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I paid for one year to have a PO Box. After 2 months the box was lock and assigned to someone else. The supervisor at the post office says they cannot give me the box because it was assigned to someone else. They can however give me a different box. I informed them that I spend over 500 dollars on business cards etc. Please advise as to the correct way to deal with this issue

I have been renting a furnished apt for the past 7 months- rent always on time-

I have been getting letters from the courts that the apt is in foreclosure and I communicated this with her. Her comment was dont worry about this I have a lawyer.

Then on 7-7-10 the apt went to auction- IT was Sold. On the 5th of July the AC broke-live in fla- and the landlady said that she wants nothing to do with the apt- she is walking away.

Now I am out 179.00 for repairing the AC- 90 degrees in apt- now I have to start paying the association dues or they will kick me out. I know my only options is to move out but I am looking into moving in this condo.

So my question is can I withhold her from removing her furniture so I can get repaid for the AC unit and the Association fees-$750 for 3 months? She was still the owner at the time. Can I also sue include moving fees as well?

I appreciate you input.

I have been living in a furnished apt since Dec,2009. I have a 1 year lease. I was getting notices that the apt is going into foreclosure. When I contact her- she live in columbia- she said not to worry becasue she has an attorney working on it. i've paid my rent on time.

in July of 2010 I got a notice that the apt is going up for auction, and it did- it was sold.

two days before the auction the AC unit in the apt broke I called her and she said that she is not spending any money on the apt. She also told me that she is walking away from the apt. After spending 179.00 with no reimbursement- she called me to ask if she can arrange for her son to pick up her furniture including the washer and dryer.

Can I ask for the 179.00 before she can pick up the furniture. I will also have to start paying for the association dues, which was due when she was the owner. Can I ask for that as well, including moving expenses?

So the bottom line is can i ask for the repairing of the AC unit, moving expenses and the

Association dues before allowing her son to pick the furniture?

I have been working in a large organization, for 2.5 years. In this particular department there are 9 people. Sara has been there 10 years and the others between 3-5 years. Sara has a reputation of making comments, about people's weight, their ethnicity, she even made a noose like with the telephone, because we were talking about President Obama.. I had previously told her( at least 4 times) that it is inappropriate to talk like that-and that she can get in trouble. One day Sara called a coworker a Black-sharpie (she is African American). This was said in front of the supervisor, and the supervisor said and did nothing. I was so angry that I could not sleep. The next day I told her that I did not want to hear any comments about race, religion etc. She apologized. Thinking that things were changing- I mentioned to her that my daughter is learning in school about Ti-messages. I also explained that it is stretching the muscles. Her comment in front of others was- so when your daughter was giving you a message did your lesbian tendencies come out? He said this 2 times. I told her again not to talk like that. I let her have it in front of other co-workers.

Later, when I went home my supervisor (she has been working there for 3.5 years) called me because she heard what happened. I explained to her what happened. She said that she will speak to Sara. My supervisor is well aware of how Sara is, because we have discussed it.-

No one has done anything about her behavior or reported it.

The next day my supervisor came to me and said that she spoke to her and told her that she cannot speak like that. My supervisor said that Sara is scared that I will report her. I told my supervisor she should be scared.

The sad part is that my supervisor awarded Sara Employee of the year. I want to go to HR but I do not know what the ramifications will be towards me. HELP!

Please note when my supervisor is not there I am in charge.

I have been working in a large organization, for 2.5 years. In this particular department there are 9 people. Sara has been there 10 years and the others between 3-5 years. Sara has a reputation of making comments, about people's weight, their ethnicity, she even made a noose like with the telephone, because we were talking about President Obama.. I had previously told her( at least 4 times) that it is inappropriate to talk like that-and that she can get in trouble. One day Sara called a coworker a Black-sharpie (she is African American). This was said in front of the supervisor, and the supervisor said and did nothing. I was so angry that I could not sleep. The next day I told her that I did not want to hear any comments about race, religion etc. She apologized. Thinking that things were changing- I mentioned to her that my daughter is learning in school about Ti-messages. I also explained that it is stretching the muscles. Her comment in front of others was- so when your daughter was giving you a message did your lesbian tendencies come out? He said this 2 times. I told her again not to talk like that. I let her have it in front of other co-workers.

