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Soooo this morning I was playing with his phone and I was Tryna record a video what our pet ferret was doing but his phone was acting up so I closed it and the screen froze

So I started pressing random buttons and stuff and then his messages screen popped up and it's the first thing that popped up were messages from his ex and they were going back and forth about being together and they love each other and that he wanted her forreal and that no other guy should matter blah blah blah keep in mind that she's 2 years younger and is away for school (we are 21, and been on and off for 2 years)

I didnt say anything to him about it cuz he was getting ready for work and I didn't wanna upset him..

See this isn't the first time shes popped up and each time shes popped up she wanted him back..so he should've known that. He hasn't told her that we were together..he's let her refer to me as "some girl" he lives with and didnt introduce me as his gf to her when we met up at his music event. I wouldn't have a problem if he had done so, but since he Hasn't is where my problem comes in and seeing these messages makes it worse....

I wanna confront him about it since it was a honest mistake but I dont him to blow it out of proportion....How should I handle this???

tips

advice

suggestions please?

But I'm just should I just let it go since I shouldn't have been there in the first place

I love you

both as a friend and as a girlfriend/wife and that will never change

That makes no sense to me, I mean if u really loved me that much, u wouldn't have left in the first place.

My cousin broke up with her bf recently and she's torn up Bcuz she still wants him but she feels like she pushed him away

Here's how there Convo went

Her:Is it over for like ever

Him: no just til i get my mind right cuz im goin thru alot n dnt wanna drag into it

Her:Ohhh ok

Well thats understandable hun

Take ur time hun and I wish the best for you.

Him: thanks hun

This Convo is a month old

She feels like she ruined things or made em worse. She wants to ask again but doesn't want to come off as pushy. They've been talking regularly like they always did and he texts her good morning often, it's almost like nothing has changed for them. He recently told her that he will always her love both as a friend and more than that, and she still loves him too she still wants him. I told her to

Wait and see but she's gettin paranoid....

My cousin broke up with her bf recently and she's torn up Bcuz she still wants him but she feels like she pushed him away

Here's how there Convo went

Her:Is it over for like ever

Him: no just til i get my mind right cuz im goin thru alot n dnt wanna drag into it

Her:Ohhh ok

Well thats understandable hun

Take ur time hun and I wish the best for you.

Him: thanks hun

This Convo is a month old

She feels like she ruined things or made em worse. She wants to ask again but doesn't want to come off as pushy. They've been talking regularly like they always did and he texts her good morning often, it's almost like nothing has changed for them. He recently told her that he will always her love both as a friend and more than that, and she still loves him too she still wants him. I told her to

Wait and see but she's gettin paranoid....

Me and my bf broke up 3 weeks ago

But we still talk here and there. He broke up with me cuz he couldn't handle a relationship Atm. But he still loves & has feelings for me

A couple days after the split I asked him if we're done for good and he said no just until he gets his mind right cuz he's going through alot rite now and doesn't wanna drag me through it.

So I told him that I understood, for him to take his time and only wish the best for him, and I'll be there when and if he needed me.

We still talk on occasion and he started texting me good morning like he used to..I try not to read into it too much

I do love&care for him, and I want him back and I'm being patient

Patience is virtue they say. Sigh

I just don't want him to decide that we should just stay friends cuz ik I wouldn't be able to handle it and it would crush him if I were to cut him off completely

I just dk Wat to do...

Advice tips suggestions

Thanks.

Me and my bf broke up 3 weeks ago

But we still talk here and there. He broke up with me cuz he couldn't handle a relationship Atm. But he still loves & has feelings for me

A couple days after the split I asked him if we're done for good and he said no just until he gets his mind right cuz he's going through alot rite now and doesn't wanna drag me through it.

So I told him that I understood, for him to take his time and only wish the best for him, and I'll be there when and if he needed me.

We still talk on occasion and he started texting me good morning like he used to..I try not to read into it too much

I do love&care for him, and I want him back and I'm being patient

Patience is virtue they say. Sigh

I just don't want him to decide that we should just stay friends cuz ik I wouldn't be able to handle it and it would crush him if I were to cut him off completely

I just dk Wat to do...

Advice tips suggestions

Thanks.

We broke up yesterday he said he couldn't handle it anymore

Cuz he's been swamped with school and music and family

And things aren't goin right for him right now.

We talked over the phone cuz he knew I wouldn't be able to handle in person

I couldn't say anything after he broke the new

He said he's sorry and he feels like a d I c k

Idk he asked me if it was ok all I could say was yea

A part of me wished I tried to fight for it but idk. He said we could talk if I wanted which I do but I wana wanted to Which I do but not yet too soon

It's been a really rough day for me

I miss him and I want him back already

I don't wanna talk too soon and pcome off as clingy

But I don't wanna take too long and have him forgetme selfish ik but idk Wat to think

Any advice

We broke up yesterday he said he couldn't handle it anymore

Cuz he's been swamped with school and music and family

And things aren't goin right for him right now.

