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I just bought a 2002 Ford Explorer Sport. The only issue is the seat doesn't go up far enough for me to reach the peddles comfortably. I don't think it's broken.. The seat goes forward and backwards just fine, but not far enough forward.. I've been having to sit with my purse to my back in between me and the seat.. Is there something I can buy for this? Besides new seats..

I just started dating this guy about two weeks ago.. Since our very first date, he's made it a habit to take my phone at the beginning of each date. I can ask for it back for a specific purpose and he'll give it to me for a few minutes, but it's not fully returned until I leave him. He asked for my phone code on the first date... but never got it. He won't let me wear hats around him.. Any type - caps, beanies, etc. And he's very strict about it. I thought he was joking at first, but now every time I wear a hat to go see him, he takes it and wears it himself, saying "I told you - no hats. You're too cute for that". ?? He doesn't give them back either. And he's clingy. A breakfast date turns into a full day event, even if I had already told him I had prior plans... And even then he'll still be ending the nights with plans for the next morning. But he barely calls/texts me, only to make plans to see each other. Is this normal?? Or should I be worried? I've never had a guy act like this.

"And though she be but little, she is fierce".

9 words, 34 letters.

I want it this big.

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But with this font...

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I also want a tiny cross on my wrist like this..

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And then I want "46:5" (representing the proverb) on the side of my finger, like this...

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How long would that take? The place I'm going to charges $60 an hour.

I had a summer relationship with this guy. We never got along, nothing in common, he was selfish, I was bossy etc etc. But regardless, we were attached at the hip. We had fun together and everyone knew about us. But when school started a week ago, he got unusually distant.. so I broke up with him. I wasn’t angry, but I told him not to contact me and I wished him luck in life. It felt... finalized. The first night he cried hysterically, tried to talk me out of it, ended up going to my mom for consoling and then early in the wee hours of the next morning, he sent me a lengthy text about how he was so sorry, he still loves me, etc etc. I didn’t text back. I didn’t hear from him for three days. The longest ever. I missed him… So much so that I dropped my pride and called him, saying I’d like to be friends.. At first he was a stunned, but it wore off and he got kinda sarcastic and cold, he said he’d think it over…? He agreed.. But he’s not the same anymore. He won’t contact me unless I contact him and it takes him forever to reply. He doesn’t say much, our convos have gotten so boring. It’s like speaking to a different person. He won’t ask to hang out. If I ask, he says okay.. but acts as if he could care less if it happens or not. But in person, you can barely tell we’ve broken up! He's still bubbly and touchy-feely. But away, he's distant and cold again, sometimes even mean. We’ve both agreed, it’s OVER. But I think we’d make better friends than lovers. Why won’t he cooperate?

"Hardly anyone knows how much is gained by ignoring the future." Thanks!

I have no problem meeting guys or getting asked out on dates… But once me and a guy have gone out a couple times, we're "talking", he seems serious about me, we connect well, and it looks like we're just about to make it official, it all falls apart… it slows down and I eventually move on and then he does. I said I do first because that's usually how it happens… I get confused by the sudden delay and after a few weeks, just start over with someone new. It happens to me all the time! I jump from guy to guy, but rarely ever get a commitment… when all I want is a real relationship and I let them know that from the start, but they just keep saying "eventually" (for months if I allow it). The two most common reasons I can think of is them finding someone they like better or getting over me because we hooked up, but a lot of them stay single for months afterwards and I'm not having sex with them! So what am I doing wrong?

