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for a few days he didn't want to eat we thought he was teething (all the signs pointed there) but when we went for his 9mos check up the dr noticed he was getting over a sore throat and that was most likely why he only wanted his juice...well its been a few weeks now and he still is not interested in his formula. My husband makes what we call a smoothie formula,some rice cereal and a fruit and he might have 1 of those a day. I know juice is not good to keep giving him as a main drinking stable and he isn't old enough for whole milk, so I wanted to ask you b4 I went and made a call to his dr. if any of you had the same problem and how you handled it

my husband and I are thinking of renewing our vows next year to mark 10yrs

we would like to do something with just really close family and friends

we eloped and only had a small reception when we 1st got married

we think if we plan it on a cruise ship those who really care will find a way to join us

but because ive never been to a wedding on a ship or know anyone who has I don't know what kinda of problems usually accrue

can anyone give me advise

thanks

my mother has a really bad skin condition and someone told me about this old medicine that there use to be called poslam I've tried Ebay and all the have is a old poslam add

do any of you have some that you would be willing to at least send me a sample

or do any of you know a place that still carries it or something like it

please she has had this for years and it only gets worst its large scab like markings all over her face arms and chest

we have a 19wk old and a 15mos old our 15mos old (daughter) is easy to get with through the day because we have been on a schedule for a LONG time but we need to link the two of them together we a schedule

how did you get your new lil ones schedule to sink with your toddlers?

they both go to bed about 9:30 although she use to go to bed by 8ish but once he came and we started this past mos with a bed time it was easier to get him down first then her she was a lil more patient with mommy compared to her screaming bother who wanted to be fed rocked to sleep and laid down

they both get up about 7ish some days are earlier some days are later (and mommy thanks them)

we try to get the toddler to take a nap at least 2hrs after she wakes sometimes its more about lunch time and then they both take a nap around 4-5pm

my husband is home with them during the day and then I take over at 3pm when he gets home

they both get a bath every night so we need to fit that in there she is picky about what she wants to eat (Dr said she is just in that phase) so she just kinda picks at what Im eating whenever I grab a lil something

My son was a preemie and we stayed a few weeks at the Ronald McDonald house. Some nights local families or churches would make hot meals for the families living there. as a give back we would like to make a meal now that our son is home and on a healthy track. We know that pasta meals were the easiest and we had them almost every night so we want to make a chili buffet

but don't know what other toppings to serve besides

cheese

sour cream

chopped tomatoes

oyster crackers

chips

chives

what are your favorite toppings

your ideas will help us out a bunch

and do you have a favorite chili recipe we thought we would do one with meat and one without

our neighbors lost their 10mos old son on Friday. He has been sick for a long time and ended up needing surgery.After his surgery they could not close him up for healing reasons he would have to stay in the hospital till Jan before he could go home well of course he is on pain management treatment they have him on methadone his dosage I believe was 7mg well they gave him 70mg (mg might not be right but i know the 7-70 is either way big difference for such a small person) well Levi fought as long has he could and at 1:45pm Friday (his mothers birthday) he passed away

they hospital is saying it was due to an infection but no one believes them so the parents are doing an autopsy but in the mean time they can't seem to find a lawyer to take their case. the hospital is Arnold Palmer children's hospital (a very large hospital) does anyone have any advice what they should do or who they should turn to?

we live in Orlando Florida area if that helps with your answer

My friend (honest to God it isn't me)

is pregnant for the 3rd time she is a stay at home mom (by choice) her husband works for his family so they raised his pay after she started having kids so she could be home.

when they got married she wasn't able to sign up under his ins because of a heart condition

so each pregnancy she has had medicaid well for some reason and I really don't know why she wasn't able to get medicaid for this pregnancy and said she couldn't afford to cont. going to the dr so at about 20ish weeks she stopped going she is due early Sept and I worried there is going to be so much drama when she goes into labor

she is knowingly not getting care and she doesn't seem to care she says "well if i could get asst then we wouldn't have this problem" but I've given her #s to call for help birthing centers that would work with her but she hasn't done anything with the info

she says when she goes into labor she will just go to the hospital because they cant refuse her which is true but will they send a social worker will she risk losing her child for neglect?

