Jared

I took an interest of a guy at work. I work at a food store. You know, bagger and carriage pusher outside. So everyone alternates between those. No one at work knows I'm gay, and I don't know what he is either.

I started staring at this guy, keep in mind I'm 18...I know nothing about him! I think he's in his early 20's, and I think I know his first name. I always sneak a peek at him when I can, whether it's turning my head or whatever.

I think the next day we both worked, I found him looking back a lot, even staring back (If I'm reading it correctly and not getting my mind get the best of me). But we have no time to talk, since we're not allowed to just stop and chat or whatever.

One time we worked last week, we stared at each other a lot, and even smiled a few times (I know, it's high school crushes all over again. Come on, I'm in college now! lol) at each other. Though I'm not sure if it was just being kind or if it meant something.

Anyway, I was assigned to bag at the line he was at. So I made a boldish move, and put my hand on his shoulder and told him to go with a smile. He said something back and smiled as well. I'm not sure if I made his passage tighter (between me and the carriage that he was putting bags into), but he put his hand on my shoulder, and then sort of rubbed up on me as he went through. I'm more tempted to believe it was an accident.

I was going to give him my number the next day, because it's driving me insane. But he disappeared at the last minute so I'm doing it next time.

Anyway...what do you guys think? I'm starting to think negatively about the whole thing. What if I give him my number and never calls or texts me, just like this other kid I gave my number to (That same day, since I didn't give the slip with my number to the original guy)

I feel like there's something wrong with me...all guys just DON'T like me! It's kind of funny! No one likes me EVER and it's driving me crazy and making me upset...so I'm becoming doubtful or everything and I'm probably just getting my hopes up of this entire situation.

Back on topic...what are you guys's opinions? :/

If you look at my profile, I put a picture up! But the tiny icon is broken, and it's been broken for like a year. I changed my picture a lot too, just to try to fix it--but no dice.

Can anyone help me with this weird problem?

Okay, I took an interest of a guy at work. I work at a food store. You know, bagger and carriage pusher outside. So everyone alternates between those.

I started staring at this guy, keep in mind I'm 18...I know nothing about him! I think he's in his early 20's, and I think I know his first name. I always sneak a peek at him when I can, whether it's turning my head or whatever.

I think the next day we both worked, I found him looking back a lot, even staring back (If I'm reading it correctly and not getting my mind get the best of me). But we have no time to talk, since we're not allowed to just stop and chat or whatever.

One time we worked last week, we stared at each other a lot, and even smiled a few times (I know, it's high school crushes all over again. Come on, I'm in college now! :P) at each other. Though I'm not sure if it was just being kind or if it meant something.

Anyway, I was assigned to bag at the line he was at. So I made a boldish move, and push my hand on his shoulder and told him to go with a smile. He said something back and smiled as well. I'm not sure if I made his passage tighter (between me and the carriage that he was putting bags into), but he put his hand on my shoulder, and then sort of rubbed up on me. As h went through. I'm more tempted to believe it was an accident.

I was going to give him my number the next day, because it's driving me insane. But he disappeared at the last minute so I'm doing it next time.

Anyway...what do you guys think? I'm starting to think negatively about the whole thing. What if I give him my number and never calls or texts me, just like this other kid I gave my number to (That same day, since I didn't give the slip with my number to the original guy)

I feel like there's something wrong with me...all guys just DON'T like me! It's kind of funny! No one likes me EVER and it's driving me crazy and making me upset...so I'm becoming doubtful or everything and I'm probably just getting my hopes up of this entire situation.

Back on topic...what are you guys's opinions? :/

I'm going to (community) college in two weeks from today. I'm really excited. I (think) I'm gay, and I really want to find a guy that cares for me. I really love older guys (Like 20's), and stubble or a beard. I dunno, I'm just attracted to that stuff.

I'm trying to get over my first love, I feel like I'm almost there. And thus, I want to experience more. Will college be good for that? Should I join some sort of possible gay or LGBT club?

Please, I need some insight. Thank you!

So, I kind of have this gay accent thing. No, I'm not talking about my lisp (It's gone down quite a bit. Naturally, too!). I'm talking about the "gay voice" thing you stereotypically hear gays or even straights talk with.

I'm not saying my voice is high pitched either, nor is it very deep. Average, I guess.

But anyways, back to the main point. Will I eventually lose the gay voice/accent thing, or am I stuck with it? It's getting on my nerves, and makes me self conscious. I want to talk normally.

Should I try things to make it go away, if possible? Like stop saying "oh my god"? Stop up-pitching the end of a sentence? I really have no idea. Or will I simply lose it as time goes on? I'm only 18, after all.

Help?

Just need to know for possible future reference.

what age do typical LGBT's get married? Does it matter that they're not straight? Or is the probability the same as a straight person's?

As you can see, my profile picture isn't working. I put up a picture, but it didn't load even though it told me it did.

I also tried to use my Y! Avatar, but I forget how to do that specifically.

Could I get some help here, please?

Later in life I want to get a cat. When I get an apartment/home for myself.

