Kevin

I see a lot of girls, especially short ones, say they want "a guy taller than them".

Now to be honest, this wouldn't be such a big deal if it were actually true (and the WHOLE truth).

As a 5'6 guy, i'm taller than about 75% of girls. However, the vast majority of girls, even girls that are way shorter than me and girls who have previously said phrases like "I want a guy taller than me", and a project at me because "I'm too short".

Oftentimes, the girl won't even admit this (except under pressure), and I would only find out the truth from mutual friends or people looking out for me who had talked to her. I don't get it – why lie?

Basically, long story short, this girl who i had been seeing a few times/hooked up with, rejected me bcuz this in her words "hotter taller guy" came along. But then she tried to blame it all on my personality, even though we had talked on the phone for hours before this and she laughed a ton and we had texted and she said she loved everything about my personality etc prior to this. And when we hung in person I wasn't as attractive as she had thought but we still hooked up, but later she admitted she thought I would be hotter.

ANYWAY LONG STORY SHORT... I ENDED UP GETTING REALLY OFFENDED. Stupid, I know. I ended up saying I would message her friends and stuff about her cheating and being a sl*t and stuff.

Then finally after I repeatedly asked her "why does it terrify you to tell the truth? just admit it was his looks", and a few times she had asked me to stop messaging her, finally she says "I;m going to press harassment charges against you."

At this point, I was like, whoa. Step back. I hadn't even realized it was at that level. So I was like "Oh yeah?"

She says "I want to give you a fair warning."

I say "Even if I stop messaging?"

she says "Have a good night and do not contact me again."

then I said "I asked you a question. can we not get carried away. If I go, will you not press charges? Jeez laweez dude calm down"

she says "I'm pressing charges on you. Have a goodnight and do not contact me again"

For example I can message ten girls on a dating site. The message is funny, chill, shows connections/similarities, and says we should meet up for a quick date.

Zero responses for an entire 7 days. 7 days of nothing.

Then I message all of them a short second message, saying: "I forgot to add, I'm 6'2 and make $187k a year. I usually don't throw that in but you are really cute/compatible so yeah"

Suddenly 9 out of 10 respond within about 4 hours tops, most in the first hour, all of them saying things like "haha idk why I didn't get a notification for your first message! But oh your money or height doesn't matter to me btw. I'm not shallow. But yes you're right we are super compatible. What day were you thinking?"

Then when I point out how it's convenient they SUDDENLY just got the message, they all stick to their LIE of claiming to have just gotten it.

When I show them a pic of the 9 other responses similar to theirs, they go ballistic, cuss me out & block me.

Wtf?

Ok background:

1) Shes came over 2 times before, both times I asked she came.

2) We had amazing sex both times.

3) She said she does really like me and wants to see where it goes.

4) However I deeply hurt her and pissed her off bcuz an hour after she left my house the 2nd time around, she went onto facebook and saw I had JUST gotten into a relationship with another girl an hour after me and her finished hanging out/hooking up.

5) Anyway I told her it was a mistake yada yada, that I would actually leave the girl for her, that she was the right one for me and not my GF, etc. She said "I appreciate what you said, but I need some time to think about it". I said "Ok".

She never responded back, so then 3 days later, bcuz I never heard back from her, I messaged her again and this was our conversation:

ME- "You must be doing an awful lot of thinking"

HER- "Hey. How are you?"

ME- "How do you think I am"

HER- "Haha you always answer my questions with a question."

ME- "Haha yeah yeah. Come over tonight and find out"

HER- "So what happens if I forgive you?"

HER- "I do like you, and I would want to see what would happen. But I cant promise you that we'll be in a relationship. That's the hard part of the situation, is that we only met twice"

ME- "The relationship part is up to you. I'm cool either way, I just figured you wanted one"

HER- "What about your current girlfriend?"

ME- "I already told you"

HER- "I have rehearsal until 8:30 tonight"

ME- "That's a little late, but doable"

HER- "I can't stay too long anyways"

ME- "Haha that's fine"

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^ The above convo took place around 1:30pm. It is now 4:30 pm. If she was coming over, it would be after 8:30.

From that, does it seem like she intends on coming?

If so, do you think the whole "I cant stay too long" is just a bluff, or is she actually intending on only staying a few minutes?

Ok background:

1) Shes came over 2 times before, both times I asked she came.

