Huntress4817

I have 3 kittens in my garage now 2 weeks old. Tonight I saw a pool of blood by my car and one kitten was missing. I think maybe a wild animal got in and got him? Normally I would close the garage door but, along with their mother, I have 3 adult cats and they need to go outside to hunt and go potty. I'm not home all the time and I can't keep them shut in all day and night. So how do I let my adult cats run free while keeping my kittens safe?

I live in a small town where there are absolutely NO JOBS...I'm not kidding. The nearest place I can get a job is an hour away in a big city but there's a little problem. My car is a piece of crap that can't handle an hour and back every day. I can't afford a new one because I have no money for it. I can't move to the city because I can't get an apartment due to their standards saying I have to have so much income to rent. It's a never ending cycle of I can't commute because I don't have money so I can't get a job so I can't get an apartment so I have to commute which I can't do! Also my family has very little money so I can't borrow any from them nor would I. I don't know what to do.

I've been battling depression for almost 2 months now. I haven't talked to a lot of my friends or family so no one really knows what's going on. People are wondering where I've been or if I'm okay. I was afraid to tell anyone because I don't want them to worry about me. I know if I put it on Facebook they may worry but I'm not doing it to ask for sympathy, I'm doing it because they have the right to know. I thought about saying something like:

"This is hard for me to say but I think it's about time I did. Up until now I've tried so hard to hide it so no one would feel the need to worry about me. But now I feel that I've used every bit of strength I have left. The truth of the matter is...I've officially been diagnosed with depression/anxiety. This has been a difficult time for me but I've been seeing a therapist and will start meds soon. Now that you know please don't feel it's your responsibility to fix it. I just ask for your patience. It'll take time but one day I'll be myself again. For now, just be as if nothing has changed. I'm slowly moving forward and will cope in my own way. If I need anything, I'll ask. Thank you for understanding. I love you all."

How does that sound? I just don't want to hide it anymore because that only makes it worse. Is this what I should do? Thank you.

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about a month now but she's been feeling conflicted lately. The big reason is her family won't approve of her dating another girl. She's an exchange student from Russia and her family basically thinks that homosexuality is a mental disorder. We really care about each other but she also cares about her family and feels guilty that she has to hide it from them. I don't know what to do. I'll always be there for her no matter what happens but I hate that she's feeling this way. Help!?

I'm auditioning for my school's production of Almost Maine. I suck at finding monologues so I would appreciate help. It's a romantic comedy play with about 19 characters. I'm a female by the way. Thanks!

I found this link on Facebook about a weight loss pill called Garcinia Cambogia. I heard about this pill on TV, read a few articles and thought it was legit. The website I ordered it from said I would only pay about $5 for shipping when I got a free trial. Now 3 weeks later they're charging $300 for unknown reasons. There's no contact info so I can't call and explain and the only reason I knew this was happening was because I looked at my bank statement. What can I do to get my money back?

P.S. I can't afford a lawyer so I don't think a court situation would be the best thing right now

What were the views on homosexuality in the Victorian Era? I know the term "homosexual" wasn't used until the 19th century but how did people feel about it? Particularly in Europe.

I met this girl on an online dating site and I really like her. We chat, text, and talk over Skype. It's been going on for a while and as much as I like her I'm not sure how it's going to work because we live in different states. Should I take a few days off work to legitimately meet her before I officially date her? Should I date her at all? I just don't know what to do and I don't know how to talk to her about it.

I need a few love songs from an opera for a class. I really like ah perdona al primo affeto from La Clemenza di Tito but I'm not sure about another one.

So I took a voice performance class (which I'll be taking next semester) and I'm very much attracted to my accompanist. I'm a bisexual girl and my accompanist is a straight girl and we're the same age. I know there's no possible way that she'll like me the way I like her and I don't want to feel this way anymore but I can't help it, she's just so perfect. I really want to tell her this but it may impact the fact that we have to work together and I don't want her to feel awkward about it. Should I wait to tell her? Should I tell her because I can't stand hiding it from her? Something is telling me to tell her how I feel but I'm not sure if I should? We may also become actual friends at some point and that might make it worse. What do I do?

So I really really like this girl but I don't know if she likes girls too. Honestly, I don't know anything about her, not even her name. I've only seen her around school a few times but I can't help but stare like idiot and I would give anything to get her attention. But, come on, what am I suppose to say? "I'm a complete stranger but I hope with all my heart that you like girls because I think you're very beautiful?" What do I do?

Okay so...there's this very attractive girl I've had a crush on for a while. I want to talk to her but I can't bring myself to do it. Here's the story: I first saw her this past spring. (This next part is going to sound bad please don't judge me). She was playing in our school orchestra and the only reason I was even at that concert was to support my boyfriend who was also playing. I look over at the other musicians, I see her and it was an instant attraction. I couldn't help staring at her the whole time. I felt bad for feeling that way because I had a boyfriend but I couldn't help it. I still see her around once in a while and my boyfriend and I broke up so I don't feel bad about it anymore. I want to at least talk to her SO BADLY but, come on, what am I suppose to say? "Hi, you don't know me but I pray with all my heart you like girls because I think you're very beautiful?" Help me what do I do?!?!??!?!? It's killing me!!!

I only have the head. It's not in mint condition but it's still in a very good condition.

I know a few songs from the show but I don't know the style of the music and I'm having trouble deciding on a song. A monologue suggestion would be great too. It's a 90 second audition so that makes it even more difficult.

My boyfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 months but for the past month we haven't been able to see each other because now we live in different states. Then he told me he's transferring to a college in Illinois this spring (we go to college in Minnesota where we met.) He didn't see our relationship working when he left but I wanted to still be together. He said we could end it now or be together another semester before he left. I hate the idea of a planned break up so I ended it right there. I've been hating myself for doing this and I'm still crying about it. Did I do the right thing?

I just broke up with my boyfriend. We were together 2 and a half months. I live in Minnesota and he lives in Wisconsin so the only way we saw each other was because we went to the same college in Minnesota. I can't even see him now because it's summer and we're really busy. But he's transferring to a college in Chicago in the spring. I had 2 options. I could end it there or I could go one one more semester with him. This is my first serious relationship so I didn't want to leave him without being with him longer especially since I haven't seen him in over a month. But the fact that our breakup was planed didn't thrill me either. He said he can't see our relationship lasting when he leaves and he left the final decision up to me. So I ended it there. But now I feel awful and sad and I can't help but feel that maybe it could work for another semester. Please, I just need to know if I did the right thing.