will just have "accidents" for me at home even though I know he can use the toilet he just wont do it, I have tried more things than I can recall and he still wont do it, in a month he will be starting kindergarten transition lessons and I refuse to send my boy to kindergarten in nappies.

I am now at the point where I cant cope with him doing this and am just in tears trying to get him to use the toilet everyday it consumes my whole day and leaves little time for myself or house work. has anyone had this happen with their child and please tell me there is a way to fix it,

I am extremely humiliated. Last night I had anal sex only for a few minutes then stopped because it was painful. This morning I was bleeding and now I am swollen. Hugely swollen. The bleeding has stopped but the pain is horrible. What do I do? Is this serious?

ive been feeling sick, got sore boobs and get really bad head aches. is it normal for levlen ocp to do this? ive been taking it for 11days

how do you handle the roll of both mum and dad, the worker, the cook, the house keeper etc. im at the point where I am finding no joy in life and am constantly upset. my family have recently turned on me for some reason. I just feel like I have no support and I need to know it gets better. at the age of 21 I really didnt imagine ide have an almost 2 and a half year old. the fact I do it alone makes it harder. please someone give me any advice on how to handle my situation

my son is almost 2 and a half and I have been attempting potty training since he was 1. in this time he has done 1 poo and 2 wee's on the potty and thats it. I have tried so many things and I dont want to push him but people are judging me saying he should be out of nappies by now. will he just become more confident in time? sometimes if he sit on the toilet or potty he gets really upset so I take him off because I dont want him to think its something scary. his dad isnt super involved in his life so he has been no help either. I hate that people say I am a bad mum when I really am trying my very best with my son. is more time just needed?

TMI warning!!!!! I use mirena birth control. The cramps are really bad at times and seem to be getting worse to the point i have trouble moving and all i can manage is to curl up and tough it out. Recently i now find sex and masturbation painful and am in serious pain for a good hour or two after and also have a heavy watery discharge afterwards. I have stopped masturbation but am scared to talk to my bf about this. I also have sore breasts feel sick all the time and get dizzy on a daily basis. Its hard to deal with as im a single mum of a 2 year old and i work part time. What could be wrong?

TMI warning!!!!! I use mirena birth control. The cramps are really bad at times and seem to be getting worse to the point i have trouble moving and all i can manage is to curl up and tough it out. Recently i now find sex and masturbation painful and am in serious pain for a good hour or two after and also have a heavy watery discharge afterwards. I have stopped masturbation but am scared to talk to my bf about this. I also jave sore breasts feel sick all the time and get dizzy on a daily basis. Its hard to deal with as im a single mum of a 2 year old and i work part time. What could be wrong?

he will be 2 on the 26th of this month. i have been separated from his dad since the start of this year. our relationship was never the greatest and towards the end he became violent and would threaten to kill me. now i am living with family and his dad lives in another state working and we are civil towards one another when we are together. my question is can what happened to me in my relationship with his father have any negative affect on him at such a young age? he sticks his fingers down his throat for attention, he hits his head on anything and everything, toys his cot, the floor etc etc. if anyone so much as raises their voice to me he will not stop crying untill i pick him up and cuddle him and tell him everything is ok. Its really worrying me and i have no idea what to do. people say things behind my back about not being a good mum but i do as good as i can. i only work 2 days a week and the whole time i am gone i worry if my mum is ok with him because he is such a handful. i really have no idea what to do i want this strange acting out to stop.

as a young woman who had had fun exploring my sexuality and being open to a range of different sexual practices, i got to wondering where general people (who are not my friends) stand on peoples sexual openness. what would you consider to be a ****? or do you think that there is no such thing and both men and women should be allowed to enjoy many sexual partners without being labeled? what do people think about 1 night stands/ anonymous sex? and also do you think sex is different with a person you have feelings for (other then sexual feelings) and that the previous amount of sexual partners should make no difference to a relationship?

this is purely for research purposes and would appreciate all opinions :)

first off i am female. i have recently started a new relationship. I have a son from a previous relationship and the guy im seeing has a son and a daughter both to different mums. he is extremely paranoid about getting me pregnant. i am using a inter uterine contraception atm but want it removed to go on the pill and he says if i go on the pill he cant sleep with me anymore because he has gotten 2 kids from people who were taking the pill. here is my problem he cant stay hard with a condom on and i have told him to go to the doctor to see if they can do anything to help him out. he refuses to try anything and wants me to keep using what i have now but its not right for me. i guess what i am asking is for any advice or suggestions for way he can stay hard while using a condom?