We talked over the phone cuz he knew I wouldn't be able to handle in person

I couldn't say anything after he broke the new

He said he's sorry and he feels like a d I c k

Idk he asked me if it was ok all I could say was yea

A part of me wished I tried to fight for it but idk. He said we could talk if I wanted which I do but I wana wanted to Which I do but not yet too soon

It's been a really rough day for me

I miss him and I want him back already

I don't wanna talk too soon and pcome off as clingy

But I don't wanna take too long and have him forgetme selfish ik but idk Wat to think

Any advice

My bf broke up with me

And I'm sad :(

It'll make me feel better

This is how sad my life is I have no where else to turn

So me and my bf met a year ago on NYE through mutual friends

We've been going out for 9 months, and things were/are going well

The thing is he's a aspiring music artists and his hard work is paying off with the group He is in getting signed to a label in February and touring this summer.

So one day he sat me down and told me that when everything does go right were gonna have to chill on the relationship cuz he's gonna be real busy and not have time for me, and I'm worth keeping around without the relationship. He also said that he won't be able to do certain things if he has a gf soo that confused the hell outta me honestly.

He says he really loves me and that he cares for me and he wants me with him on his journey every step of the way but idk

He wants the. Break which I'm willing to do but I think it may end I'm tryna stay positive but I just have this gut feeling that I can't shake. Probably y I think that we should end it b4 things go bad but if i mention a breakup hell say no and say just a break

we are very close he's the first and only guy I've been with, and he and we talk to each other about anything and everything

I don't wanna lose him but I don't wanna be placed on the backbuner neither.

O were both 19 going on 20.

Excuse any typos I wrote on my phone

Happy New Year!! Take care :)

Thanks in advance

So me and my bf met a year ago on NYE through mutual friends

We've been going out for 9 months, and things were/are going well

The thing is he's a aspiring music artists and his hard work is paying off with the group He is in getting signed to a label in February and touring this summer.

So one day he sat me down and told me that when everything does go right were gonna have to chill on the relationship cuz he's gonna be real busy and not have time for me, and I'm worth keeping around without the relationship. He also said that he won't be able to do certain things if he has a gf soo that confused the hell outta me honestly.

He says he really loves me and that he cares for me and he wants me with him on his journey every step of the way but idk

He wants the. Break which I'm willing to do but I think it may end I'm tryna stay positive but I just have this gut feeling that I can't shake. Probably y I think that we should end it b4 things go bad but if i mention a breakup hell say no and say just a break

we are very close he's the first and only guy I've been with, and he and we talk to each other about anything and everything

I don't wanna lose him but I don't wanna be placed on the backbuner neither.

O were both 19 going on 20.

Excuse any typos I wrote on my phone

Happy New Year!! Take care :)

Thanks in advance

My friend is confused on her major it's her second semester in her CC

Shes debating between goin into fashion marketing or going Into criminal justice and/or forensics.

She's thinking about getting her associates in fashion merchandising work In the field and then gO back to school to work on a criminal justice degree. Or get her CJ degree first and then get like a fashion degree or certificate.

Any suggestions? Do these sound like good ideas?

I have a younger cousin who dream was to get into FIDM, she wants to move to L.A sooo badly, she has a job and everything and saving too. but we don't come from a well off family so she has tried on numerous occasions to get loans but she cant on her own cuz she needs a cosigner, and there is no one to do it for her.

So I began to look at other possibilities for her and saw that CSULA and CSUN has fashion programs that she can get her BA in for possibly way less than wat FIDM is for just an AA

She wants to be a Fashion Marketer or a Fashion Buyer. I told her about it but she still hung on FIDM because of their "prestigious" name/degree etc.

I mean she could always double major in Art/Fashion & Business in either CSUN or CSULA if it allowed, but she is insisted on to FIDM and im trying to convince her that if she wants to seriously live out here there are other schools she can go to besides that, and work her way up in the industry

CSULA is ART with Fashion & Textiles option

CSUN is something else.. i 4got

Anyways, my main question is are any of theses programs good

which school would you recommendd?

How does it work?

do u get paid? or does it go towards tuition?

They are all going 2 be female, so I wondering if they were gonna fight, or are they gonna get along & play together.

Every time I cry or laugh to point where i Start crying or its cold, and my eyes start to water, after wards my eyes start to burn like crazy for about 10-15 mins. and I try to blink but they hurt worse, i ether hae to close my eyes for a while or put Ice on them for it to stop burning.

am i allergic? or is it something else?

ok so im goin to school here (fidm), and i was thinkin of gettin a place of my own instead of student housing, im just looking for a 1 bedroom one bath nothin more

Ive seen all the commercials, and now i want one. I have shoulder length medium thick hair, it takes forever with a regular flat iron. so the instlyer looked pretty good. what is ur opinon on the instlyer?

Its sold at target now so that's where im buying it.