Scorpio/Cancer moon/Libra venus/Virgo mars/Cancer rising. He kept approaching me a few months ago. I showed no interested, he gave up. Weeks ago I came back and let him know I had been in a relationship, but I was interested now. Then we talked every day for hours. We connect so well. He always calls/texts first. He introduced me to his family, his friends, etc. He liked to "meet up" for quick hang outs, but wouldn't ask me on an actual date. We don't kiss. No sex. Etc. He says he wants us to get to know each other first before he makes it official, but it's been almost a month! A few times I got mad over it and we stopped talking, but he never let it go past 2 days without coming to make up, begging me to accept him back because he "can't stop thinking about me". But he still won't budge. We make up and end up in the same position over and over. He's been open about his relationships and he doesn't really talk to many girls, so I'm not worried about that. Plus, his brother already calls me his girlfriend. So Wednesday I expressed to him that maybe we should stop talking until he's ready. But then Thursday night he sent me a short text with some good news about his job. I said I was happy for him, but I thought we weren't talking and he said he hadn't been sure, so again he reluctantly agreed to stop talking for awhile and said goodnight. We haven't talked since and now we both ignore each other in public, but I noticed that he slows down his walking as if he expects me to come to him, but he doesn't look at me and I just walk on by. I hate not talking to him, but he's frustrating! Will he tell me when he's ready or is he just waiting to see if I come back? Why does he insist on taking things so slow?!

He's a Scorpio sun/Cancer moon/Libra venus/Virgo mars/Cancer rising. He approached me a few times in the past, but I blew him off over and over until finally he gave up. But now almost 3 months later, I'm interested. But of course, I didn't know if he was still single, so I dropped a few hints to his best friend. He called me that same day (Sun). I never gave him my number. But I was very direct; got straight to the point about how I was messing with someone else back then, but I'm looking for something new and I'm interested. He flirted back, but in a more serious way. I could tell he was suspicious though because he wouldn't stop questioning why I ignored him for so long and then popped up. But the conversation still flowed well, I ended it and he said a sweet goodnight. The next day we got together in person and he was really serious looking, never cracked a smile. He kept texting me to meet back up, but whenever I would, I ended up doing all the talking and the little talking he did do was in whispers. He was very polite though. Helped me hold stuff, offered to buy something, held the door… And he introduced me to his brother. We talked until 3am that night. Then he asked to meet up again yesterday and he was smiling and a bit more talkative. But at the same time, he still acts uninterested! He completely avoids eye contact when we're talking. The couple times I brought up the thought of forming a relationship, he quickly changed the subject, but did ask what I looked for in a potential boyfriend. I asked if I talked too much and he said no, I sound sophisticated and he likes smart women so it's a turn on, but besides that…. He's never really complimented me and didn't come out and say he liked me until I talked to our mutual friend about it and then that night he said it. He also added on that he wouldn't waste his time if he wasn't interested and that he cannot read my mind to know how I feel and what I need, but I still get the feeling that I'm chasing him and he hasn't even asked me on an actual date yet. Why?

He's a Capricorn sun/Virgo moon/Scorpio venus/Virgo mars/Virgo rising.

So I have a date with this guy tonight and he doesn't have a whole lot of friends... He keeps his circle tight, but he's VERY charming. Like overly so.. It gets annoying and he's a show off. When I first met him, I found him fake and obnoxious but I decided to give him a chance. I was looking at his placements... and I just cannot seem to understand why he comes off this way. Everything else I get. He's career-minded, very focused, loves kids, super sexual, but his ego is through the roof. Is it a front? I know one other Virgo rising and he's the exact same way, but I thought it was just a coincidence since I've never heard of a Virgo trait like that...

He's a Virgo sun/Leo moon/Libra venus/Cancer Mars/Cancer Rising.

We've been dating for almost a year, but he won't commit. He's not dating other people, but he treats relationships like marriage. Sunday I was with him all day. We had an amazing time until the end when I asked about his feelings. He's affectionate and romantic, but he keeps all of his serious thoughts to himself. So I asked straight out how he felt about me while we were cuddling. The answer was terrible. All I got out of him was that I'm weird and moody, but I'm his future wife so he puts up with it, mixed with silence? I got mad, told him not to touch me, he backed off, took a trip to the store, and when he came back seeing I was still mad, he turned ice cold. He wouldn't look at me. He ignored everything I said or asked, and finally right before I left he stopped and took one long deep stare at me. Not one thing was said for the rest of the night. I didn't contact him and he didn't contact me until last night - asking what's up. I ended it quickly. Then this morning he asked me to come over and I said no. He always does this! He doesn't like talking things out (I do), so he ignores the problem, tries to skip over it when time has gone by, and acts oblivious to what he's done when I'm still angry. This same situation has happened twice before and at one point we stopped talking for over a month. He would contact me and I would still be mad until finally I just gave up and let it go. Why can't he just discuss it?