2) We had amazing sex both times.

3) She said she does really like me and wants to see where it goes.

4) However I deeply hurt her and pissed her off bcuz an hour after she left my house the 2nd time around, she went onto facebook and saw I had JUST gotten into a relationship with another girl an hour after me and her finished hanging out/hooking up.

5) Anyway I told her it was a mistake yada yada, that I would actually leave the girl for her, that she was the right one for me and not my GF, etc. She said "I appreciate what you said, but I need some time to think about it". I said "Ok".

She never responded back, so then 3 days later, bcuz I never heard back from her, I messaged her again and this was our conversation:

ME- "You must be doing an awful lot of thinking"

HER- "Hey. How are you?"

ME- "How do you think I am"

HER- "Haha you always answer my questions with a question."

ME- "Haha yeah yeah. Come over tonight and find out"

HER- "So what happens if I forgive you?"

HER- "I do like you, and I would want to see what would happen. But I cant promise you that we'll be in a relationship. That's the hard part of the situation, is that we only met twice"

ME- "The relationship part is up to you. I'm cool either way, I just figured you wanted one"

HER- "What about your current girlfriend?"

ME- "I already told you"

HER- "I have rehearsal until 8:30 tonight"

ME- "That's a little late, but doable"

HER- "I can't stay too long anyways"

ME- "Haha that's fine"

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^ The above convo took place around 1:30pm. It is now 4:30 pm. If she was coming over, it would be after 8:30.

From that, does it seem like she intends on coming?

If so, do you think the whole "I cant stay too long" is just a bluff, or is she actually intending on only staying a few minutes?

I saw a similar question to this where a girl said "If I tell a guy I like him a lot, will he understand that I actually do love him, because I do?" and basically the girl was saying that "I like you a lot" = "I love you".

she said she was just too afraid to say it.

Now im kind of curious because my girlfriend of 1 month (we do have really passionate sex, sometimes rough and sometimes "making love" type) and she IS super super clingy. She says the same thing to me, that she likes me a lot and "really really likes me".

She also says I'm "so perfect lol" and stuff like that.

And she is super super insecure and jealous of me with other girls, to the point of being sad or crying. But she never tries to control me though, I guess cuz she's worried I might run off.

What are your thoughts?

Here's the pros and cons, and what happened:

IN MY DEFENSE:

1) i was tired/recovering from being sick/smoked a bowl with my girl and her roommates, so naturally I wouldn't be feeling the best. She knew I had had a fever the day before.

2) It wasn't really a high talkative event, it was just 4 of my girlfriends friends (all girls) hanging out and having girl talk while watching the superbowl. So naturally I'm not gonna have too much to say.

3) I never said anything noticeably awkward or embarrassing, so I never directly embarrassed her.

4) Up until this point, she has been a stage 5 clinger, super super into me, really into the s*ex and into me, etc.

THE BAD:

1) I feel like I was just too silent and shy and not funny or cool overall. (I'm normally a cool, funny, chill relaxed dude). I probably also appeared tense/uncomfortable bcuz I felt I was being awkward/too shy.

2) My gf got quiet and kinda almost sad halfway thru with her small group of friends. When we were walking back to her car after, she looked like something was wrong, kinda wiping her eye, like she was tired or sad or almost about to cry. I asked her what was wrong and she said she wasn't feeling well and had gotten her period like an hour ago and that nothing else was wrong.

3) For the first time ever hanging around her, I had this eye twitch going on occasionally, along with a mouth/nose twitch. I was just really uncomfortable the entire time and trying my best to hide my discomfort and awkwardness and I guess that plus the weed I smoked with her and her friends earlier that day, caused it. I was laying SIDE BY SIDE WITH HER THO. Do you think she or her friends noticed? Would her friends whisper to her and bring it up or mention it to her later? Idk.

HOWEVER: On the ride home though, me and her were talking and vibing pretty normally, good like before. She gave me a kiss as she dropped me off back at my house. She said that nothing was wrong and said she cared about me a lot blah blah.

Dealbreaker or what? BE HONEST Don't say the annoying term "It SHOULDNT be a dealbreaker". Bcuz shoulda coulda woulda DOES NOT HELP ME! I need to know what my girlfriend WILL think or do, NOT what theoretically "should" happen. I get that rainbows and sunshine and perfection SHOULD happen BUT LETS BE FREAKING REAL HERE PEOPLE!!! Thank you!

