tess25

Ok a few questions first the facts. My first day of my last period was around the 15th of October. I have been sick for the past few months with what we thought was Gallbladder problems. Still not sure what the problem is. Because of how high the pain is and where it is located. I was seeing a doctor about that pain in the Middle of November. They did a ultra sound on the gallbladder and no stones so they scheduled a Hida scan which you cant have if you are pregnant so they did a pregnancy test on the 19th of November. (Just a pee test not blood) and it was negative. Then I had the hida scan a few days after. Still no period but I was not concerned because I have been late for no reason in the past. (maybe stress). So my husband and I had sex before the tests and since then. Still no period and I have been taking home test every few days since the middle of november and they kept coming up negative until December 2nd when I took one and a very light line showed up so I waited to the next day and went to the Health Department and had a pee test done there and it came up positive. So here are the questions?

When do the hcg levels start to show up enough that a test will show positive?

Could have I gotten pregnant after the 19th of November or is it more likely that I was pregnant before the hida scan and the hgc levels were just not high enough to show a positive test.

I am scared because we lost a baby a year ago in October. I was seven months along and she only lived three days and I was wanting to get pregnant but I am scared that I was already pregnant when they did that hida scan and it is a fact that the hida scan really hurts a developing fetus. Please help I need some answers.

I understand that there will always be people that hate Jesus and as hard as we try we will never have enough time to wake everyone up that feels that way. It just breaks my heart to read,listen and see so many lost people in this world. We as Christians have so much work that needs to be done and it upsets me that people that call themselves Christians are just sitting back and watching this go on. Wake up people. We are here for a reason and have a very large job that needs to be done so please lets get to work!!!! I am asking that those who do believe please pray for the salvation of the people of this world. So our fathers will can be done. God Bless to All.

My dad remarried when I was nine years old and I hated the woman that he married. I really didn't like he at all but I wanted my dad to be happy and I was nine what I thought really didn't matter much when it came to who he was going to spend the rest of his life with. I grew to love her but she never started to like me still to this day she doesn't like me. I have caught her talking badly about myself and my child behind our backs to her side of the family. I have tried to get close to her but she just pushes me away. My dad has a lot of stress going on in his life right now and I can tell they are having trouble with the marriage becasue they have both made comments to me about being unhappy. I hate to see my dad so unhappy and not be able to do anything about it. She is just not standing behind him when he needs her the most. She is only concerned about herself and money. My dad has two farms, 20 rentals and is building a golf course and I know that she only married him for his money and not because she loved him becasue if she loved him then she would not be turning her back in him now that things are getting tough. I am not sure if I should tell my dad what I see and what I think or if I should just sit back a support him and not tell him what I think of her. My dad was there for me when I went through my dirvorce and I want to be there for him I just don't want to make things worse by telling him how I really feel about my stepmother.

My husband and I found out that we were expecting our third child this past winter. Our due date was November 26 2008. The second week of October we started having trouble. My blood pressure was up and the baby was not moving as much as she should have been. My doctor put me on bed rest on October 9th and scheduled non stress test and sonograms for the remainder of the pregnancy. At this point from the sonograms we had that day the baby looked fine. She scored an 8 out of an 8. The only thing that was concerning the doctor was that her heart was not accelerating or decelerating the way that it should have been. It was staying between 140 and 145. ON Saturday October 11th I went for my first non stress test and sonogram and her heart was the same and she scored a 4 out of 8. The Doctor sent me to a different hospital that would be able to deliver the baby because I was only 34 weeks along. We were only at the hospital for about a half an hour and her heart rate drop ed to the point that the doctors did an emergency c section and my little girl was born. She died two days later because she had so much brain damage she could not stay alive with out being on all kinds of machines. The doctors say that the brain damage was because of lack of oxygen due to the blood clots in the three vessel cord. Has anyone ever heard of this before and if so what causes the blood clots and will this happen if we get pregant again.

OK I can't remember how to calculate when my next period will start. Is it 28 days or so from the date that I started my last period or the last day of my period. And then when is the best time to get pregnant? My last period started on December 22. Will it be coming or do you think there is a chance I am pregnant?

My family lives about an hour & half from where we live and that is also where my ex husband lives. I have a son to my ex and I would like my son to go to the same school as my brother(they are nine months apart) and my ex husband live near there so he would be able to be more involved with my son and school activites. My new husband has lived with his mom 30 years of his life (he is 33 now) and my mother in law is very attached. He want to move but we dont want to hurt her feelings. She has caused many problems between us but we have always been able to get through them becasue he truly loves me. We had a baby girl in August and my monther in law is saying that I am keeping the baby from her if we move. Let me remind you my family never get to see her and my monther in law lives next door to us now. I do not want to hurt her feelings but my husband and I need to start our lives toegther. I am not sure how to let my momther in law know that I am not trying to take him from her