What amount of money should be put away indefinitely, for the cat's 12- (I think) 20 year lifespan? Including food, toys, scratching posts, and most importantly vet visits and possible vet emergency care.

I was thinking $10,000 altogether, in it's own separate bank account.

What do you guys think?

I am 17, 18 in less than a month. But that's not too relevant, because I want to move in a few years anyway.

My life is okay, the average friends, parents, good home life etc. But I feel like I need a change. I want to meet new people, see new places. I want to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. But I know it's not that easy.

Even at this point, I've never had a job. I can't drive either. Those are the two most important parts.

Right now, I live in Massachusetts. I want to move hours away, like maybe New Jersey or Vermont. Maybe even Maine. I like Maine. But ,that's so much to think about. I have no family anywhere but Massachusetts either.

I'd have to find an apartment to live in as well, and find a job. How much would I have to save up for gas, and for the apartment?

What else am I missing, cost wise?

I'll be so far away from my family and friends as well, I'd have to make new ones. Which will be harder, since I'd be out of high school, and possibly in college. Where would I work? Maybe McDonalds? But that's not enough for food, a car, gas, and my new home. How much would i have to save up?

This is confusing, but I think I really wanna do it someday.

Thanks to whoever can help me with this. :)

I feel like I'm spiraling. I have no work ethic anymore for school. I look at the homework I get and push it aside. My GPA's terribly low, pushing me to community college next year (I'm a senior, 17).

For the past few months, I've wanted to be a teacher, an English one. I still want to, but at this rate I won't be. I feel like I'm going to be nothing.

My parents can be a handful sometimes. And they barely even care about my education, besides the "You better be doing good!". Earlier I just felt like running away and not coming back (Though I know it's stupid).

I feel like my life is going nowhere. I have cut in the past, and almost started again about two months ago. I feel like I don't want to do anything anymore either.

What do I do?! Suicidal thoughts are coming back...

Help. Please.

I don't recall when it started. Although, I have a story to tell. Maybe it's related to the problem.

I liked this girl, and we were on and off, I guess. But never actually together. Just kissing and flirting pretty much. Over the course of it, my feelings started acting weird, and I got confused on whether I still liked her or not, and that hurt her. I almost asked her out, and took her to Homecoming. I think I did it on impulse, and I didn't really realize why I wanted to. But then, I realized I didn't like her anymore and told her. Now we're apart.

But when we were parting, I felt literally nothing. She was crying at times, almost even on the phone. and I still felt nothing. I still do.

I noticed I can't feel romance or lust for anyone either, just like the girl before as example. She got kind of mad that I didn't feel very sexually attracted her her other than hugging and kissing.

I can easily feel happy at times, but I can't feel bad, or cry anymore. I don't know what to do. I feel so out of touch. Things that usually destroy me, or even make me emotional, I feel close to nothing anymore. I mostly like boys, and I can't even get a crush or feel sexually attracted to anybody anymore.

I am 17, and a senior in high school.

What is wrong with me? Can anyone help?

My GPA right now is a 1.6. I am a Junior in High School.

My year grades right now are 76, 77 (Which is an Honors class), 78, 79, 90, and a 64 (Which will go up to a least a 70, I'm guessing).

My GPA should go up, but I'm still scared. What else can I do to assure myself? Have I destroyed my High School career, and have I ruined my entire future by not being able to get into college? :'(

I'm Vice President for next year, my Senior year if that means anything...

Help!!

I recently got in as Vice President for my senior year next year. But I don't understand, why does it look so good compared to other things on my college resume? What makes it so different and/or special?

Thanks!

So, I like my friend. I met him on Facebook in August, and we live about a half hour away from each other. It wouldn't be a problem hanging out, but we haven't yet. I grew a crush on him, and he seemed to reciprocate at times. About a month and a half ago, I decided I should tell him. I told my school friends about him too, and they tried helping. yesterday, I finally did it. But, he didn't give me a straight answer back.

Last month, one of my best friend's boyfriends told her that his brother was asked out by the guy I like. Meaning, he is bi. But, to me he said he was straight a few weeks after we met. But that may have been from not knowing me well. I still don't know. By the way, we're in the same grade (11), but he's this big, buff, hockey player. I'm this 117-pound ugly loser v.v

Though one time, he said I was cute. I asked him what he meant by it, and he said he meant nothing. (Random, but worth mentioning)

Here's the conversation from last night:

Me: I...uh...like you.

:3

-Runs off-

Him: You do?

0_o

Me: Uhh...yeah. :(

Him: Why the sad face?

Me: Because you don't like me back. >.<

Him: 0_o

Me: What?

Him: Idk

Me: Okay then...

Him: >__<

At this point, it seemed like he was trying to get something out, but he didn't. Especially with the ">__<".

"Why the sad face?" gets me confused as well, because it makes him seem like he does like me.

And to continue...

Me: I'm really sorry.

Him: For?

Me: Putting you through this crap. It's pointless.

Him: o_o

Me: What??

Him: Idk xDD

Me: I'm confused :l

Him: Ditto

o_o

Me: Why are you confused? I told you my side.