I'm a player who's had sex with over 60 girls. I've found it's overwhelmingly easy to get girls to have sex with me.

However, despite my skills at getting women into bed and making women wanna date me... I get overly attached. I am good at hiding this attachment, but sometimes it will show and scare girls off.

Also, whenever a girl is too into me, it turns me off.

So its like, girls who are into me, I am turned off by so Im not happy. And girls who are more chill and hard to get, end up making ME act clingy or pursuing them too much, so it turns them off.

FOR EXAMPLE: This girl came over to my house 2 nights in a row (GIRL 1). Super super into me, we had amazing sex, she was great, she was talking about wanting to date. Staring deep into my eyes.

But then this other girl I had been seeing GIRL 2 (whos actually way hotter), called me with an ultimatum wanting to date me or she would stop talking to me. So I agreed to date her. Then GIRL 1 found out about me dating GIRL 2 bcuz she saw my facebook, so she got hurt and a little mad or I guess turned off.

Then over the next few days, I ended up telling GIRL 1 that I was sorry blah blah... I made plans to see GIRL 1... Then I flaked on girl 1 again bcuz GIRL 2 my girlfriend asked to hang out.

From there, GIRL 1 was totally pissed at me and I guess done with me. I finally "realized" I liked GIRL 1 way more than GIRL 2. But GIRL 1 was pretty much ignoring me or blowing me off, frequently not responding to my messages. GIRL 1 totally ignored my most recent message saying I would date her, right now over GIRL 2 and that I was sorry for how I blew her off but would make it up to her... blah blah. GIRL 1 ignored me.

My questions:

1) Why would GIRL 1 ignore me?

2) Is there any way to get GIRL 1 to date me? Should I go cold for a few days since I confessed my feelings, and let her come around? Obviously pursuing her is just pushing her farther away and ive already said how I felt clearly now.

3) Why am I not happy with GIR 2? GIRL 2 is actually hotter, nicer, and smarter than GIRL 1. I have no logical reason to like GIRL 2 over GIRL 1. Maybe I like the challenge? Maybe subconsciously I feel undeserving of such a perfect girl? I have no clue.

This girl came over to my house 2 nights in a row (GIRL 1). Super super into me, we had amazing sex, she was great, she was talking about wanting to date. Staring deep into my eyes.

But then this other girl I had been seeing GIRL 2 (whos actually way hotter), called me with an ultimatum wanting to date me or she would stop talking to me. So I agreed to date her. Then GIRL 1 found out about me dating GIRL 2 bcuz she saw my facebook, so she got hurt and a little mad or I guess turned off.

Then over the next few days, I ended up telling GIRL 1 that I was sorry blah blah... I made plans to see GIRL 1... Then I flaked on girl 1 again bcuz GIRL 2 my girlfriend asked to hang out.

From there, GIRL 1 was totally pissed at me and I guess done with me. I finally "realized" I liked GIRL 1 way more than GIRL 2. But GIRL 1 was pretty much ignoring me or blowing me off, frequently not responding to my messages. GIRL 1 totally ignored my most recent message saying I would date her, right now over GIRL 2 and that I was sorry for how I blew her off but would make it up to her... blah blah. GIRL 1 ignored me.

My questions:

1) Why would GIRL 1 ignore me?

2) Is there any way to get GIRL 1 to date me? Should I go cold for a few days since I confessed my feelings, and let her come around? Obviously pursuing her is just pushing her farther away and ive already said how I felt clearly now.

3) Why am I not happy with GIR 2? GIRL 2 is actually hotter, nicer, and smarter than GIRL 1. I have no logical reason to like GIRL 2 over GIRL 1. Maybe I like the challenge? Maybe subconsciously I feel undeserving of such a perfect girl? I have no clue.

I'm 100% sure I want girl 1 though. How do I get her?

This girl came over to my house 2 nights in a row (GIRL 1). Super super into me, we had amazing sex, she was great, she was talking about wanting to date. Staring deep into my eyes.

But then this other girl I had been seeing GIRL 2 (whos actually way hotter), called me with an ultimatum wanting to date me or she would stop talking to me. So I agreed to date her. Then GIRL 1 found out about me dating GIRL 2 bcuz she saw my facebook, so she got hurt and a little mad or I guess turned off.

