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One Vet told me they're flea droppings/eggs so i bought him a couple of different medications (none of which helped). Another Vet told me it's dry skin and to try Omega fish oil. I'm convinced it's not dry skin because the objects are the same size. When i gently run my finger nails through his fur, they scrape off. Any ideas what i'm dealing with?

So my boyfriend's sister and her boyfriend went to Mexico, took a lot of pictures and decided to show us. Her boyfriend is very dark and Mexico's sand is white. So as a joke I said...”if you didn’t know whose foot that was (while I zoomed in)…compared to the white sand, you’d think it was an African American’s foot”....(since he's dark). They all laughed and we moved on.

Mind you, he's almost 40 and has been spoiled rotten by the mom…Both of them sit around and call people whales and compare them to animals (hypocrisy?) So two days after this night, the girlfriend tells the brother (my bf) that he was very offended and that it was not a joke but a deliberate rude comment towards his skin color. Like really? I don’t have an ounce of bad intent in me and to go out of my way to offend someone close to me is bogus. They have in the past said racist jokes and maybe being compared to an African American offended him (which is racist !).

So I decided to take the higher road by texting the girlfriend sorry if that offended him. To my surprise, her response was, “it was not a joke and was inappropriate, you’re much younger and can’t joke like that with people older than you. He will have a talk with you”.

First of all, I’m 26 she’s 28…the boyfriend who got offended is 39! lol. My own sister is 41 and brother is 36, they don’t feel the need to discipline me because my parents did a good job raising me and teaching me proper etiquette. No one outside of my family has a right to discipline me, let alone a mama’s boy who is insecure about his foot color. And the third incident that put me over the edge was that she told my boyfriend that if I were sorry then I should have shut my mouth. I have never ever said anything inappropriate to them or anyone in our circle of acquaintances.

So my bf's sister and her bf went to Mexico, took a lot of pictures and decided to show us. Her bf is very dark and Mexico's sand is white. So as a joke I said...''lol his foot compared to the white sand looks like an African American's foot" ....(since he's dark). Mind you, he's almost 40. Turns out he was "deeply offended".

Meanwhile, they dish out jokes far worse.

So the sister tells me it's inappropriate and that i should be disciplined by him.

I say both are crazy :)

I live in a condo and we have TWO guest parking spots. One is always occupied by a resident from my building. I wrote a note (anonymously) asking her nicely to allow legitimate guests to use the designated space. This morning I get a letter on my windshield telling me that they will exercise their option of complaining to proper authorities for constant harassment lol.

How does ONE note imply that I have been harassing someone?

What can I do to put her in her place?

Besides taking junk food off campus...what other solutions would you present?

I have been applying for employment with my local city (city of los angeles and others in my vicinity) and have no luck. I'm obtaining my masters in public administration...

It frustrates me to hear about a friend who has a high school diploma strike an interview with the county! any tips?

Besides raising gas prices and car registration fees, vouchers, and maybe toll roads...any other suggestions?

What game pieces do you need?

So there was this guy that I was dating (key word was)...

He was anti-sports..claimed it's ridiculous to pay them money to do "unskillful" things...

I ignored that...

So a day before the NHL officially started...

I said, "yay, hockey season starts in less than 24 hours"..

he said, "oh god" and rolled his eyes..

To some, it's their passion to watch sports in general..

but hearing it from the person that you're dating, big turnoff..no?

I was seeing this guy who was friends with this blondy...she had a bf but for some annoying reason, they'd go to dinners together, bars, movies, nightclubs...and i would never get any invites..

It came to a point where it was unacceptable. I told him it's ridiculously getting out of hand..he basically said i'm paranoid and that he has the right to go out with his friend that's a girl without me tagging along.

Obviously that came to a halt...

Was I wrong in getting upset?

What would you have done?

Kind of a guy thing to do buttttt...i love my hockey more than my men sometimes