Sandi S

My son is supposed to be getting married in August. He just told me that he s going this weekend to actually get legally married. I want to be there for this part of his life. Its a very important step. He kept down playing this as nothing. The REAL wedding is in Aug. Then I find out he asked his sister to witness. To me the real wedding is this weekend. That is when he is making the commitment. My heart is really broken. My son and I have always been close. Am I hurting over this for no reason?

I asked her why, she says, I dont know I just do! lol I guess I just dont know what to think. She is a very smart child and understands a lot more than you would think for a child of her age. She turns 4 next month. It doesnt matter if its a tv show, cartoon, movie, book...she prefers the bad guys.

From a Christian perspective, What does God say about staying with someone who is addicted to pills?

I take care of my grand baby during the day and he never has her by his self. I have recently been letting go and letting God take care of it but inside it is tearing me up. I haven't even let him know that I know which makes me feel that he thinks he is getting away with it. I dealt with this for years and have left him several times. But before he was taking something that made him mean when he came down off of them. Then he started taking something that doesn't make him mean when he comes off of them. The last time I came back home, I had prayed to God and asked him to tell me in his word what to do. I found all kinds of verses telling me I should stay with him and I felt confident God had answered my question. Right after I moved in he got really bad back on the pills and I asked God why would he let things get worse, are you testing me? I love/hate him! He goes through stages where he stays straight for a while. Then he gets back on them. He has been doing it for the last week or so straight. I haven't said a word about knowing. What should I do? From a Biblical perspective. PLEASE ONLY A CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE OR A SENSIBLE NON-CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE. THIS IS A SERIOUS SITUATION.

In 13 years I have not been able to get him to get help. I wish he would realize he has a problem but he knows he went from taking handfuls of xanax to taking a couple of hydrocodones a day. So he thinks that shouldn't be a problem.

3 hours ago

Have you been taken away from a drug addicted parent by the other parent for your own safety?

I'm looking for teens or young adults whose parent took them away from a drug addicted parent to protect them. I want to know If the child, teen, young adult is bitter against the parent that took them away or if they are grateful.

I have a beautiful Granddaughter who's father is addicted to Crack and my daughter is getting close to just closing the door completely to even supervised visitation. There is no court order. The father would never spend the money to fight it. If she goes for a divorce then she will end up having to give him supervised visitation and it will probably end up being one of his family members who don't feel as strong on the subject as we do. We worry about them not making sure he is straight or keeping him from taking off etc.....

Anyway, If she just keeps him away from him I wonder how my granddaughter will feel about that when she gets older. Will she begrudge her mother or will she be happy her mother just wanted to protect her? Right now the baby is 9 months old. This has been an ongoing battle with the father and drugs.

Evolutionist believe that we descend from a type of ape. The only thing I have found close to the missing link is Michael Jackson and he had plastic surgery. lol My question would be if we evolved why isn't there something in between. I mean we still have Apes, monkeys or whatever...we have humans...I just don't understand where the phase in between is right now. Even if evolution takes many many years. Where is the Ape/human in between? Just Curious.

I just want to be able to ask a question to fellow Christians about the bible when I am studying and not get foul language and people bashing what I believe.

He relapsed the week before Christmas. She took him back at Christmas because he had been clean for a year. Then 2 weeks later he relapsed again. One of these incidences he came home to his wife and baby high. He is also addicted to alcohol and he has relapsed on that too. He says he is clean of both now but we are not so sure. We have no proof otherwise. My daughter has not filed anything as far as legal separation papers or divorce. That is an issue of money. He wants to have the child alone. He don't want supervision. If he has supervision he wants his mother to do it and she is an enabler. She don't want him to have unsupervised visitation. She wants to supervise or for me to supervise. We still love him but have no trust for him at all. The safety of my granddaughter is the real issue. He is allowed to come see her as often as he wants right now. (as long as he is straight) They have been together for 4.5 years. He was a crack head when she met him. Her #1 mistake. Her #2 mistake was thinking she could fix him like lots of women do. Her #3 mistake was to marry him. Her #4 mistake was getting pregnant right after he got out of rehab. But then he stayed sober for a year. Sober enough that I actually got to know the real him.

I am worried if she Ever gets back together with him that he will start again. (she don't plan to get back with him, she wants a divorce) I am worried that if she files for divorce and cannot prove he isn't doing well right now and he gets some sort of rights and the baby gets hurt in the process. I am worried that later on he will start and be taken away from her when she is older and it will really affect her. Right now she is 8.5 months. There are lots of bad scenarios that I can think of. Being a mom and a grandma I can think of them all. What do any of you suggest? Am I being irrational. Is my daughter? Should we give an inch? Would a judge give and inch?

Please be respectful and do not do that. If you have something nice to say then by all means, say it. Why be negative and hateful? God loves you and so do I!

You meet someone. They talk really nice, the things they say are fine, they look fine but you still get a bad feeling about them. I'm not talking about judging a book by it's cover kind of thing but just a bad feeling about someone who otherwise seems ok.

Just because 8 got on and 8 got off doesn't mean that some of the wives weren't already pregnant. Also, the gestation period of animals vary...some breeds could have bred several times. I was just wondering if God had put a stop to the breeding process before they got off the boat or if when he told them to breed and multiply when they were off...was that the only time allowed. Or did they begin multiplication while still on the ark to replenish the earth? My daughter asked me this question because of a children's book had a pic of 3 giraffes coming off the ark. She made a valid question....I know it is a children's book but It drew up this question.

Or did they have to wait until they came off the ark to begin breeding/multiplying?