Then over the next few days, I ended up telling GIRL 1 that I was sorry blah blah... I made plans to see GIRL 1... Then I flaked on girl 1 again bcuz GIRL 2 my girlfriend asked to hang out.

From there, GIRL 1 was totally pissed at me and I guess done with me. I finally "realized" I liked GIRL 1 way more than GIRL 2. But GIRL 1 was pretty much ignoring me or blowing me off, frequently not responding to my messages. GIRL 1 totally ignored my most recent message saying I would date her, right now over GIRL 2 and that I was sorry for how I blew her off but would make it up to her... blah blah. GIRL 1 ignored me.

My questions:

1) Why would GIRL 1 ignore me?

2) Is there any way to get GIRL 1 to date me? Should I go cold for a few days since I confessed my feelings, and let her come around? Obviously pursuing her is just pushing her farther away and ive already said how I felt clearly now.

3) Why am I not happy with GIR 2? GIRL 2 is actually hotter, nicer, and smarter than GIRL 1. I have no logical reason to like GIRL 2 over GIRL 1. Maybe I like the challenge? Maybe subconsciously I feel undeserving of such a perfect girl? I have no clue.

I'm 100% sure I want girl 1 though. How do I get her?

I'm a player who's had sex with over 60 girls. I've found it's overwhelmingly easy to get girls to have sex with me.

However, despite my skills at getting women into bed and making women wanna date me... I get overly attached. I am good at hiding this attachment, but sometimes it will show and scare girls off.

Also, whenever a girl is too into me, it turns me off.

So its like, girls who are into me, I am turned off by so Im not happy. And girls who are more chill and hard to get, end up making ME act clingy or pursuing them too much, so it turns them off.

FOR EXAMPLE: This girl came over to my house 2 nights in a row (GIRL 1). Super super into me, we had amazing sex, she was great, she was talking about wanting to date. Staring deep into my eyes.

But then this other girl I had been seeing GIRL 2 (whos actually way hotter), called me with an ultimatum wanting to date me or she would stop talking to me. So I agreed to date her. Then GIRL 1 found out about me dating GIRL 2 bcuz she saw my facebook, so she got hurt and a little mad or I guess turned off.

Then over the next few days, I ended up telling GIRL 1 that I was sorry blah blah... I made plans to see GIRL 1... Then I flaked on girl 1 again bcuz GIRL 2 my girlfriend asked to hang out.

From there, GIRL 1 was totally pissed at me and I guess done with me. I finally "realized" I liked GIRL 1 way more than GIRL 2. But GIRL 1 was pretty much ignoring me or blowing me off, frequently not responding to my messages. GIRL 1 totally ignored my most recent message saying I would date her, right now over GIRL 2 and that I was sorry for how I blew her off but would make it up to her... blah blah. GIRL 1 ignored me.

My questions:

1) Why would GIRL 1 ignore me?

2) Is there any way to get GIRL 1 to date me? Should I go cold for a few days since I confessed my feelings, and let her come around? Obviously pursuing her is just pushing her farther away and ive already said how I felt clearly now.

3) Why am I not happy with GIR 2? GIRL 2 is actually hotter, nicer, and smarter than GIRL 1. I have no logical reason to like GIRL 2 over GIRL 1. Maybe I like the challenge? Maybe subconsciously I feel undeserving of such a perfect girl? I have no clue.

Imagine you are super clingy and in love over your boyfriend... (Or imagine a typical girl who gets super clingy fast)...

You've already had sex with him a bunch...

She REALLY likes the guy, hes GREAT in bed and makes her orgasm literally 5+ times during sex and knows how to make her feel great (and no she isnt faking it he knows it for a fact bcuz she gets really wet when it happens, face flushed, etc)... FOR THE PURPOSE OF THIS QUESTION, JUST ASSUME SHE REALLY IS GETTING THAT MANY ORGASMS, BCUZ SHE IS...

And she gets along great with him in terms of personality, and he has a very attractive face and fit body.

BUT she is 5'10 and thought he was 5'9, and one day after sex or whatever he just casually gets up and walks around and she notices he's 5'6 instead of 5'9 like she thought (his shoes had simply made him appear much taller).

How would you feel/how would the girl feel?

1) Would it matter to her at all, if she already super liked the guy and was clingy and pressed on him and said she "really really liked him", etc?

2) IF it matters, Would it be break up worthy, or would she just be disappointed?