Besides all the things that could go wrong they haven't monitored her blood pressure the baby could be breech so many other things

we live in florida if that helps with your answer

I don't know what to do plus the other day she thought she was in early labor but didn't go to the hospital because she cant go till she is for sure sure she also passed out the other day but says its just cause she didn't eat but she hasn't felt the same since

what would she do if she goes over her due date. what walk into the er and say i need to be induced im a week over due and this could be dangerous

ERG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish there was a magic word I could say to make her see what she is doing is wrong

no on else seems to be so worried about what she is doing so maybe im the crazy one i don't know

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her 1st child is from a relationship b4 she was married but her husband has adopted her

they got married in 2007 and wanted to start a family right away then found them self pregnant in Dec (they are southern baptist they weren't trying to get pregnant but they weren't preventing it either, she is allergic to latex and doesn't think she should make her husband were condoms or have a vasectomy because he is the husband and God wants him to be plentiful) she is 24 and he is 28

My friend (honest to God it isn't me)

is pregnant for the 3rd time she is a stay at home mom (by choice) her husband works for his family so they raised his pay after she started having kids so she could be home.

when they got married she wasn't able to sign up under his ins because of a heart condition

so each pregnancy she has had medicaid well for some reason and I really don't know why she wasn't able to get medicaid for this pregnancy and said she couldn't afford to cont. going to the dr so at about 20ish weeks she stopped going she is due early Sept and I worried there is going to be so much drama when she goes into labor

she is knowingly not getting care and she doesn't seem to care she says "well if i could get asst then we wouldn't have this problem" but I've given her #s to call for help birthing centers that would work with her but she hasn't done anything with the info

she says when she goes into labor she will just go to the hospital because they cant refuse her which is true but will they send a social worker will she risk losing her child for neglect?

Besides all the things that could go wrong they haven't monitored her blood pressure the baby could be breech so many other things

we live in florida if that helps with your answer

I don't know what to do plus the other day she thought she was in early labor but didn't go to the hospital because she cant go till she is for sure sure she also passed out the other day but says its just cause she didn't eat but she hasn't felt the same since

what would she do if she goes over her due date. what walk into the er and say i need to be induced im a week over due and this could be dangerous

ERG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish there was a magic word I could say to make her see what she is doing is wrong

no on else seems to be so worried about what she is doing so maybe im the crazy one i don't know

There isn't enough room or time to explain all the awful things my in-laws have done to my husband and our family but here are a few

Sept 16th 2004 2weeks into our senior year he turned 18 his parents say its time to move out

(that night)

days b4 our wedding I'm in bed and I hear him and his mother in the living room she is trying to convince him I have to many medical issues and does he really want to have to take care of me

( ***** if it wasn't for me he would be living in a box)

our wedding day she has 1 job and 1 job only bring the grooms and the grooms cake

because both are with her

it stormed REALLY bad on our wedding day I was trying to get a hold of him to let him now the ceremony was being pushed back because of the rain. she turned off his cell and took him and the cake to run her around down (the cake was an ice cream cake)

next job GET A NEW CAKE b4 she shows up

I asked where the cake was she said she lost it

(how do you misplace a CAKE????)

she started a fight with my husband in the car after leaving the hospital

where our newborn son was (he was born 2mos early and had no response for 13mins)

she wanted to know when she could take my children to AL with her to spend the night

(over my dead body) when he said it would be a while she kicked him out on the inner state and he walked back to the hospital

she lived in another country for awhile and she still popped in whenever she wanted and then would be mad if he didn't drop everything he was doing to see her

(its called a schedule call ahead of time)

she is a chain smoker and both my children were preemies and have issues if she wants to see MY!!!!!! kids she has to obey the 48hr rule no smoking 48hrs b4 you come to see them and you must be in new clothes

she gets mad again when she drops in and we wont let her take the kids

i know she has not followed the rule and I'm not going to put my babies through

her bad habit i already caught her once smoking with my daughter in her hands

after she swore she never would she better be glad i didn't put that thing out on her face

my husband hates the way they treat him but he always runs back and 4gives them

they wouldn't pay for his college or give him there personal info so he could apply for

financial aid she said that wasn't anyone's biz but he needed to prove he didn't come from $ so my parents paid for him to go to school knowing i wanted to marry him and he needed to be someone in order to do that

she causes so many fights between him and I

if she was gone our marriage wouldn't be on the edge of divorce half the year

My 1yr old has to go in for routine lab work today. I wanted to know how all of you out there helped calm your little one for the not so fun experience? Ive already called her father and make sure he keeps her well hydrated so they can find her veins easier and the fluids will flow faster, but is there anything else that will help? Ive heard keep her warm but we are here in fl the heat index is 105 today so yeah although I myself work in the lab where she will be getting her blood drawn and I swear its so cold even Santa wouldn't want to leave here lol.

Should I give her some Tylenol b4 hand?

my husband and I are going out of down and are leaving our small children with my parents. I want to leave a document in case there is an emergency so that my parents can give permission for treatment. They are already listed at our pediatrician office to bring them on sick visits but we will be out of the country and can not get home fast if something really big were to happen.

how exactly should I word this letter so that the hospital understand and will accept them as caregivers.

