lolita perez

I had no idea my ex husband was doing heroin. He got arrested for it and thats how I found out. I am a type of person that is very straight laced ,I dont accept that lifestyle,or anything related. I dont understand how people can have such little value for their health. I am not saying this is a wrong way,I am trying to describe how I am. People ask me why I didnt stay with him. Why should I stay with someone that is obviously selfish? Its very sad that he doesnt value his life,and he does heroin . At the same time I believe adults should know the difference between right and wrong. Am I wrong for totally cutting him off ,and divorcing him? I feel like all trust is out the window, Also , I feel like I am trying to talk to a person that doesnt feel the gravity of what I say. I can pour my heart out,and its like hes emotionless . Is that what drugs do to people?

I cant stand this time of year,especially after the time change. When the sun goes down ,what is there to do other than watch tv or go on the internet? Irun alot and it makes me feel a little better. Its like I feel like a zombie this time of year. Any suggestions ??....

I live in Northeast Ohio. I dont like winter and I dont like negative people.I have lived here for 29 yrs and I need to leave. I want somewhere safe and quaint ,but nice weather. I was thinking of Mt Pleasant South Carolina. I have read good things. Also

I am a 30yr old woman moving by myself . Am I crazy to move by myself?. I am going to leave with about 5 grand. I am planning on moving and paying for three months upfront ,and hope I find a job.has anyone ever done this?

I would love to live in the late 40's ,early 50's. Women were so feminine ,and men were so sexy and manly. Men took care of their little ladies. Women werent expected to go out and be annoying man-dike career women . It seems like there were actually values ,and life was simple. (I know people probably had financial troubles such as now) but in general ,men had stable jobs like Ford or steel mills,etc. Kids werent all psycho from eating chemical food and a woman was just expected to have kids. When you look at how clean cut and "together" and classy people look in photos from that era , they look like how classy families with lots of money look in modern day. I feel like having a love like my grandparents had is nonexistant. What happened? The Omish know whats up.They have everything.

I am sneaky ,I go into my husbands email account randomly. I was looking at his spam mail. I know that if someone goes to girlie (you know what I mean hint hint) websites ,they can produce that type of spam . Can the types of spam necessarily tell you exactly where they have been? It bothers me because there is a big amount of them for singles dating and hoe hookups. Does that mean anything .I dont want to accuse him of anything without knowing.