3) Would she feel lied to, or just disappointed?

4) Would she stay with him or treat him differently?

NOTE: I am the guy.

Imagine you are super clingy and head over heels for your boyfriend of a couple weeks (you're the clingy type of girl, hypothetically... it's new but shes acting like shes almost in love/super infatuated definitely)...

She REALLY likes the guy, hes GREAT in bed and makes her orgasm literally 5+ times during sex and knows how to make her feel great (and no she isnt faking it he knows it for a fact bcuz she gets really wet when it happens, face flushed, etc)...

And she gets along great with him in terms of personality and chemistry, and he has a very attractive face and fit body.

BUT she is 5'10 and thought he was 5'9, and one day after sex or whatever he just casually gets up and walks around and she notices he's 5'6 instead of 5'9 like she thought (his shoes had simply made him appear much taller).

How would you feel/how would the girl feel?

1) Would it matter to her at all, if she already super liked the guy and was clingy and pressed on him and said she "really really liked him", etc?

2) IF it matters, Would it be break up worthy, or would she just be disappointed?

3) Would she feel lied to, or just disappointed?

4) Would she stay with him or treat him differently?

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ALSO:

You would NOT feel cheated, because he NEVER told you that he was 5'9, you just assumed that

Imagine you are super clingy and in love over your boyfriend... (Or imagine a typical girl who gets super clingy fast)...

She REALLY likes the guy, hes GREAT in bed and makes her orgasm literally 5+ times during sex and knows how to make her feel great (and no she isnt faking it he knows it for a fact bcuz she gets really wet when it happens, face flushed, etc)...

And she gets along great with him in terms of personality, and he has a very attractive face and fit body.

BUT she is 5'10 and thought he was 5'9, and one day after sex or whatever he just casually gets up and walks around and she notices he's 5'6 instead of 5'9 like she thought (his shoes had simply made him appear much taller).

How would you feel/how would the girl feel?

1) Would it matter to her at all, if she already super liked the guy and was clingy and pressed on him and said she "really really liked him", etc?

2) IF it matters, Would it be break up worthy, or would she just be disappointed?

3) Would she feel lied to, or just disappointed?

4) Would she stay with him or treat him differently?

Only hung with her yesterday, and a few days ago on saturday (so 2 times). We talked for a couple weeks before that.

Yesterday she was acting pretty clingy and also she cried for almost an hour because I accidentally called her another girls name (I was playing candy crush so I wasnt even paying attention, dumb mistake I know, but the girls name I said I literally dont even like or think about and havent seen in forever). She finally got over it and said she wasnt gonna tell anybody about it. Lol.

Also here's a part of our convo from a couple nights ago:

Our convo:

HER- "miss you already boobala"

HER- " Sleeping through the night? I saw that you read my text"

HER- "I want to see you tomorrow"

ME- "don't you have school" (she's in college about 30m away)

HER- "like night"

ME- "I have plans though"

HER- "I just want to see you"

HER- "I'm freaking out a little"

ME- "ok you can come over"

HER- "But you said you have plans"

ME- "I can cancel them. But if you don't want to its cool"

HER- "No I really really want to. I just don't want you to resent me"

ME- "Definitely not. You're my girl. You're welcome anytime."

HER- Really?

ME- "Yea"

HER- "I'm just feeling anxious and I really want to be with you. You make me feel better"

ME- "I'll calm your beating heart"

HER- "I might try to take a pill to get thru tonight"

ME- "relax babe. I miss you a lot too"

HER- "I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me. I was out w friends *girls name and girls name* and having a good time, and suddenly had to leave"

ME- "why"

HER- "idk I felt anxious and about to cry"

ME- "holy sh*t"

HER- "It was so weird"

ME- "Yeah.."

HER- "idk. I'm just happy I get to see you tmrw"

HER- "I wish teleportaion was a thing"

HER- "I want you right now"

ME- "me too. Wish you were here"

HER- ";("

ME- "I'd put my arms around you tight, kiss you, and keep you warm"

HER- "lots of kissing"

ME- "always"

HER- "ugh now I'm really going to cry lol"

HER - "you're so perfect"

ME- "you're so perfect to me too"

HER- "I can't wait to lay down with you"

HER- "Just listen to you breathe"

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1) Is she a stage 5 clinger?

2) Am I encouraging this in anyway?