We are expecting another little one this coming May. Our 1st child is a girl and her name is Lilliauna Mina (Lilly-on-ah)(me-na) we have our boy named picked if the 2nd one is a boy but if we have another girl we don't know what to name her,my husband came up with Rosalynn but im not really wild about although everyone tells me how much they like it. Ruby was another name I had picked for my 1st daughter but don't know how I feel about it anymore with my 1st child's name being more exotic. please give me your ideas for both 1st and middle names for a 2nd baby girl

I would like to see what kinda exotic or flower names you come up with

list of names you can NOT suggest

Renee

Emily

Samantha

Emma

(those are names that belong to my in-laws who are not liked who have nothing to do with our child or even know about the 2nd one)

Can't wait to see what you have to offer :)

To compromise with my husband and his views on infant baptism we are choosing to participate in a baby dedication ceremony at our church.However I am from a Catholic back round and don't really know what happens at a "Dedication" can anyone explain who has seen one what exactly happens.

I know what a Baptism and Christening looks like

Thank you

I had a HORRIBLE dream about walking in on my husband having sex with a family member of mine when I walk back into the room to confront him about it

the family member turns into our daughter who is a newborn

this dream makes me sick to my stomach and constantly pops back into my head

as time went on and I started 4getting the details of the dream I had another dream about him doing it again

in my 1st dream i woke up right away but in my 2nd dream I was able to stop him from his actions a rescue my daughter

now both dreams are haunting me through the day

I can see the images in my head and hear her cries

now when I do wake up my daughter is actually crying for a bottle and diaper change dont know if i can hear her crying and am just adding it to the dream but i dont know

why would I be having a dream like this

in real life I trust my husband with our daughter he is a loving honest and christian man

who also is a police officer (Im telling u this so u can see i dont see him as anything more then perfect father and someone who would NEVER do this

is there an underline def to my dream and how do I make this stop

I have not brought this up to my husband because I know how offened and he would be

please help

should I talk to a counsler about this

its really upseting me

we have a little girl who is 7wks today

i was baptized i am from a Catholic family

my husband is baptist and we go to a baptist church but they don't believe in baptisms

but the

"new" thing i guess is dedications for newborns

i have not been able to find alot of info on comparing the to

or really solid info on either

can u help?

have any of u done an at home dedication?

I can feel alot of pressure below in my pelvic area before only when i woke up but now when i am up and about it feels like someone has been pressing down or sore like someone kicked me lol

my back started hurting last nite and now all day its been bothering me

feel the cramps and but no cont rations 34wks

she is also rolling around alot inside

make my tummy sore right below my ribs

also notice lose stool

I AM ONLY 31 1/2 WEEKS ALONG I HAVE HAD "WARM UP CONTRACTIONS EVERYDAY SINCE TUESDAY (TODAY IS FRI)

EVERYTIME I GET A STRONGER ONE IT REALLY MAKES ME HAVE TO GO TO THE BATHROOM ( # 1 & #2) IS THAT NORMAL

GOODNESS THEY WIPE YOU OUT AND LEAVE U SITTING THERE TO REGROUP UR SELF

IS IT NORMAL TO HAVE THEM EVERYDAY ALL DAY LIKE THAT

THEY DONT HAVE ANY PATTERN TO THEM

SOME ARE STRONG BUT THE NEXT MAY BE OVER 1-2-3 WITH JUST TIGHTNESS

How much is a us passport?

I notice some websites have it cheaper then others

whats the standard time to get it

I am about 8weeks away from when we are expecting to rush to the hospital and give birth to our daughter.(yay!!!!)

but this is our 1st child and I have no idea what I should pack

I looked at a list online but though about asking you other moms what you wish u would of had with u or brought more of stuff u really didn't need

thx

WE ARE ON A 2WEEK PAY PERIOD

AND FOR SOME REASON OR ANOTHER OUR CHECKS ARE ALWAYS LATE

OR THEY HOLD THEM BECAUSE OUR CLIENTS HAVE NOT PAID THEIR BILLS AND THERE IS NO MONEY IN THE BANK FOR OUR CHECKS TO CLEAR

ALTHOUGH THAT HAS STOPPED BE4 MANY OF TIME WE HAVE FOUND OUT BANKS OVER DRAWN BECAUSE OUR PAYCHECKS BOUNCED AND OUR BANKS TAKE BACK THE MONEY

WITH THE WAY THINGS ARE NOW

WE CANT AFFORD TO WORK FOR FREE

AND ITS NOT LIKE OUR BOSS IS NICE ABOUT IT

OR TRYS HARD TO FIGHT THAT WE GET OUR $$$

I WANT TO KNOW IF THERE IS SOME LAW ABOUT HOW LONG THEY CAN HOLD OUR CHECK WITHOUT US BEING ABLE TO DO ANYTHING

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