so for little over a week now i have had constant nausea, occasional vomiting, dizzy spells and fainting, sore breasts and no idea when my last proper period was. i am sexually active but i use mirena IUD (which i am getting removed later this month to switch to the pill because i get really bad cramps from my IUD) so i know there is no was i could be and my boyfriend asked me to take a test just to be sure and it came out negative. i feel terrible all the time and its exhausting trying to look after my toddler and do house work while i feel like this but i have no idea whats wrong with me, i am so worried because this is exactly how i felt when i was pregnant with my son but i cant be pregnant is my body just playing tricks on me??

he is 24 almost 25 and on several occations i have found him talking very dirty to girls who are 16! i even had one girl contact me online saying he propositioned her 16 year old friend for sex knowing full well her age and he souldnt be doing that in the first place since he isnt single. i confronted him about this and he told me he would never do anything like that and why would he risk going to jail etc etc. most the time its just adding them on facebook and writing creepy comments on their slutty pictures but when i find conversations on his facebook chat asking a girl after he found out she was 16 if she was a naughty girl i think i should be concerned, what should i do? could this mean he is peadophile? also i am scared to ask him about it again because he will tell me off for snooping, and i know yes snooping through his things is wrong but i wouldnt do it if i wasnt extremly freaked out and concerned. i should be able to trust the man i have been with for 2 years :(

he is 24 almost 25 and on several occations i have found him talking very dirty to girls who are 16! i even had one girl contact me online saying he propositioned her 16 year old friend for sex knowing full well her age and he souldnt be doing that in the first place since he isnt single. i confronted him about this and he told me he would never do anything like that and why would he risk going to jail etc etc. most the time its just adding them on facebook and writing creepy comments on their slutty pictures but when i find conversations on his facebook chat asking a girl after he found out she was 16 if she was a naughty girl i think i should be concerned, what should i do? could this mean he is peadophile?

he found a bottle underneath the tv cabinet and managed to have a couple of sucks before i got it off him, i have no idea how long it has been there and the milk smells really bad will that make him sick? he is almost 14 months old, i have given him some water to wash his mouth out is there anything else i should do?

I have had one for around a year, my crazy constant bleeding has calmed down but now for about 3 weeks now I am getting unbelievable painful cramps to the point where I can't move and the pain makes me feel sick. I have also been having a heavy liquid discharge it's clear and has no odur but there is alot if it and it's just so annoying I can't wear pads alot so I need to change my underwear several times a day. I have a feeling this can't be normal can any one give me some ideas as to what may be causing this? Thank you for reading x

I have had one for around a year, my crazy constant bleeding has calmed down but now for about 3 weeks now I an getting unbelievable painful cramps to the point where I can't move and the pain makes me feel sick. I have also been having a heavy liquid discharge it's clear and has no odur but there is alot if it and it's just so annoying I can't wear pads alot so I need to change my underwear several times a day. I have a feeling this can't be normal can any one give me some ideas as to what may be causing this? Thank you for reading x

i have been having an odd feeling i might be pregnant for a little while now, i have a few symptoms but not others and i have a mirena which i know 99% affective but i am still a bit worried. I am having a pap smear in the morning so if i am will the doctor be able to tell from looking at my cervix? i am to scared to ask for a test in case she thinks i am silly.

my son just turned one and am wanting to start potty training him. i asked my mum and grandma what they thought was best and they told me just to pop him on his potty when i notice him starting to poo but alot of the time i dont notice he has done it till i smell it or by the time i yank his pants off and get him ready to sit on the potty he is done. has anyone got any tips to help me get him and me more into the swing of potty training and with number ones when is best to start teaching him to go standing up? thank you for reading

i use mirena. i fidn it to be the most annoying thing ever. i went from constant spotting and bleeding quite alot to just nothing, not one spot of blood for 7 weeks now! i hated bleeding all the time but i dont want to stop all together, is this normal with what i use? i have wanted to go on the pill for so long but my doctor said its not an option because of other medical problems. can not bleeding at all have a negative affect on my ovulation? thank you for reading

i need to pee all the time. somethings as frequently as 30 mins apart 2 hours max. its so irritating. is it a sign i could have diabetes?