I've known him for close to a year now and we dated casually in the past, but he never gets too serious with me… I'm not saying I'm the most beautiful girl in the world with the perfect personality, but if you were to see the girls he chooses to date long-term, you would understand. They're ugly ghetto girls who curse and can't seem to hold any type of meaningful conversation, but they're nice to him. A few even have kids. If he matched up to them, I would've moved on long ago, but he's NOTHING like them. He acts that way WITH them and then acts totally different with me. He's polite and intelligent and super sweet kinda shy and we have the deepest conversations. He says he wants to get married and that he really likes me (but won't say love yet), yet he still keeps me at arm's length and spends a lot of his time with those girls instead. For all I know he could be talking the same to them. But anyone could see I'm the most practical choice! What is going on inside his head? I'm so confused!

There's only one girl he's dated in the past who even remotely lives up to my expectations and he said he was young and stupid and messed up with her. That's all he'll say.

He's a Virgo sun/Leo moon/Libra venus/Cancer mars/Cancer rising.

I've known him for close to a year now and we dated casually in the past, but he never gets too serious with me… I'm not saying I'm the most beautiful girl in the world with the perfect personality, but if you were to see the girls he chooses to date long-term, you would understand. They're ugly ghetto girls who curse and can't seem to hold any type of meaningful conversation, but they're nice to him. A few even have kids. If he matched up to them, I would've moved on long ago, but he's NOTHING like them. He acts that way WITH them and then acts totally different with me. He's polite and intelligent and super sweet kinda shy and we have the deepest conversations. He says he wants to get married and that he really likes me (but won't say love yet), yet he still keeps me at arm's length and spends a lot of his time with those girls instead. For all I know he could be talking the same to them. But anyone could see I'm the most practical choice! What is going on inside his head? I'm so confused!

There's only one girl he's dated in the past who even remotely lives up to my expectations and he said he was young and stupid and messed up with her. That's all he'll say.

My best friend is an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon, Aries venus and Aquarius mars.

He's been ignoring me for weeks. The only time he answered me was when I sent a text teasing him about something someone said about him and he threw out a bunch of insults about the person and then disappeared again. A few days ago he called me twice and when I answered, he sounded confused and said he dialed me by accident and that he was trying to reach his girlfriend (more like FWBs)?? So I just said okay and hung up. Yesterday he called asking about my plans like he wanted to get together. I told him I was free (I really would've been canceling my plans for him), but he just said nevermind and hung up. Then last night I text him asking what's been up with him and he just said he's been going through a lot and he's not feeling like himself. He obviously didn't want to talk about it, but usually when he's feeling depressed he talks to me… He's told me many times I'm the only one he trusts. He says not even his girlfriend knows him like I do. So I casually asked about his relationship, he said it was somewhat okay. I joked about asking the love doc (me) for advice and he said no. It was all short and blunt. I ended it there telling him to get some rest and he said goodnight with a smiley (which surprised me). So I woke up to such a beautiful today and I was thinking of asking me him if he wants to go to some park festival, but I don't want to risk coming off as clingy/annoying.. I'm usually not this persistent at all, but I miss my friend…

I have social anxiety which makes me extremely awkward when I first meet people. When it comes to guys, I cover up this awkwardness with a "mean girl" act. Especially when a guy just approaches me out of nowhere, I clam up and become a b*tch. And then later on I regret it and sometimes I'll apologize depending on how bad I acted. Recently I did it to this really sweet guy who actually approached me a few different times, but each time I acted uninterested and standoffish. After awhile he laid off and would just watch me every day instead. It's been about a week and I feel like he's actually avoiding me now.. And he won't look at me at all. So if I were to walk up and talk to him nicely now, what would he think? Is there a chance he'd give me a dose of my own medicine? I wouldn't want to risk it.

