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After 12 plus years of marriage, I still don't know how to make my husband sexually happy. I've read about half a dozen Christian sex/relationship books. Totally useless. I need to know sexual techniques. My husband won't tell me what he wants. I hate not being able to make him happy, but I'm just wildly guessing with sex with no guidance.

My husband does not appear to experience an physical excitement when he sees me in the nude. Is this normal?

When my husband sees me nude it does not cause him to become noticeably excited. I am wondering if this is normal for a couple in their thirties.

I keep trying to ask a question but it never shows up

Or bad for them? How about cooked eggs?

My son was playing with a magnet yesterday and showed me that some of his plastic toys attracted the magnet. There is no metal on the toys. Does this mean there is lead in the toy?

Been having them for about two weeks but they are much worse today. Feel dizzy and sleepy with each episode. In fact, I feel really sleepy and weak right now, even though I've not had a palpitaion in the last twenty minutes. Also a pounding sensation in my right ear. I can not go to er, as I am home and will not drive under these circumstances

My questions are never controversial in any way, no bad language or anything.

39-31-38. I'm in good shape, but I'm just a big girl. 5'8" and 155lb.

But when I do, he is turned off. This understandable, because I am not hot. But it is very frustrating to me, because I want more sex (lots more) and he acts like it is MY fault he doesn't want to have sex because I don't "act sexual enough". The fact of the matter is that he just doesn't find me sexy. Period. Why won't he just admit that, instead of blaming me for the fact that I never get any. What he really wants is a porn star in his bed, which is understandable, as well. But he married me, so that's what he gets in bed. Now I have to suffer because I'm not good enough for him. I've told him I'd be totally willing to have any plastic surgery or whatever to make him happy, but he doesn't want the expense. I'm in pretty good shape, but I was not naturally gifted with a sexy figure. He always looks at women who look a LOT different from me, he never does a double take on someone who looks similar to me. He acted totally happy before we got married, sexually and everything. Then, as soon as we were married-within a week-he quit being happy with me.

Most men seem to look for the perfect body in a woman, but do women feel the same about men?

I can't stand the thought of being with a younger guy and assumed that was how all women felt, but it seems like a lot of women are going after younger guys.

How long have you been married? How do you match to your spouse in looks?

Or is it just being realistic?

If so, where do they teach that fossils came from?

The schools in our area are fairly good academically, but have some problems in other areas. We are considering keeping our kids home and homeschooling.

But the few hs kids we have met are, to put it bluntly, dorks. They are backward, socially, for sure. Also, they all are kids who were pulled out of school because of "problems".

Crunchs and situps kill my lower back. Just had a baby 3 months ago and need to lose a whole lot of tummy.

I eat protein, but still shaky and weak almost all day. Feel really queasy, too. How can I cut calories without feeling awful?

All my neighbors are burning their yards, because they have convinced each other that they can kill the sandburs that way.