3) She's SUPER HOT and we do click really really well, I like her too, so breaking up with her is not gonna happen (don't recommend it). But any way I can get her to, well, not be so clingy and insecure all the time?

4) Is this kind of thing gonna get worse?

Only hung with her yesterday, and a few days ago on saturday (so 2 times). We talked for a couple weeks before that.

Yesterday she was acting pretty clingy and also she cried for almost an hour because I accidentally called her another girls name (I was playing candy crush so I wasnt even paying attention, dumb mistake I know, but the girls name I said I literally dont even like or think about and havent seen in forever). She finally got over it and said she wasnt gonna tell anybody about it. Lol.

Also here's a part of our convo from a couple nights ago:

Our convo:

HER- "miss you already boobala"

HER- " Sleeping through the night? I saw that you read my text"

HER- "I want to see you tomorrow"

ME- "don't you have school" (she's in college about 30m away)

HER- "like night"

ME- "I have plans though"

HER- "I just want to see you"

HER- "I'm freaking out a little"

ME- "ok you can come over"

HER- "But you said you have plans"

ME- "I can cancel them. But if you don't want to its cool"

HER- "No I really really want to. I just don't want you to resent me"

ME- "Definitely not. You're my girl. You're welcome anytime."

HER- Really?

ME- "Yea"

HER- "I'm just feeling anxious and I really want to be with you. You make me feel better"

ME- "I'll calm your beating heart"

HER- "I might try to take a pill to get thru tonight"

ME- "relax babe. I miss you a lot too"

HER- "I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me. I was out w friends *girls name and girls name* and having a good time, and suddenly had to leave"

ME- "why"

HER- "idk I felt anxious and about to cry"

ME- "holy sh*t"

HER- "It was so weird"

ME- "Yeah.."

HER- "idk. I'm just happy I get to see you tmrw"

HER- "I wish teleportaion was a thing"

HER- "I want you right now"

ME- "me too. Wish you were here"

HER- ";("

ME- "I'd put my arms around you tight, kiss you, and keep you warm"

HER- "lots of kissing"

ME- "always"

HER- "ugh now I'm really going to cry lol"

HER - "you're so perfect"

ME- "you're so perfect to me too"

HER- "I can't wait to lay down with you"

HER- "Just listen to you breathe"

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1) Is she a stage 5 clinger?

2) Am I encouraging this in anyway?

3) She's SUPER HOT and we do click really really well, I like her too, so breaking up with her is not gonna happen (don't recommend it). But any way I can get her to, well, not be so clingy and insecure all the time?

4) Is this kind of thing gonna get worse?

My new girlfriend is in a sorority and I met all her friends on Saturday and we all got along really great.

and she has a female friend (well call her girl 2) who made a Facebook comment on my girlfriends wall saying "me and *MY NAME* will be really great friends. Unless he tries to take you from me on Super Bowl Sunday. This. is. war"

She was clearly joking and my girlfriend said she liked me.

What's a good response?

My only 2 thoughts were either a joking "she's all yours" or a joking "well see about that".

What would you say? What's a good response to make this girl wanna be friends with me? I def want her friends to like me (they pretty much already do but I only met em once).

Thanks!

Only hung with her once on saturday, hanging again today and on saturday/sunday, talked for 3 weeks before that until she came back into town, we met on Tinder (she messaged me first on there), and just started dating 2 days ago. She's SO SO SO HOT so I'm not really too bothered by it, I mean hey, she's hot and into me so really what's the problem right?

Our convo:

HER- "miss you already boobala"

HER- " Sleeping through the night? I saw that you read my text"

HER- "I want to see you tomorrow"

ME- "don't you have school" (she's in college about 30m away)

HER- "like night"

ME- "I have plans though"

HER- "I just want to see you"

HER- "I'm freaking out a little"

ME- "ok you can come over"

HER- "But you said you have plans"

ME- "I can cancel them. But if you don't want to its cool"

HER- "No I really really want to. I just don't want you to resent me"

ME- "Definitely not. You're my girl. You're welcome anytime."

HER- Really?

ME- "Yea"

HER- "I'm just feeling anxious and I really want to be with you. You make me feel better"

ME- "I'll calm your beating heart"

HER- "I might try to take a pill to get thru tonight"

ME- "relax babe. I miss you a lot too"

HER- "I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me. I was out w friends *girls name and girls name* and having a good time, and suddenly had to leave"

ME- "why"

HER- "idk I felt anxious and about to cry"

ME- "holy sh*t"

HER- "It was so weird"

ME- "Yeah.."