I moved from my hometown over a year ago and it seems like every so often a guy from my past pops up and wants to reconnect. It's almost always a Cancer! They'd be just flirty friends back when I lived there and now that I'm gone they decide to finally express their true feelings and try to get me to come back. It's so annoying because a lot of times I really liked them when I lived there, but it wasn't going anywhere and now I can't really do anything about it… I feel like talking to them is a waste of time now.. Last week it happened for the fourth time with yet another Cancer and it was a guy I had liked for years…

I have a friend with these placements. I'm a Libra with a Taurus rising, so I'm a pretty chill person.. But I have a mild case of bipolar. I don't let a lot of things bother me, don't get stressed, but sometimes it all just boils over and I become a complete mess.. I go insane. Happens about twice a year. I'll be calm for one day and just go into an emotional fit, running away, talking suicide and crying on the streets and then by the next week I'm okay again. Anyway, that friend is the closest to me, so he usually has to deal with that. And whenever this happens.. He goes silent, but doesn't really avoid me... Like he's just taking it all in. His eyes start looking scary - dark and deep. Then after awhile he goes distant, but he always comes back a week later. He's the ONLY person I know who doesn't make me explain what craziness I was going on with. He doesn't ask if I'm feeling better; he just acts like it never happened. So I really want to know what he's thinking without asking... Is he thinking I'm crazy? Does he find it interesting? Does he think about it when he goes distant or does he just forget it completely? I've never talked about bipolar with him or any type of diagnosis.

I mentor/tutor this six year old boy for community service once a week. He's sweet, but very stubborn! I'm supposed to be helping him with his reading, but he likes to just skip over words he doesn't know and gets mad if I make him go back. I've been doing this for a couple years now and I've never had a kid as stubborn as him.. So I promised if he tried really hard and always went back, that I'd bring him something every week. I'm in high school, so I'm talking a buck or two.. The only thing I can think of is candy? But what else is there?

He has a Leo moon and a Libra venus. When we started casually dating in the beginning of the year I found out he had just gotten his heart broken by this girl and quickly moved on to me. I was told by his brother. I wasn't looking for anything serious, so it didn't bother me.. But I fell hard for him. He moved a few hours away, but I still see him every few weeks to a month and he's moving back next year. He contacts me daily and is very romantic. But two nights ago he posted a status about that other girl... First one I've seen in months. He was saying he's changed a lot since last year, how he still loves and wants to be with her, and only time will heal. Days before he was posting about me.. Then this morning he posted another status explaining how he's in love with the idea of being in love, but with who because he can't decide. He's under the assumption that I never use Facebook anymore. I'm so confused? He's told me he's loved me in the past, but just last week we had a serious talk and he told me he really really liked me, he thought he loved me, but we need to spend more time together to make that bond before he knows for sure. Then he invited me to come up there to see him in a couple weeks??

It's kinda hard to explain. Like they'll always be around me, in the past they'll even admit they have feelings, but they act like I'm a nuisance when we talk. It doesn't matter if we're alone or around people, they still do it. I just met this one guy and he's always hanging around me, he tells me I'm pretty, makes it pretty clear he's interested.. He comes to me, but if I ever ask for his help or just come to him instead of the other way around, he rolls his eyes.. but kinda teasingly? I used to run into this other guy I used to talk to and whenever we did, he'd hover over me and keep coming back, he even asked me out, but the few times I'd come to HIM, he'd huff and puff and act annoyed. My old guy friend used to do the same thing and we weren't even interested in each other! What's up with that? It's so confusing and it turns me off..