Later, when I went home my supervisor (she has been working there for 3.5 years) called me because she heard what happened. I explained to her what happened. She said that she will speak to Sara. My supervisor is well aware of how Sara is, because we have discussed it.-

No one has done anything about her behavior or reported it.

The next day my supervisor came to me and said that she spoke to her and told her that she cannot speak like that. My supervisor said that Sara is scared that I will report her. I told my supervisor she should be scared.

The sad part is that my supervisor awarded Sara Employee of the year. I want to go to HR but I do not know what the ramifications will be towards me. HELP!

Please note when my supervisor is not there I am in charge.

Should I keep her friendship?

I have had an on/off friendship with a female friend for about 8 years. More off than on.

She has done several things to hurt my feelings for example:

I mentioned to her one day that her friends husband came on to me. Of course I did not respond to him. I dont date married men. She went on to his wife what I had said. As a result I cut the relationship with all parties.

After a year goes by I gave my friend another chance- so today she went on to tell me that her husband said that today i ****** day, and laughed. II was so pissed and hurt. She knows that my daughter is bi-racial. I told her that that comment was totally uncalled for. and that if her husband was present I would let him have it.

she laughed and said she did not mean to hurt my feelings. Her facial expression was totally surprised when I became assertive with her.

she plays dumb at times. My gut feelings is not to be her friend.

I dont know whats wrong with her.

I am also rethinking our relationship.

Please any suggestions.

Thanks

My mother is controlling, abusive and manipulative since I was a child. I have decided to write her a letter. I am also contemplating in not associating with her.

As a child -4yrs old- she slapped me on the face, her hand print was imprinted.

Tied me to a chair cause I was active.

Had my daughter-when was 12 - sleep on the floor cause she did not want her granddaught to mess up her bed.

Also slapped my daughter on the face when she was about 8 yrs.

Causes arguments between me and my sisters.

The list goes on.

I appreciate your input.

My mother is controlling, abusive and manipulative since I was a child. I have decided to write her a letter. I am also contemplating in not associating with her.

As a child -4yrs old- she slapped me on the face, her hand print was imprinted.

Tied me to a chair cause I was active.

Had my daughter-when was 12 - sleep on the floor cause she did not want her granddaught to mess up her bed.

Also slapped my daughter on the face when she was about 8 yrs.

Causes arguments between me and my sisters.

The list goes on.

I appreciate your input.

my daughter does not have a criminal history. She never served jail or prison time. No Dui's either

She was given 3 citations

316.085

316.061 and 65.

There was property damage but no one was hurt. Can she serve jail or prison time?

About 5 months ago I paid 2000 -(car has 70,ooo miles) to replace the head gasket on a 2001 toy Camry.

After 3 weeks my car overheated and the mechanic said it was a lose hose. he fixed it but he told me to check the radiator and to make sure that there was fluid in there. I did. 3 days ago again the car overheated now he tells me that I did not properly close the radiator cap. I told the guy that he is wrong I did close it correctly.

NOw he tells me that I blew the heads again and want to check for damage. He also said that he might be able not to charge me for labor but I would have to pay for the parts. I am out of warrant.

What to do

m in my early 50's and am in a slump in my career. I have BS in Education and MS in Psy. I would like to pursue a career in Nursing but I can't afford to quite my job. I have done research and all I could find was full time attendance during the day.

If anyone knows of a school that I can attend part-time nights please let me know. Or if there is information out there about alternatives to a Nursing degree. I live in Broward County Fla.

Thanks

I'm in my early 50's and am in a slump in my career. I have BS in Education and MS in Psy. I would like to pursue a career in Nursing but I can't afford to quite my job. I have done research and all I could find was full time attendance during the day.