HER- "idk. I'm just happy I get to see you tmrw"

HER- "I wish teleportaion was a thing"

HER- "I want you right now"

ME- "me too. Wish you were here"

HER- ";("

ME- "I'd put my arms around you tight, kiss you, and keep you warm"

HER- "lots of kissing"

ME- "always"

HER- "ugh now I'm really going to cry lol"

HER - "you're so perfect"

ME- "you're so perfect to me too"

HER- "I can't wait to lay down with you"

HER- "Just listen to you breathe"

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1) Is she a stage 5 clinger?

2) Am I encouraging this in anyway?

3) She's SUPER HOT and we do click really really well, I like her too, so breaking up with her is not gonna happen (don't recommend it). But any way I can get her to, well, not be so clingy and insecure all the time?

4) Is this kind of thing gonna get worse?

Only hung with her once, talked for 3 weeks, just started dating.

Our convo:

HER- "miss you already boobala"

HER- " Sleeping through the night? I saw that you read my text"

HER- "I want to see you tomorrow"

ME- "don't you have school" (she's in college about 30m away)

HER- "like night"

ME- "I have plans though"

HER- "I just want to see you"

HER- "I'm freaking out a little"

ME- "ok you can come over"

HER- "I might try to take a pill to get thru tonight"

ME- "relax babe. I miss you a lot too"

HER- "I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me. I was out w friends and suddenly had to leave"

ME- "why"

HER- "idk I felt anxious and about to cry"

ME- "holy sh*t"

HER- "idk. I'm just happy I get to see you tmrw"

ME- "me too. Wish you were here in my arms"

HER- "lots of kissing"

ME- "always"

HER- "ugh now I'm really going to cry lol"

her- "you're so perfect"

HER- "I just wanna lay down with you and listen to you breathe"

1) I'm only 5'7. I am also balding (shaved head), and have no car (totaled it).

2) BUT, I am dating a girl who is 5'10, beautiful, blonde, big boobs, attractive face, long legs, nice butt, athletic toned body, graceful arms and shoulders, good hips, healthy skin and hair.

She gives me awesome s*ex, head, butts*ex, literally everything, all the time, she wants it as much or more than I do, and she is super super pressed on me, to the actual point of clinginess. She's coming over tomorrow randomly cuz she misses me so much.

Girls do not "want a tall guy"- They WANT to FEEL PROTECTED. (They also wanna feel tons of other things, like loved, respected, and they also want to feel their MAN is attractive, desirable, an alpha male, preselected by other women, worthy, is a leader, is a protector of loved ones, is a good family man, is adventurous, is a brave risk taker, etc).

Yes girls USUALLY go for taller guys. Because most guys dont know sh*t about how to make a woman feel- feel both attracted to him as a man, deeply, and also to make her feel safe, secure, loved, happy, and in love. When you can make her feel all that... the inches matter less and less... until they arent even important at all.

I will do and say things that make me feel protected. If she is saying how she misses me and wants to cuddle with me or something, I'll say something like "I'll calm your beating heart" or "I'd put my arms around you tight, kiss you, and keep you warm" and it sounds cheesy but a girl will instantly feel loved, secure, protected, and safe.

And on the flip side... If a girl ever tries to make me jealous and says "I might go watch a movie at my friend matts house" or something? I will just be like "sounds good, have fun" and I am totally free-as-a-bird type, I am happy and am living my life and she can live hers. I want her to be happy- I'm not jealous or clingy at all. This attitude makes girls not even WANT to see other guys, they second guess themselves and come running back to me, especially if it was just a joke to test me it always backfires. And I am confident, dominant, a little sassy, I'm certainly not a doormat so girls can see that I'm alpha and bcuz of that, they feel safe and secure with me knowing I'm competent.

Anyway ladies, is this more or less accurate- that if a guy does what I do and displays alpha male traits along with making a woman feel really good about herself (WITHOUT him appearing to look clingy or like hes trying to win her over, when he says it) that the girl will overlook things like height?

My friends all doubt it and they think they have trouble, but honestly as a shorter 5'7 guy myself I've had sex with over 70 girls. My face being attractive might help too