Him: I know

xD

Me: C'mon, Nick (Him).

Just say no and we can move on.

Him: No to what?

Me: To liking me back.

Him: 0_o

Me: What are you trying to say?!

You're confusing me D:

So...yes or no?

To liking me back.

Him: (Video of him drumming)

Me in 2010 :33

Check out the drumming :DD

Me: That's you playing?

Him: Yup in 2010

:33

Me: Damn! You're good. ^_^

And a lot of views o-o

I can imagine you're only better now.

Him: Not as many as I wanted

:\\

I'm way better

xD

Me: Good! XD

But Nick.

Him: I gave that account to my cousin

Not sure if he added more videos

xD

Me: You seem to be avoiding the question.

Him: How so?

I just came up upon this video

For the first time in years xD

Me: No, not that. The question I asked you.

Why won't you answer it?

Him: idk

xD

Me: Nick! Just answer!!

-

And then he poofed.

It keeps me confused on how he tried changing the subject, and just kept saying "Idk xD" to why he wouldn't answer.

What do you guys think? This is keeping me so stressed! And he won't answer my texts!

I've had the same hairstyle all my middle school, and so far high school years. Cut with short bangs, and let it grow past my forehead, brushed to the side. It's always like this now. It's a little past my eyebrows now.

I'm afraid of getting a new hairstyle, as I'm afraid I'll look stupid and a constant fear of getting made fun of, for no reason. (No confidence)

But, I'm getting bored of it, and maybe a new hairstyle will give me confidence. I have dark dirty blonde/brown hair, with medium thickness, maybe in the middle of thick-medium. Very straight, but gets wavy when long.

I don't want a hairstyle like a fohawk or anything. They look amazing, but I would look so stupid. The little "flip" in the front also looks good, but the same problem applies.

What do you guys think I should do? Also, what are some hairstyles you could recommend me? Thanks so much. :3

Well, I've never been in a relationship. I like both genders, as of now. I've only went after like 3 girls in Middle School, and 3 boys in High School (I'm a Junior now). I've gotten rejected by all.

Every time I like someone, I expect to get rejected, and then become sad over it. Even before they say no. Or yes, which probably won't happen.

Why is this happening to me? Is it some inside fear? And more importantly, how do I get over it? :(

Help!

can doing 100 sit ups and 20 push ups a day give me a six pac?

Today, I was in my Public Speaking class (It's an after school class), and we had to read something in from of the others. There was me, three girls, and my teacher. All my friends. It's usually this small. When it was my turn I was extremely hot, sweaty and nervous. I had to stand up in front of them also.

When I get called on normally in class, I'm usually only a little nervous.

When I started talking, I found myself feeling hotter and hotter, getting really nervous.

Also, you know that feeling you get when you're about to cry? Like, you're going to "explode"? Like, getting all shaky and such?

That happened to me numerous times during reciting the piece. I controlled myself, but I don't know why I was so nervous like this. I still feel worried about it. I even had to wave myself , and take off my sweater during it.

Does anyone else have clue? Thanks a lot.

It's kind of hard to explain. Like, I feel that the world is already set up like this. Me sitting here, tying, and you people answering. I feel the people that love me, are already supposed to love me.

If I make a choice, it was destined already to happen. I feel everything in my life is like this.

Like....no one and nothing is real.

What is this, and how can I get rid of it?! How can I reassure myself this isn't true?

I'm gay. Any negative or homophobic answers will be reported!

Well, I noticed this guy, he's new (He transferred) and school just started. I'm in 11th grade, he's in 10th.

A few, I was sitting with my friend, who also knows him. He sits on the other side of her. They were talking, so I just jumped in, and we talked a little. I also noticed he looked at me a few times. Even though, she's between us. A little while later, she left, and I noticed he was playing a little computer game I know. (It was Web Page Design class) Then I said I loved that game, and I started playing it too. We were both stuck on the same level, and i almost beat it, so I went to help him. I wasn't sure, but I think he kept looking at me. I almost got it, but then I messed up and got mad. A little while later, I remembered we had the same Biology class together.

Today, he took her bottle thing, and slid it me, and we continued to do that for awhile, had fun.

The same day, we had biology. I noticed he kept looking at me. He sits a little behind me, but also across the room. We had to do a "Break the Ice" paper, to get to know the class. I was nervous, so I went to go do others first. Then, we bumped at a corner, and said hi to each other and stuff, filled out the paper. I think I said bye nervously, though. Not sure.

Today, he did the same. I was looking in a way I could see him from the corner of my eye. I saw him look, and turn away a few times. Also, he turned to look at me, and he kept staring at me, like for 3-5 seconds. I turned away.

After class, I gave him my number to text me. He seemed happy about it. After our last class, (His last class was in the same hall as me) he caught up to me, and then he said "Are you following me?" I'm not sure what it was meant to mean. He still hasn't texted me back, though.

We are friends now, though! :)

I looked up his name on Facebook a few days ago, and found him. It says he's interested in woman.

Why did he do this, if it supposedly says he's interested in woman? He did it a lot.