If anyone knows of a school that I can attend part-time nights please let me know. Or if there is information out there about alternatives to a Nursing degree. I live in Broward County Fla.

Thanks

I am an assistant to an supervisor and have been working there for about 8 months. Currently there are 4 other people who work in the same department and they have been working there longer than I. My supervisor is friendly towards the other employees, but not towards me. Her attitude is flat and does not attempt to get to know me as a person. Not that we have to be friends but being polite goes a long way especially since it is a small company. I have asked her if I am doing a good job she says yes. So I leave it as that. However, her indifference is causing me to become uncomfortable at work.

I am a go getter and have been in all of my jobs. I feel that she might be jealous so I have backed off and not but so much effort on my job. I would do the required work. But her attitude is still the same standoffish. I do not know what to do. Please advise.

Please not she is quick to contradict. Note I have tried to be friendly with her but she does acknowledge it.

I am an assistant to an supervisor and have been working there for about 8 months. Currently there are 4 other people who work in the same department and they have been working there longer than I. My supervisor is friendly towards the other employees, but not towards me. Her attitude is flat and does not attempt to get to know me as a person. Not that we have to be friends but being polite goes a long way especially since it is a small company. I have asked her if I am doing a good job she says yes. So I leave it as that. However, her indifference is causing me to become uncomfortable at work.

I am a go getter and have been in all of my jobs. I feel that she might be jealous so I have backed off and not but so much effort on my job. I would do the required work. But her attitude is still the same standoffish. I do not know what to do. Please advise.

Please not she is quick to contradict.

I have a 2001 Toy Camry which I have blown the head gasket. I have 70,000 miles on it.

Problem is I own more than what it is worth (8000). It will take about 1500-2000 to repair it. Hopefully that is all that is wrong with it. I cannot not afford to repair it but I need a car. I went to several mechanics and they all told me the same thing. One mechanic told me that if I fix the gasket later on the head might need repair and that is another cost.

What to do. I called Toyota co and they said I am out of warranty. SOL!

Should I have the bank repo it and get another car or fix it and hope that nothing else is wrong with it?

Please I need your advise. I understand if I repo my credit will suffer from this. But I do not know what to do.

Thanks

My 2005 Avesta- registry has been erased. It is currently on safe mode and it will not allow me do download anything. I have no sound and the E drive is missing. To go on the internet I have to go to f8. Is there any possible way for me to fix this problem. I do not have the recovery disks and Acer wants 50$ for it. If that is the last options so be it but I want to save $$$. Please help. Thanks

When giving details please be specific. I am computer literate but I do have limitations.

Thank you have a great day!

Wondering!

If two people work together and started to date-No restrictions from employer-then he broke it off but she continues to insist to go out. He tells her several times no and to stop bothering him. Can he make a complaint with personnel? If she does not stop?

I have had pain in my left arm -from my shoulder to fingers. But the intense pain is by the bicep. This is the 4th time is has occurred. One time I got so scared I went to the hospital. They took several test and they came out negative. The doctor wanted me to take a stress test and I did not. Now I have the pain again. I would like to know if I should be worried..No pain in my right arm or anywhere else. I feel fine other than that. No fever, shortness of breath etc...

I email people, I make dates with people but when it is time to hang out with them I back off-or cancell -females.. (I am straight)..

I have dated for a long time(widow 24 years) but my last relationship was 5 years ago. I want to meet someone but I do not want to get hurt again..Tired of the BS...Dating makes me nervous. Every time I meet a male person- I guess I give signals of avoidance- how to change. Any suggestions.

When I picked my 12 yr.daughter after work 3pm-my mother said that she is in the bedroom sleeping.When I entered the bedroom I found my daughter sleeping on the floor. When I asked her why she was sleeping on the floor she said that grandma did not want her to sleep on the bed and mess it up. I was pissed.....

Should I ever speak to my mother her again--

She has done other stuff in the past. I am so angry at her I cant get over it.